Hello! I am writing to you because of a very banal topic, namely weight. I am 18 years old, I am about 1.65 tall and weigh 63 kg. I feel good, but people around me tell me that I'm fat and I'm starting to limit myself a bit. I get calls like "you're just an ass" and the like, because I accumulate in this area, but also in the abdomen a little. I'm left with the impression that men like big asses, but I'm already starting to think about whether to take off a little. In general, I have never been thin, I have always been around 55 kg, I do not remember being under 52-53 kg (although I wanted to). Do you think I need to download a little? I would be grateful for both women and men to be involved. Thanks for your time.
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Darling, I am 20 years old and I weigh 67 kg. A year ago I was 40 kg, but my life turned upside down and I gained a lot of weight. I have a huge ass and breasts, but I don't have a belly, I'm the same as you. People started making fun of me, telling me that I was pregnant when I was so fat and such. I felt very sick. I went for a few months to England in a city where mostly only English people live and women weigh 80 kg most. The weak are only foreigners and there are rarely any. In the shops all L size clothes are bought, there are only small sizes left which suggests that the women are plump. On the streets I saw much bigger ass than mine. The men were weaker and were boyfriends with fat girls. They are like that and they have accepted them. I have been to over 10 countries in Europe and women are like that everywhere. Only in our country it is customary for women to weigh 40 kg and to have only bones and skin on it. However, I decided to be more confident. I wear a high-waisted clip above the navel and short blouses and I can see 4 fingers from my belly naked this summer and I don't care at all. When someone gets into a fight with me, I show him pictures of Niki Minaj and she has a big ass and walks with wedges and doesn't care about me. You should not miss to become about 80 kg, but for example try to maintain about 65 kg. To be decently rounded. Otherwise I'm just as tall as you. Let me tell you now, when I look at the old photos in a swimsuit where I am 40 kg, I don't like something there. Some flat, no breasts, no ass, my ribs are visible. So use the body you have as a plus, not a minus. I wear a high-waisted clip above the navel and short blouses and I can see 4 fingers from my belly naked this summer and I don't care at all. When someone gets into a fight with me, I show him pictures of Niki Minaj and she has a big ass and walks with wedges and doesn't care about me. You should not miss to become about 80 kg, but for example try to maintain about 65 kg. To be decently rounded. Otherwise I'm just as tall as you. Let me tell you now, when I look at the old photos in a swimsuit where I am 40 kg, I don't like something there. Some flat, no breasts, no ass, my ribs are visible. So use the body you have as a plus, not a minus. I wear a high-waisted clip above the navel and short blouses and I can see 4 fingers from my belly naked this summer and I don't care at all. When someone gets into a fight with me, I show him pictures of Niki Minaj and she has a big ass and walks with wedges and doesn't care about me. You should not miss to become about 80 kg, but for example try to maintain about 65 kg. To be decently rounded. Otherwise I'm just as tall as you. Let me tell you now, when I look at the old photos in a swimsuit where I am 40 kg, I don't like something there. Some flat, no breasts, no ass, my ribs are visible. So use the body you have as a plus, not a minus. You should not miss to become about 80 kg, but for example try to maintain about 65 kg. To be decently rounded. Otherwise I'm just as tall as you. Let me tell you now, when I look at the old photos in a swimsuit where I am 40 kg, I don't like something there. Some flat, no breasts, no ass, my ribs are visible. So use the body you have as a plus, not a minus. You should not miss to become about 80 kg, but for example try to maintain about 65 kg. To be decently rounded. Otherwise I'm just as tall as you. Let me tell you now, when I look at the old photos in a swimsuit where I am 40 kg, I don't like something there. Some flat, no breasts, no ass, my ribs are visible. So use the body you have as a plus, not a minus.
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It would be healthy for you. But without drastic diets. Rather, start recording what you eat during the day. When buying something, read the labels - ask what the nutritional value is, and what ingredients it has and whether they should be there. Changing habits, in my opinion, is the key. If you like sweets, see what besides sugar products you like and it is sweet, but less caloric. For example, instead of taking chocolate to buy milk and add fruit / make a smoothie or something else you like. Sandwiches / Ready-made frozen foods should not be taken. Always choose what is cooked. If you overdo it with bread, just reduce the amount a little. Try to eat more slowly, not to overeat. Such things with a little more movement and will have an effect, but you need perseverance.
Maybe you should also write what size of clothes you are, because I am 166 tall and weigh 60 kg, but my body is athletic and I am 36th size, ie I am not fat. Whether you need to lose weight, you have to decide for yourself and the people around you to accept it. If you like yourself in your current body then it's ok. You can simply track whether there is a tendency to continue to climb and increase what has happened in your diet or exercise regime. People are different and they like different things, so there are men for whom you are more attractive than a model with your current look. F33
Start exercising and see when and how you feel good in your skin. Weight is just a number - I'm 1.69 and weigh 65 kg, but many people tell me I'm like a stick ... so the ratio between your weight and height is not the best advisor. Lead an active lifestyle and try to feel okay, to be happy with what you are ... and not to see who liked what assholes and what was in fashion ... these things are temporary and thus you neglect yourself because of what sulo and pullo like.
You are not very tall and as you say it, 5-10 kilograms are a lot. You obviously don't care, which is the most important thing and it's great in principle. That men like big asses is not true. I would explain it with the saying - as there are no fish and crabs are fish. I personally prefer assholes like Ivet Lalova's, but I don't. It's not just the ass that's important. He has a face, a body, a character and so on. The point is that the combination of everything is good enough. If you have the opportunity to download, if not don't care.
I think you're fat and you have to limit yourself because you're getting on your ass and a little on your stomach. Not seriously, what do you expect us to tell you if we haven't seen you?
What big asses, what 5 levs, you're really fat. Take yourself in hand quickly, because you are only 18, if you do nothing, at 30 you will be 85 kg. I am 1, 77 tall and I am 62 kg and I need to lose a little weight, you ask about this height. It is not healthy at all.
You have to lose at least 10 kg, otherwise they will rightly call you meatballs :)
If you have a big ass, it does not mean that you are fat. Either girls who envy you or boys who don't like girls tell you that.
YOU ARE PERFECT! Yes, most men like it, no - WE LOVE big asses. And in general - despite the stereotype that mackerel is sexy, secretly most men prefer a woman to be plump. To have something to crush, which is called. So - dare not care.
It depends on how you feel, author. If you are bothered by weight, lose weight. If not - do not care what various complex unfortunates say. Because only an unfortunate complex would intentionally offend another person. A well-mannered person will not intentionally tell you anything that would hurt you, even if you want to be a hundred kilos. But for sports, I agree with number 6 - move and stand as much as you can, if possible outdoors. A person feels much better and starts his day differently if he has moved his ass in the morning :)
I think you're fine, but downloading a little won't be a problem. But don't upload more than that. I am 30 years old and I am 1.67 and I weigh 55 kg but last summer I was 51 kg and I plan to stop eating chocolate and chips to get them back ... it's easier for me somehow.
The curves that men prefer are shaped, not just big. An ass doesn't matter how big it is if it's relaxed. The same goes for the breasts. And the height-to-weight ratio is a bit invalid because there is a difference between muscle mass and fat. It took me an alarming amount of time to come to this conclusion, but I give it to you in advance. It has a difference between a big shaped ass and just a big ass, as well as between small breasts and small tight / sports / breasts. There will always be dissatisfied with big butts or small breasts / in my example /, but such is life. Some people don't like big butts, even if they are very trained. Others do not like small breasts, if they are in perfect shape and form. You can't please everyone, so please yourself and live by your rules.
Girl, people here have neither seen you nor know you - they still care whether you lose weight or not. If you really have a weirdo - the way to find out if you need to lose weight is one: you undress in front of the mirror and honestly admit to yourself whether you like what you see or not! If you like how your body looks with and without clothes, if you feel good in your skin like that, you are healthy and you have vitality and energy, live your life and you don't care who thinks what. However, if you yourself notice that there is a need for some improvements here and there and it will not be bad if a few rings evaporate, which may be more - then take action :)
I still remember a "fat woman" with whom I had a relationship for four years. And she's 160 by 65 kilograms somewhere, but the tits are tits, the ass is ass ... and sex ... I had so many sticks of 45 kilos ... nothing in common. Well, the important thing is how you feel. There will be a person to adore you as you are. Brother.
The question is not what the scale shows, but what you look like! If you don't believe me, look on the net for pictures of people of the same height and the same weight, who look very different. It's just that some people exercise and most of their weight is muscular, while others don't look fat and relaxed. So you can be more kg, but super tight and trained, you can be less kg, but you look relaxed and not well. As someone before you told you, don't just look at the number on the scales, but look in the mirror. If you like what you see, it doesn't matter what the scale shows! If you don't like it, start training, mainly to fix the "problem" area.