Hello, Recently I notice that some of my friends on Facebook post photos with their halves and a text to them: "He is the love of my life!", "She is my whole world!" "Before I met her, I did not really live ! "etc. If it is written by a woman, I am more inclined to understand. It amazes me when a man publishes such content at the age of over 30. I wonder how many of you think it's okay to post such outpourings on social media? Do you think that the people who write them are really strongly and emotionally in love with their partners, or are they looking for attention, ostentation, and why not envy among their friends on social networks (especially those who are single)? If you truly love someone, aren't you afraid to announce them to the whole virtual world?
Answers 14
It is somewhat vanity to receive attention and approval from others. For likes, as it is called. And they are funny to me when they take over, especially men. For the simple reason that if boyfriends change often, or is he so in love with each one? My ex posted similar things, now he puts them on for his new one. Exactly the same expressions and quotes as for me when I was the only one. A little fake, huh? A lot of people do it for attention and to show how happily they are in love. Two or three photos are enough for me, but without sweet tales of eternal love. This year is the only one, next year or another. And so on until only one appears, who will be a wife, a mother, and with whom they will grow old.
They are pathetic, like everyone for whom social networks are too important. If you are still together almost all the time and you really love each other, why share these great moments with everyone there ...
It's perfectly fine and is quite common on Facebook. Today an acquaintance has a birthday and I sent her a wish card, a cake card, a teddy bear card and wishes with a heart on her Facebook page. It's just done on Facebook, you have to be enthusiastic and positive hahahahaha :-)))
"When you truly love," ... wait. Who among us can boldly say what true love really is? Isn't it subjective in the perceptions of each of us, just like the feeling of intimacy? Don't we experience it as we can and understand? Personally, I am much more displeased with the personalities on Facebook, who only complain, write tearful or angry statuses in an hour, take pictures of their naked asses (and other ... works) of newborn babies, etc., but on the other hand couples are sweet to me. I am glad to see that two people, especially people who have been together for many years, still maintain the spark in their own way, hang out, like their statuses. This, of course, is my personal understanding, and both they, the lovers, and the mothers with the babies and the roaring maidens have their right to express their feelings. I don't judge anyone for the way he uses the platform, that's why he has it. If something has completely crossed the boundaries, it should be sanctioned for ugly content, the other is according to the understandings of the individual. :) I am mostly inspired by the men you are talking about, men over 30 who boldly express their feelings and declare to the world: "this is the woman I love; with her I see my future, I work for my relationship with her". This is a good example in my eyes. I admire this type of behavior, for me it is bold and a cause for pride. who boldly express their feelings and declare to the world: "this is the woman I love; with her I see my future, I work for my relationship with her." This is a good example in my eyes. I admire this type of behavior, for me it is bold and a cause for pride. who boldly express their feelings and declare to the world: "this is the woman I love; with her I see my future, I work for my relationship with her." This is a good example in my eyes. I admire this type of behavior, for me it is bold and a cause for pride.
People like to be filmed and thus seek attention. Such are most. Most women do even more. It is always important for them to be watched, to be occupied, to like things. And they don't realize that these are empty things.
Everyone is different, with a different psyche. For example, I don't share anything about myself on social media, but I don't mind people who like to do it. What is strange to you is normal to other people, and vice versa. I still didn't understand what it means for you what different people share or not, especially on social networks ?! But, if I have to think about a topic set by you - well, I think it's the exact opposite of what you think, ie. rather, it is as if women are posting and announcing more attention (it), while men seem to me to be much more sincere in their 'outpourings' on the net ... it's just my personal opinion, I may not be right. ж31
I have not seen a smart person post such statuses. But since most people are not smart, it is normal to be full of such statuses.
Posts on Facebook express how we want others to perceive us and mean absolutely nothing. "She is the world", "Love of life", "The only and unique" and similar nonsense most likely the woman wrote them. As a man, I cannot pronounce such ligatures in a serious voice.
I personally do not have a profile on social networks. And I don't care who uploads what photos. His page is his personal space - whatever he wants, to fill it as soon as he follows the rules. If you don't like it, don't look. Why do you dig through people's profiles? You don't have any other more meaningful activities, obviously.
I noticed that around me who uploads such photos with hearts and statuses cheats, so as not to pretend to be clowns. I don't upload anything for my boyfriend.
Number 10 is right. I remember 3 attractive men, in whose profiles you can find such ligatures, but not just something nice, but ligatures. For 2 of them I am sure that they are cheating, and for the 3rd I have strong suspicions. I'm talking about men, not teenagers. Well, true, in one profile his wife wrote, if not all, then most of these things. I know from him that some of the posts in his profile are her work. But in front of people they look very much in love. . . do not understand it. But everyone is crazy with their number
How do I express myself now? It's not illegal to post emotional texts online, I don't, but I don't mind people even uploading such information on a daily basis. It doesn't bother me, it's not bad, it doesn't hurt anyone. I believe that these people are either very much in love and their emotions are reflected in this way, or in some way they love ostentation. I have been in love and I am extremely aware of what it is like to want to shout to the whole world that a person is perfect. True lovers do not have eyes for others, they just want to love their partner. People who show off may cheat on a daily basis, but want to flaunt online the "perfect relationship" they've had for years. As a bystander, I do not draw conclusions from Facebook statuses. In my eyes, everything is relative and a relationship can never be judged well if you are not in it.
From the author: Thank you to everyone who commented on the topic! I try not to reveal my personal life on social networks and to be more protective. Of course, everyone is different. I'm not bothered by their statuses, I just wondered if they were true. If I'm in love, I share it with my partner, relatives and friends, but not on Facebook. To number 9: Facebook shows content according to its algorithm. I don't have to rummage through people's profiles. :) To number 10: In fact, anything is possible in this world. Come to think of it, I have a girlfriend who is dating a married man. This same gentleman on social media "loves" his wife, or at least these are the words of my friend. Strange fact! The comment on number 12 is quite comprehensive. For some, the statuses are true, and for others, dust in the eyes.
Almost all the couples I know even have breakfasts and dinners, labeled "I love you, my beautiful one!", With a tag, of course. All the breaks, the walks, even the walk to the store. At the same time, they cheat, lie, etc. Well, I'm sorry, but ... complete nonsense. I have had a serious, happy relationship for almost 10 years. We don't have a single shared photo (except for a few random ones from parties), we don't take selfies, we don't tag, we don't write statuses on Facebook, we don't even like things. And the strange thing is that people do not realize that while you are with the person and you are happy, then at this moment you do not have time for this nonsense and do not think about it. Recently, a distant acquaintance even asked me if we were still together, because she had not seen any posts on Facebook. Rough! : D Well, so ... I think this publicity is fake and not worth it.