Hello, I have a relationship with a boy, the problem is that I do not know if we have a future together. I am studying a serious and difficult specialty that requires reading and deprivation, and he has long since completed something completely different from what I am studying. Now he works, but not in his specialty, and his work is paid, but it is difficult, in a very risky environment and does not require any special education. The problem is that there are intelligent people around me, my environment is like that, while he and the people around him are on another level - they do not have high expectations from life, they have enough apartment and family, so I can drive to old age, but for example, to go abroad, to take risks, to develop or at least to manage on their own to go on a trip abroad - absurd. The boy just makes a living, he has enough money, he loves me, but I have the feeling that he is pulling me down.
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There is always a future when the two love and understand each other. We are different people, each with his own goals and fears. That he doesn't want to take risks doesn't make him stupid, nor does it take him to a lower level. The person prefers security and the little things in life, he should not be in a high position, as long as he has money for his family and buys an apartment. But you hardly have a future because you feel that you are not on the same level, you want different things in life. You will finish and start aiming higher than he wants. In your eyes he will bring you down, and according to him you will be too ambitious and eternally dissatisfied. Anything is possible if you agree to live under one roof, understand each other and do not criticize each other, but otherwise it is torture for both of you.
Well, it's up to the couple. Until you decide that you have a future or that you wouldn't stay together for anything in the world. Everyone feels it differently. And decide in time, because the line between love and the deepest and eternal hatred is blurred. Until you lift your eyes from the ground and turn out to be the greatest enemy of the beloved. He wants me to do like him, I can't and I want him to start like me. But I drive him to things that kill him. Not indifference, but he hates me because all he wants in this world now and in the future is never to measure himself against him. And I was still imagining myself in his arms. He must be removing me so he doesn't kill me the way I annoy him. This must come to him if he ever remembers.
If your job is more important than the person next to you, say goodbye to him and move on with your life, but after 10 years you are alone and you see that your career and profession will not bring you happiness, you will regret it.
It's up to you if you have a future together.
No, give up while it's early. Watch your exams, learn how to cope later in life, not because of love after a while wondering how to make ends meet
one couple will have a future, another will not, everything is individual and depends on the people. If you feel good in this relationship, if you are happy and love him - you will have a future. Listen to your heart and inner voice.
I don't think it's good for either of you if you think you're at a higher level. It is healthy (physically and mentally) for adults, and especially for potential children, when parents respect and value each other, when they are NOT underestimated. For the two of you specifically, there is no way to draw conclusions from what has been written, but: yes, the environment is important, but in such a world, money is also important. On the other hand, a person may have a high level, but because of the money he has chosen a well-paid profession, in whose field the mass of people are not at a high intellectual level. And I don't see anything wrong with that. In conclusion, if you can't swallow what it is and if it doesn't satisfy you as it is, it's best to separate. And whether in time you will look at things from another angle or strengthen your opinion is already a completely separate topic. In any case, the specific question has been reached, and this speaks more than enough. Find a man who will satisfy you and let him have a chance to find a woman who will respect him. Happiness! w 30