Hello, I want to ask you to give me advice, here is my story! Some time ago, quite by chance, I met a great, sweet, innocent girl. We fell in love with each other, we had a great time, everything went perfectly, a few months passed and she was about to go to study abroad. I still remember the moment I sent her away, I was crying, but I tried not to show it to her when I saw her crying, my heart was breaking. When I left we started arguing a lot, things were not going as before, I decided that we should separate because it was a long time and a lot of quarrels. She took it pretty badly, she thought I wasn't a man and I gave up on our relationship, but I think I saved a lot of trouble for both of them, no matter how sick I was to make that decision, no matter how much my heart ached. Time passed, I caught a new girlfriend, she 's not my type, but she' s the most understanding person I know, she gives so much of herself to be together, I see that she really cares about me. I can talk to her on any topic, I can talk to her as a boyfriend, as a friend, she is super open, she loves me, I love her, we didn't fight at all until recently (you'll find out below why). Months passed, and I could still see my ex-girlfriend posting about love, not giving up, etc., from which I understood that she still had feelings for me. Everything was going well, I thought to some extent I forgot my first love. All that changed when I saw a picture of her with her new boyfriend, I felt like someone was stabbing me in the heart, like my stomach was clenching into a fist. Every time it comes to her or I see a picture of her new friend and I get sick, my mood deteriorates, everything turns upside down, I start wanting it, I start remembering our good moments, etc. Then I started behaving strangely with my current girlfriend and she felt it, I want to give her everything, I want everything between us to be good, but my heart just says otherwise. My mind tells me to stay with my current girlfriend and my heart to start fighting for my ex. What do you think I should do, whether to stay with my current girlfriend or try to fight for my ex, is it unexperienced love or jealousy My mind tells me to stay with my current girlfriend and my heart to start fighting for my ex. What do you think I should do, whether to stay with my current girlfriend or try to fight for my ex, is it unrequited love or jealousy? My mind tells me to stay with my current girlfriend and my heart to start fighting for my ex. What do you think I should do, whether to stay with my current girlfriend or try to fight for my ex, is it unrequited love or jealousy?
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How are you going to fight boy? This is not a carpet. The new girlfriend, if she's right, stay with her, what do you think about the old one at all, she's already with someone else, if she decides to get together and you do this nonsense, how are you going to lie next to her, imagining what she did to them the boy in the pictures. Come on, fight now if you want.
You still love her, that's beyond doubt. You better end the relationship with your current girlfriend, because you're wasting hers and your time. And one piece of advice - find a way to clarify your relationship, and to pour out your soul to your ex-girlfriend, because otherwise your whole life will weigh on you because of the unclear situation. But, if you really love her so much, you better leave the other girl, because over time she will love you even more, and she will become even more attached to you, and finally when she realizes that you love another (and this it will certainly happen, no doubt) she will be infinitely hurt. The other option is to break off any relationship with your ex and just indulge in the new girl, because you describe her as conscientious and conscientious, and such women know and can get a man out of such a situation.
I think it might be a good idea to talk to your ex-girlfriend, you're with your current girlfriend anyway, you'll need to clarify their feelings for both.