I'm very sick, I'm 19 and I haven't had sex yet. I had 3-4 boyfriends, but I still didn't have sex. However, I think that the problem is that I do not have much self-confidence because I am plump 180 cm. 100 kg. I'm not some dried fat thing I go out have fun I have friends, etc. But I think I'm very fat and I'm not confident. Even girls and ex-boyfriends have told me that "big beauties" fell in love with them. Indeed, when I look in the mirror I find myself beautiful (like radiation) but when I look down and see my belly and I feel sick and I think that no girl will like me and it all affects my behavior and posture and I start to become more and more complex. When I see a beautiful girl and I dare not look at her because I think she will think "this fat guy is looking at me". Don't tell me to go to the gym and similar diets because nothing works, I've lost 5-10 kg so many times. and more but my maximum is 100. At one time I was even 115 but I said goodbye. So I really want to have sex but I think about a million things. I am very fat, will it happen to me, will I not finish quickly, will I not expose myself, etc. So my question is whether women fall in love with nice big fat people. It's just that my "yeast" all in the genus are thick but with nice clean features. I don't know, you will advise me. Thanks in advance. whether I will not finish quickly, whether I will not expose myself, etc. So my question is whether women fall in love with nice big fat people. It's just that my "yeast" all in the genus are thick but with nice clean features. Abe I don't know you will advise me. Thanks in advance. whether I will not finish quickly, whether I will not expose myself, etc. So my question is whether women fall in love with nice big fat people. It's just that my "yeast" all in the genus are thick but with nice clean features. I don't know, you will advise me. Thanks in advance.
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Beauty is a relative concept. For some you are beautiful, for others you are not. I am a girl and I tell you quite honestly that your description (180 cm 100 kg belly, etc.) is my ideal for a man. Yes, quite honestly! :) My friend keeps telling me how could such a beautiful girl like me, who can have any man be with such a bump like him. But this is my taste, a man should be big, big and masculine, not with a body like a stick. I don't know you, but from your description I think you're very cool. Get rid of worries and complexes, they prevent you from succeeding with girls, not weight. Don't follow diets, be who you are :) But still, if you want to train something, go to the gym, run or whatever you decide. This will help your self-esteem.
Hi :) I really think the biggest problem is in your head. I'm a 19-year-old girl ... let me tell you, you're kind of right that most girls my age are a little embarrassed by fuller boys, but that's because most girls are frivolous and think that if you're not someone muscular type from chalga videos, you don't get up. But this is not the case. I have a few girlfriends who are very cool and go with pretty fat guys. However, you need to relax, be fun and sociable, and not show in any way that you are worried about your weight. You can even make fun of yourself. So no one will look at this in you, but they will accept you as the funny dude. Relax a little and calm down- I understand that you are a gnome and that you are 100 kg, but you are tall :) Come on :)
You don't care what you look like! Being a little more physically gifted is no problem, believe me! Women really like men of our caliber. PP :. I am 185 tall and I weigh 125 kilos :)
I'm sorry - they don't like each other. Women fall for fallen drug addicts, robbers, liars and the lowest slag in society. There is even proof on this site where most women tell their stories with "irresistible drug addicts" who simply ... can't resist! Dude, I'm just like you, I even made my own set at 19 and I thought it was very important and had some meaning in real life. Well, no. All this is hammered into our heads by others haha. Whatever you want to do, but from personal observations I understood (not that it's something new!) That women are starting to look for wealthy men with stable incomes and a life of about 25-30 years. So tighten up for now if you now think you are unattractive. Women your age and around are looking for manifestos of "male strength," muscular men, drug addicts, and all sorts of other "bad boys." These are transient things. Burn your mind, look after your work and personal development ... be a dude and you will find a girl. Women are chickens. Most are quite clear and have the same psychology. The same buttons and knobs and mentality, biological mentality I mean. The coolest thing is when you find a woman who is unusual, unpredictable, a little crazy ...;) Well, at least for me this is the best. Cheers!
Personally, I was dating a chubby boy at the time - he looked more masculine than fat, but he also had an awful lot of complexes about his appearance ... and we didn't have sex because of that, and I lost him - he had too low self-esteem. Women need dominant men, your weight is an advantage rather than a disadvantage, remember this and learn to play this trump card correctly :) In the relationship between boys and girls, appearance is never the most important, I personally do not I shine with no beauty, I don't wear make-up and I wear very ordinary clothes - jeans and denim, but I've always had more "admirers" than more beautiful girls, simply because I have other qualities to stand out with ... the only thing you need is a mind, a sense of humor, supposedly being able to have a conversation with a girl, not thinking "how fat I am" but thinking "how baked I am, wow how I impressed her :)". The other thing I recommend and the last one, since I've gone too far with writing already, is not to think that girls are perfect, everyone has some other "body" defect and everyone has a part of their body that they don't like (I don't like nose: P) ... no one is perfect and everyone compensates for some shortcoming with some other good quality ... think who is your strongest asset :) Good luck and I hope I was useful
Hello Friend. I'm 21 years old. We don't know each other, but I had a similar problem, but now it's all behind me. The problem is really in yourself. Self-esteem is a very important thing and you have to stop this nonsense so you are not even that fat. There are girls with different tastes. I already have a girlfriend who loves me and we have sex. I'm plump too, but I don't care if I say dates. I make dumps, they refuse me, and not infrequently, but there are also those who like me. But it's all in your head, you don't have to care that much. And for these other nonsense, the others that are spinning in your head is something completely normal, it has happened to everyone to become a blade. But everyone has been there. You don't care at all. You think too much. Go ahead girls a lot and really believe me there are girls who like and like us. I tell you from experience. Even if they refuse you, you try the next one. Good luck and scratch again when there is something or even not
Well, I honestly don't understand how you can ask yourself such questions and get depressed and complex on your own. Beauty, what does it mean, we can't please everyone, for some you won't be beautiful, for others you will be perfect. If you want a serious relationship, it won't be because of how you look, at least you shouldn't be, but because of what you really are. And even if some women like nicely round men, and when I read your height and weight, I don't think you're fat at all. Maybe plump, but not fat. And this is not a problem, I am more than sure that you will meet a girl and not just one for whom you will be more than ideal. Just don't get complex and don't undermine your self-esteem. Raise your head proudly and move forward boldly. I am sure that soon you will experience this much desired moment of pleasure;) :)
Well, as a woman I can say that number 4 is talking complete nonsense, I just feel sorry for him because he obviously knows only some vile whores with absolutely no thought in his head and no prospect in life. It is a pity that he is surrounded by such people. It is clear what he is. Well, I am 19 years old and I have a friend for whom I am dying. He is not rich, on the contrary, I come from a very wealthy family. My friend is 185 tall and weighs 120 kg. But I love him with all my heart and soul. I am quite weak and I deal with fashion. I don't think I've dropped any, as most women are described by the gentleman under number 4. So darling, it doesn't matter what you look like. It matters who you really are. I can tell you what women really don't like - men without self-confidence.
Well, I'm a 20-year-old girl and to be honest, I don't like dried pliers at all. A real man must be stable, big and masculine. I'm more than sure you're just like that. So darling up your head and drive it more optimistically, there is no point in complexes. They only hurt you. Weight is by no means an obstacle to finding a girl, but what is inside your head. Repeat several times a day while looking in the mirror "I'm the coolest dude in town" and little by little you will believe these words and so it should be;) I wish you much success and all the best :)
I personally think you are a dream boy.
author ... Thank you very much everyone helped me a lot. I had a lot of success these days I was accepted to the university I wanted and the specialty I wanted and I am quite happy and I do not remember my complexes at all and I look forward boldly. I will be in a new environment with new people, everything is changing and I think I will be the "biggest boiler" :). And again, I helped you a lot and you really have a lot of cool people on this site who are not bloated but are super human (who are rare in this world where money already plays a very big role). I wish you all a lot of success.
Look darling ... I'll tell you, that's not the case with some girls. In this part of them, the appearance and the figure are important, and the appearance and the character. If you have a kind and good character, don't worry, girls will be found .. (: .. Personally, I'm one of them .. It even happened to me. I was in love with a boy like you .. But nothing happened (not because we had no desire) we were just very good friends ... Well, on the topic .. It doesn't matter your weight ... His courage is his mother ... greetings: Polly (:
Dude, 24 years old, 95 kg 184 cm tall. I have a belly and even for my regret a little bigger hips :) Now I don't have time to go to the gym, but only sometimes I go for a run, but I think my problem is more genetic, because I have a lot of bone marrow in hip area. But anyway to say my opinion. Until a few years ago, I thought like you. I wondered how fat I was and how every woman just looked at it. And I was constantly depressed and complex on this topic. I thought that when I met a woman she would think "ehh how fat he is" Now that I think about it, I feel like kicking myself from behind. Understand the problem is in your head! Just stop thinking about that nonsense and act natural. If you have done everything possible to lose weight, take it for granted and start liking yourself. Only when you like yourself will you have the confidence to meet new cool babes and make progress with them. In my opinion, the woman harasses the man who is a dude and has self-confidence and behaves naturally. So the problem is in your head. And also to say that since I changed my way of thinking, not that I have slept with thousands of women, but my success has gone up several times, and when I get rejected from somewhere, I do not bother my psyche to blame myself for losing me for I'm big. No matter how fat you are, knowing how to behave with women, showing class in behavior and the ability to have an interesting and fun conversation, and dressing, I'm pretty sure you'll even have poor people :) In my opinion, the woman harasses the man who is a dude and has self-confidence and behaves naturally. So the problem is in your head. And also to say that since I changed my way of thinking, not that I have slept with thousands of women, but my success has gone up several times, and when I get rejected from somewhere, I do not bother my psyche to blame myself for losing me for I'm big. No matter how fat you are, knowing how to behave with women, showing class in behavior and the ability to have an interesting and fun conversation, and dressing, I'm pretty sure you'll even have poor people :) In my opinion, the woman harasses the man who is a dude and has self-confidence and behaves naturally. So the problem is in your head. And also to say that since I changed my way of thinking, not that I have slept with thousands of women, but my success has gone up several times, and when I get rejected from somewhere, I do not bother my psyche to blame myself for losing me for I'm big. No matter how fat you are, knowing how to behave with women, showing class in behavior and the ability to have an interesting and fun conversation, and dressing, I'm pretty sure you'll even have poor people :) that she lost me for being big. No matter how fat you are, knowing how to behave with women, showing class in behavior and the ability to have an interesting and fun conversation, and dressing, I'm pretty sure you'll even have poor people :) that she lost me for being big. No matter how fat you are, knowing how to behave with women, showing class in behavior and the ability to have an interesting and fun conversation, and dressing, I'm pretty sure you'll even have poor people :)
Wow, not like mine, do you think you're fat?
Everyone who has commented so far is very right except 4. For example, I do not like men who are thin. I just think a man should be big, not like a girl, but that's my opinion. And I don't think you're fat, maybe plump, but not fat. And I find it very sweet when a man is a little shy (not very complex, because it hurts him). :) Good luck and don't worry about your body !!!
Dude, I'm 18, 185 cm 110 kg. and I was constantly asked the same questions as you and a soft soul. So one day I fell in love with a girl (this is my second love and strongest), I tell you I gave everything for her and after 2 months we quarreled. A friend of mine decided to please us and the cat mentioned where I study and what my name is, she answered "aaa the fat one?" and this oppressed me cruelly and this same friend of mine said "upside down" and we have cared for him ever since. So keep your head up and don't care at all :)
It's not about the weight, but about the character and self-confidence .. I have a friend who is baked, free and fun and had everyone he wanted .. honestly .. :)
It is true that nowadays the fashion is to be muscular, even a stone, and to be with a chalgar type chick, but there are people who do not care that they do not follow fashion. For example, an acquaintance weighs 40 kg and her boyfriend is close to 100. They do not care that they look weird as a couple, because they were told that they "do not fit", but they did not worry at all and love each other in spite of everyone. So don't worry!
I'm a boy of 14 and I can tell you that boys need to be bigger, able to protect their boyfriend / wife, etc ... if you've heard a song by Crisco "Because it's a monkey" It's sung there "meter and 90, 130 kilograms ..." ie the girls want protection;) don't worry though as they say "for every frog there is a goal"
You are 20 kg overweight. I don't know if those pounds are mostly muscle or fat, because I haven't seen you. If it's bacon its nicely rounded. It also depends on your structure. I've seen men like you and it's not ugly. But I have also seen those who are 40, 50 kg overweight and, to put it mildly, repulsive. To me, this is a weak-willed person who is not supported. Greed is a vice. Like alcoholism, for example. Imagine a woman with 20 kg of overweight - will you want her?
You want masculine ... sorry but it's one thing to be fat it's another to be masculine .... if my uncle is 90 kilos and when I saw him .. don't lose your self-esteem but I personally .. ammi I'm sick of such .. if you want to offend me not everyone wants someone to crush them ..
It all depends on how your weight is distributed, if you are tall and tight there is no problem, but if you are some loose jelly ... sorry dude, but very few girls will fall for that.
You fat people are fucking complexes ... All your life you've been complaining about how no one liked you, but you didn't find time for a little fitness to lose weight ... And if you like to be bumpy, start working and collect some money you will see how women will come to you alone ...