In principle, I would say immediately - NO, if someone asks me this question. But over the years I have gathered a significant number of cases that make me think about this topic. I wonder if you do it and if you are looking for contact with the person in question how you do it or would do it.
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Personally, I do not regret and do not accept that things with a person did not turn out as a "drop". Apparently he wasn't my man, I'm moving on and that's it :)
I am very sorry. I looked for him, showed him that I wanted him, but he had nothing to do with me anymore. He was nice but cool. It hurt a lot, but I had to try. Greetings!
No, at least not yet.
Yes, I am unconditionally sorry that I missed a certain person. I'm not looking for contact because it's been a while.
I'm sorry, no. Rather, I wondered if, if I had given him a chance, it would have happened between us :)
My daughter's teacher had mentioned that someone who is now a big businessman had once taken her down and she had cut him off. She was very sorry now. But she obviously regrets not the man herself, but the money she lost. And this teacher. Although I don't believe he took her down because he left where he is now rich, but he's also a pretty handsome man and she somehow doesn't fit in with his level, but my thought is that no woman regrets missing out. some man. See that she dropped the money, she may be sorry.
They only regret those who passed them once and abandoned them. Even if they don't admit it, there is always someone who has charmed them and broken their "heart". Naturally in quotes, it's actually about the ego. Otherwise, a woman never regrets a man who stayed with her, cared for her, loved her ... Because he failed to affect the ego and, on the contrary - he became a man without an ego (pon from their point of view), and from there - nothing for them. We men are the other way around and this is a discrepancy that needs to be taken care of.
No. I'm just sorry he didn't appreciate me when it was time. And he only remembered when he was disappointed in the other.
They feel much more sorry than men, at least that's for sure, don't ask a woman about anything, they won't answer you honestly in 98% of cases.
I'm not sorry that I "missed" someone, but I have remorse that I once insulted with indifference a few guys about whom I can't say anything bad - there was just no interest on my part. Now, maybe 15 years later, I wish I had maintained a warmer relationship with them, because they are smart and good people and we could be great friends.
There is no way to "miss" someone. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Otherwise, yes, I thought and blamed myself for not doing something that could possibly have saved a relationship with a man. But from the point of view of time, I understood that even if I stood on the front stand, things would not have developed, because it depends on both. Men, sometimes a woman says goodbye to you to test you, not because she wants to. If you do not read the signal correctly and do not keep it, for her it is a sign that you do not want it. And it usually is.
Sorry for just one. It is not entirely accurate to say that I missed it, rather there were initially very problematic circumstances and I think there was never a real chance. I can't say how a relationship with a person like him would develop, there were a lot of disturbing things. But I liked it a lot and we matched in a very nice way.
Yes, but it is rather a subjective feeling that appears in moments of loneliness and despair from intimate relationships in general. When something doesn't work for you in the present, you start going back to the past with questions like, "What if I had acted like you, if I had given someone a chance, what would have happened? Wouldn't it have been better for me?" better? ", etc. One simply begins to look for the reasons for one's current dissatisfaction with past events and to feel a subconscious sense of guilt for missed opportunities that may have had a chance to make us happier than we are now. But realistically, abstracting from all this, there is no point in regretting that you "missed" someone, because if you really wanted to let them in and create a relationship with them, you would just do it, whereas there was no lack of desire on the part of the respondent. Just think about how the word "missed" sounds in itself - it's like a drowning man who dropped the straw he could have grabbed. This applies to both men and women in my opinion.
At the age of 40, for the first time, I regret a missed opportunity. But I rather regret the haste before and that my heart was not free when He appeared. He just didn't stand a chance at this point! I was "in love" with another and would not allow the intervention of a third person. :( The beauty, the shine and the custom car were there even then, but it rather demotivated me, because it gave the impression of a superficial person who prepared the bait for fishing. I met him 11 years ago and I obviously subconsciously let him down because he he tried to get closer to me and he already had some intentions before he realized I wasn't free. And he understood it in a slightly awkward way. I thought he knew until he invited me for coffee. I refused, but even then he didn't it occurred to me to explain to him why, he had invented some innocent legend (and whoever lies to me, does not win) to stay alone for a while and then have to take me, and I naively believed and did not even assume that it could be pre-planned and that he does it for me. When he found out, he showed respect for my relationship and was friendly with both me and my then-boyfriend. I met him a few more times because he didn't live in the same city and I haven't seen him (live) since. I don't know why, I wasn't in love with him, I didn't want anything, I just liked him visually (and in a short time he managed to change the initial impression), but over the years, in moments of weakness, when I'm sad, many times it occurred to me to think of him. Just like a flash, I can't even explain to myself why. 10 years later, these "flashes" became more frequent and I even tried to search for it on the web, but I knew almost nothing about him, except some specific details, I didn't even know his name. Then he found me and spoke to me. I still didn't know for sure that it was him, but I immediately thought about it. I felt it. Then I disregarded the idea and allowed him to remain anonymous. In a year in which he was always close with reactions and comments, he managed to show me that he has qualities that I always wanted to find in a man. They are not mass and would repel many women, but for me they are the right ones. And then this feeling of the futility of my existence in the last 10-11 years began to creep in, and somewhere in the half-time I managed to realize that he is no longer free, so even to be sorry there is no point, but it makes sense to at least realize the mistakes you are. :( So far I've always fallen in love first, then in the process of getting to know came the disappointment of that the person on the other side does not meet expectations. This time it was the other way around - as I got to know him, it was as if I gradually fell in love with him ... and decided ... it was high time I ran away! Well, №7, it is true that in most cases these are the reasons why a woman regrets a missed chance, but there are exceptions. Let's look at it purely mathematically - men with money as a% of the population may not be many, but as a number they are not small at all, ie. these chances never end and are not limited to one. But a man who has taken the trouble to get to know me, to understand me without explanation, when no one else succeeds, despite the explanations ... to accept me when I'm natural without making me feel guilty and self-limiting , to be able to contradict me, without making me angry and dealing with my difficult character, which scares everyone else ... there is only one and it is worth regretting. And to №8 - if someone's ego was hurt then, it wasn't mine. Maybe that's why he came back ... :( There was a kind of edification, but even that made him friendly.
No. Rather, I feel sorry for the men I have allowed into my life.
Not.
I had an Internet connection a few months ago, which we had to end for some reason. At first I felt sorry for him, maybe because of my feelings, but not now. I just accept him as a friend, if I recently asked him for something quite human, and he reacts childishly towards me. There is a new man in my life. Black Sabbath
No. I have never regretted a broken relationship. It's over, it's time for something new and different. I only regretted that if the other party is not sincere with me in the end or behaves badly, is rude to me, etc. This is simply not ethical and does no honor to anyone.
I'm sorry I didn't let us get to know each other more, but I have that with all people - I don't let them near me for long.
Black Sabbath, in a gay topic, you recently wrote that you are a lesbian. Last? It doesn't matter, but I don't think I understand.
21, this was a man who introduced himself to me. He wrote other comments on my behalf. I'm heterosexual. Black Sabbath
I don't like generalizations - women do that, men do that, especially when they are made by people who don't know 100 people very closely. People are different, they react differently and it is not possible to draw conclusions for everyone from several cases, it is simply not true. I can only say about myself - for the men with whom I had some closer acquaintance, which would eventually deepen or a very short relationship, I do not regret. In order not to stay with them, then they were not my man, and I was theirs, since we did not look for each other anymore. We broke up once and for all with the one I had the most lasting relationship with, but we both couldn't overcome the lack and emptiness, and we got together again to stay together, now as a family with children. I don't care about anyone else and I don't imagine life with someone, if they want to be richer, more beautiful, smarter, etc., I don't care that much. He also proved to me that I was not wrong in my choice. At least for now.
No, I married the love of my life. I wouldn't allow myself to miss it.