I got the impression that most women are confused in their personal lives. They wonder between one or the other, they have cheated on their friend / husband with someone and do not know what to do, they have left for each other, they want someone, but he does not pay attention to them, so they are with another, etc. Or have a serious relationship, but flirt with a colleague, a salesman in the store or someone else you know. Yes, there are similar stories written by men, but they are much rarer. I'm not saying there are no men who cheat. There is no thrill, however, as a reason in a story written by a man who has cheated on his wife / girlfriend is very rare. Or do men not share I read a lot from the site, I remembered stories of friends with their intimate halves, ex-girlfriends and I don't like the result. The man must be confident, independent, successful, with a lucrative job, to play sports, to have a hobby, to pay attention to the woman next to him, but not to pay too much attention, to be funny, to be positive, to be a good listener, not to lie on the couch, not to drink a lot, to does not smoke or no more than the woman, not to show off, to be able to dance, to be a gentleman, to be kind, to be gentle (but not too much), etc. If it is possible to be physically beautiful and to be able to does a back flip. To listen to what he is told, but not always agree? !? I will not go on to say that the list is long. And if you accidentally answer everything, the indefinite will come - there is no thrill or I do not know what I want. Today's ladies have become extremely demanding. Or the longer the list, the more likely it is not to meet any of the desired qualities and the excuse to crook in countries with some others is there. The alternative is to make some effort to avoid getting there, but less and less is happening. The family sounds more and more old-fashioned. The word is beginning to become synonymous with difficulty. Loyalty, respect and reciprocity began to lose their meaning. I'm not perfect, but I know what I want and I don't act against the person next to me. I make an effort and avoid confusion with other women. Or do I have a confused idea of life? I will not hide that I found this site because of something happening to a girl I have feelings for, but based on previous connections the situation is similar. I write "something" because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is happening. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Turn me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general. The family sounds more and more old-fashioned. The word is beginning to become synonymous with difficulty. Loyalty, respect and reciprocity began to lose their meaning. I'm not perfect, but I know what I want and I don't act against the person next to me. I make an effort and avoid confusion with other women. Or do I have a confused idea of life? I will not hide that I found this site because of something happening to a girl I have feelings for, but based on previous connections the situation is similar. I write "something" because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is happening. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Turn me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general. The family sounds more and more old-fashioned. The word is beginning to become synonymous with difficulty. Loyalty, respect and reciprocity began to lose their meaning. I'm not perfect, but I know what I want and I don't act against the person next to me. I make an effort and avoid confusion with other women. Or do I have a confused idea of life? I will not hide that I found this site because of something happening to a girl I have feelings for, but based on previous connections the situation is similar. I write "something" because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is happening. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Take me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general. but I know what I want and I do not act against the person next to me. I make an effort and avoid confusion with other women. Or do I have a confused idea of life? I will not hide that I found this site because of something happening to a girl I have feelings for, but based on previous connections the situation is similar. I write "something" because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is happening. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Turn me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general. but I know what I want and I do not act against the person next to me. I make an effort and avoid confusion with other women. Or do I have a confused idea of life? I will not hide that I found this site because of something happening to a girl I have feelings for, but based on previous connections the situation is similar. I write "something" because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is happening. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Turn me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general. because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is going on. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Turn me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general. because I don't have an exact explanation of what exactly is going on. If I am affected, my opinion may be wrong and I may not be right. Turn me down then ... I believe that there are exceptions and I do not want to lose my respect for the ladies in general.
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You are right, Author, that today's ladies have "become" very demanding, but I do not think that we are more demanding than yesterday's ladies - since the dawn of time the woman has carefully chosen her partner, because for us to give in to a man means risk to get pregnant, ie to stay with a child in our arms. It is only natural then that women since the dawn of the world have chosen self-confident, ABLE men who CAN and WANT to look after their families, and men without self-confidence and desire to live have never been successful among women. The demands on men have always been in a nutshell - 200,000 years ago it was even harder, because then you had to go around the woods with a bodzugan and try to hit something to eat - who was a bad hunter also had no success among women - this process is called NATURAL SELECTION and as you will not go with a sick, too weak / a fat, ugly woman without teeth, and no normal woman will go with an insecure man. Don't take it personally, we're just looking for the best genes and the best fathers for our children. Take down the bar for women and you will always find one ... or if you want a beautiful, successful, healthy and young woman next to you - grab and tighten. Everyone has a choice. It is up to you to change yourself, you cannot change others. we are just looking for the best genes and the best fathers for our children. Take down the bar for women and you will always find one ... or if you want a beautiful, successful, healthy and young woman next to you - grab and tighten. Everyone has a choice. It is up to you to change yourself, you cannot change others. we are just looking for the best genes and the best fathers for our children. Take down the bar for women and you will still find one ... or if you want a beautiful, successful, healthy and young woman next to you - grab and tighten. Everyone has a choice. It is up to you to change yourself, you cannot change others.
Don't you have requirements for the opposite sex? The qualities you have listed about a man determine the perfect man, I don't think you need to cover all these points to find a decent girl. But being independent is a fundamental thing, and I think it applies to both sexes. So if you are confident and successful, you are looking for such a woman. Your conflict may come from the fact that you come across women with many requirements, and they themselves do not cover them.
It depends. The one who is paid attention to, the one who is cared for and others in this family have the right to be confused. So if you're a man who doesn't have a stream of fans, no, you have no right to be confused, simply because even saying that, even in such a state, won't make sense, because there will be no one to care. So far with the irony. Women often use the word confusion simply because there are many monkeys ready for anything for them. Because each of them would do a chamber of nonsense to prove himself in the name of eternal inseparable love. Also, the word in question can be used when things go to hell, when there is nothing to say against the background of a bunch of actions other than spoken words and what not. So an author, strange as it may sound, someone's confusion or thinking about someone's confusion,
Author, women think they are looking for the best genes, but in fact they almost always find the worst. Now I will kill their illusions - each person is a sum, but not only from the genes of his mother and father (most often studied by the ladies together with the chosen one), but also from the genes of grandparents, great-grandparents and even uncles. . Not every gene can be easily detected - some do not appear from an early age or during puberty. In fact, because of the glossy cover, you also take things that you would otherwise reject. Corollary: You need to change your selection criteria because the current ones don't do much. For reference - the growing number of topics in the style of "My friend raped me!", "He beats me" and "My husband cheats on me!" Do you want to pass these genes on to the next generations - the bullies, the abusers and the infidels of your partner? And without excuses like "That's how he expresses his love - with punches!" Or "Men can't be faithful!". So it turns out that I loved dandelions the most in this life (and even as a child) and I'm not even a man, and both statements are false, dear ladies. If you haven't known me, then fortunately I know each other very well. Not men, but the likenesses of men cheat and beat - real men do not need such means of expression to make their wife feel loved and they themselves feel good in their skin. Thank you for your attention! :( and both statements are false, dear ladies. If you haven't known me, then fortunately I know each other very well. Not men, but the likenesses of men cheat and beat - real men do not need such means of expression to make their wife feel loved and they themselves feel good in their skin. Thank you for your attention! :( and both statements are false, dear ladies. If you haven't known me, then fortunately I know each other very well. Not men, but the likenesses of men cheat and beat - real men do not need such means of expression to make their wife feel loved and they themselves feel good in their skin. Thank you for your attention! :(
Hello! Author, I can tell you that the list you started to list is made up of women who do not know what they want. My list is short. To be principled and to know yourself. It is always more pleasant to communicate with people with a value system and self-confidence. With this list you are looking for an ox calf. Do you want the girl or not? It's all a matter of choice. If you dig deeper, you will see as good as it is bad. The more "for", the more "against". Do you want the girl?
Author, it is obvious that you have doubts. I want to know what the girl is doing that doesn't inspire confidence in you? What is this "thing" that you cannot define? Concerning confusion, it is natural to be confused. Especially if you are young, in the process of clarifying what you want and seek from life. I am in a situation of such a "thing". And I'm trying to figure out what to do. And I can say that I do it indefinitely. I haven't licked and I definitely know what I'm looking for. However, it so happened that it is quite possible for the person to think that I have written him off or something like that. And I'm not. I am contradictory, but by no means windy. By which I mean that you may feel confused in your attempt to understand it. Tell me a little more about your story with her. What is difficult for you to understand in it?
My story: even if you want to, it is difficult to understand something that is not explained to you or is explained vaguely. I did not want a personal explanation. But the fact that I was not given one is indicative enough of the attitude towards me. Well, at least I didn't go down without explaining myself first. So in this case, whether I want the girl or not, it doesn't matter much. You try for a while and as it doesn't work, no matter how hard it is for you, you continue. To N6: And in your story it is unclear - what are you looking for in life and what does this have to do with the person next to you? When you haven't written it off, I ask myself the questions: why aren't you with him or why don't you explain to him exactly what is happening so that he doesn't stay with wrong thinking? This is difficult for me to understand.
To the Author from Number 6 In principle, I am of this opinion, but the man I have not "written off" ... well, we did not have a real relationship with him. Nor have we met. There were just some misunderstandings. A battle between stubbornness and pride. Nobody is looking for anyone. Now you will say why I did not look for him. There is an emotion factor - being around him and becoming super emotional. It may sound infantile, but all I want to do when he's near me is run away. And who knows, maybe he wrote me off. Otherwise I agree. You'll excuse me, but this one of yours, if she didn't feel like giving you an explanation, is either looking for a pathetic way to end it, or it's just a duck. In both cases ... he's looking for a better girl. Otherwise such girls hurt. It is difficult to find one with which to feel the fire. And the funny thing is, that a lot of us (I'm referring to myself) when we find this person and fuck everything. I wish you success!