Provoked by such a topic, I want to ask if women experience men in any way. For example, deliberately angering a man to see how he will cope and whether he will react at the first sign, or humiliate him to test his confidence. Or, for example, pretend to be a victim or a weak person to see if he will help and comfort you or if he will not care about you.
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I have girlfriends who do it fully consciously. I don't take tests, but I definitely follow the actions of other people in individual situations. In other words, I observe and remember. I try to understand and not judge, but I make an impression based on the attitude towards me, towards my relatives, towards those with lower qualifications. Not just for men, but for all people.
I personally do it quite consciously. I want to see how a man reacts if something makes me nervous and I tell him. I want to see when I'm bad if he will show sympathy, if he will show that he is really interested. For me personally, the attitude of a man towards a woman is of great importance. Isn't there a good attitude for me? I'm not one to look at the look or how much money a person has. Of course, it doesn't matter if there are opportunities, but there is nothing more important than a good attitude, respect and the ability to share and be understood.
Most women give up on such things because instead of helping each other, you just go to such tests
As number 1, I follow, but I do not put us in a specific position to check how it will react. Life is colorful enough and he takes care of us to have various situations. No manipulation is needed to understand what a person is. By the way, I do not have girlfriends who purposefully test the men next to them and I do not remember ever being in the company of such a lady.
If a man is well financially, no woman would dare to do such a "stress test";) Given this, you will remember why they do it and why not. ;) Now I expect women to appear to explain to me that money is not everything and if there are no feelings ... blah, blah that dance;)
If I test the man next to me, I will not humiliate him, only he can humiliate himself!
Number 5, if you're a man, how do you know what a woman would do? If she herself has enough opportunities, she will play it as she pleases. He said it himself - money is not everything - if you have it, you will look for something more than that, the man is financially secure.
All women who make such provocations are mega simple creatures. With such I pretend to be a dead fox and then I give it back to them, because they pretend to be great.
<7> - this is what I see around me - this is what I share. And if you can, when arguing, avoid the word 'if'. If this, if that ... if it weren't for this, if the village toilet would be a pastry shop;)
I am a man and I think women always do it in one form or another. I have been subjected to the so-called "shit test" many times. The woman does or says something provocative (consciously or not) and watches the man's reaction. In my opinion, this is normal "software" embedded in women so that they can understand whether a man is suitable for something in the most general sense. Figuratively speaking, she presses his buttons and decides if she likes him according to his reactions. Many men get burned on these often subtle tests, and then wonder where they went wrong. The more beautiful and courted a woman is, the more brutal these checks are. In general, men are asked to show dominance, leadership qualities and nepotism towards "female numbers". The most common universal female test is the sentence, "You probably say that to all women?" If the man doesn't answer or hesitates ... he loses the test. The idea here is to say something like, "Yes, but I usually forget their faces." She will continue with "Are you telling me you'll forget mine ?!" (another shit-test) .... The final male line (said in a charismatic-confident tone) should be "No, if you give me a reason not to do it." .. This is how a similar test is won. Another observation of mine is that women generally avoid testing men with high social status in this way. Another conclusion is that if a woman tests a man in this way, then she likes him. The final male line (said in a charismatic-confident tone) should be "No, if you give me a reason not to do it." .. This is how a similar test is won. Another observation of mine is that women generally avoid testing men with high social status in this way. Another conclusion is that if a woman tests a man in this way, then she likes him. The final male line (said in a charismatic-confident tone) should be "No, if you give me a reason not to do it." .. This is how a similar test is won. Another observation of mine is that women generally avoid testing men with high social status in this way. Another conclusion is that if a woman tests a man in this way, then she likes him.
And from a lot of testing, they finally become old monkeys at 30 and the quota came. Remember women - men mature, women wither. Gasho.
Number 10 is right. Some do it consciously, others unconsciously, but almost all of us do it. It has happened to me to do such "shit tests" without realizing it, at the very first sign. For example, the man makes a gallant gesture and I counter it with a sarcastic tone. Then I realize and I get dumb because I don't want to look like another one who behaves defiantly and arrogantly in order to test the man. There is nothing better than sincerity between people, and such tests make communication difficult for a man, unless he is a complete nerd. However, I do not agree with the last remark of H10 that women avoided testing on men with high status. They are the most desired and the most tested. Understand, this is inherent in women - they are looking for a way to judge a man. He gained his true high status in her eyes only after passing the test. We don't do it on purpose because we're nasty, mercantile or some-there. We do it unconsciously because that's how we make selections. Men make their choice almost entirely on the basis of appearance, while for women the equation is more complicated.
Number 5: it seems that your environment is with mediocre people with modest abilities. It is also evident in the quality of your comments, more or less at the level of a 7th grade student. I suspect that you are one of those unfortunate boys that no one ties to them and they think it's because they are poor. Not for that, my boy, but because you have an unpleasant character and you think that if 2 million of the lottery comes to you ready, you will fix your life. It won't happen, but keep rubbing tickets :)
My test is the following - I'm honest about my feelings. When I make sure that this man really got under my skin, I don't spare my love. I say and show. I strongly emphasize that I do not bother with love outbursts or maternal care. I just don't pull myself together and I don't care too much ... And when it starts ... The gentleman is taken for a giant - irreplaceable. A wringing of hands, provoking jealousy abe complete program. And gets 3-. I tell him not to abuse. I say to myself - I'm swaying, but because I like it I give it a chance. But most of the correctional fails. However, I came to the conclusion that the problem is not in them, but in my test obviously. I have no other explanation for why men cope with a number of difficulties, but die without putting insurmountable obstacles in their way. Maybe the temptation to play with a woman in love is great !?
Such a trust speaks badly for both the tester and the tester;) Miloooo, let your boyfriend go and see if he is faithful to me ?! But I beg you - I'm a carpet and I'll let him go right away, and if he makes me know that it doesn't work ... that's enough! First: Your boyfriends are not your property to restrict their contact. When you get married ... you can possibly set similar conditions for them ... possibly also;) Second: A man never fails to stretch something sideways, especially if it is worth the risk. Third: It makes a difference whether the "testerka" is beautiful and sexy or is a "mother pig" so the results are sometimes predictable. Fourth: The three are enough;) In short - test us, but then do not complain that we have abandoned you.
15 - Do not speak ill of anyone, you will know them by their deeds, as it is said. Look at the man with all his faces, you may not like someone ...
I never did tests and I was wrong. In general, you do not need to test someone personally, you can just observe how a person behaves with his relatives, what are the relations between his parents and how he is brought up. My mother used to tell me that my husband is not the man for me, that he doesn't get along well with his mother and sister, and I can expect that when our love is over, I will receive the same treatment. I was very opposed and did not believe. I married him and now every word of my mother happens. Everything she saw in him struck me with full force. But then I was 20, now I look with another experience.
They test indefinitely, but, unlike when I was tied up, now that they think they're testing me with their silly provocations - I'm drawing their minds and enjoying the seira as far as they can go in their impudence and impudence. At the same time, I write them off naturally. Mr. Muncho
My test is to observe how the man behaves with other people. Not with me, but with the others and especially with those who are below him socially. I ended the relationship only because the gentleman (with two higher educations and a brokerage firm) talked to the waiters of "you" every time we went out and had the audacity to interfere in other people's conversations at the neighboring tables. When I'm with a man, I look to see if it will help an elderly woman who can barely carry her bags; whether he will make a remark to a child who buys cigarettes in front of him; whether I will listen to my friend's problems; how he treats his relatives; what his friends are - this is very important; of course with colleagues and so on. I would not call it a "test", but just foresight. Because, when the dizzying love subsides and you are no longer showered with kisses, champagne and roses constantly, you begin to communicate as a person with a person. And if the person opposite is not tolerant of others, then he will not be tolerant of you.
It is in a woman's nature to make a choice - whether she does it consciously or not. The most evolutionarily adapted specimen is the one that ultimately leaves a generation - we don't seem to be that different from animals :) Every woman tests at any time - there is no need to stage special theaters and productions. The reaction in ordinary situations is indicative enough and the man with his overall behavior gives enough signals and information so that every woman can understand what interests her. The most normal insignificant things even betray a lot. Whether a man will understand that he has been tested or not and how he will accept it again depends on the woman's social skills and mental baggage. Another issue is that many women are just unconscious ducks and even having the information they can't do, who knows what to do with it or in some cases even against their own interest. But here the topic is not about female stupidity, the topic is testing. Yes, it happens all the time and every woman has the necessary to call it "equipment" to conduct such "tests" at any time. And this is normal - just as it is normal for a man to have certain requirements for his partner and to assess her reactions. .
99% of women do it and play men. I hope you find one percent of decent women who will be people with you and will not pretend to be interesting. True happiness.
This is just another annoying female nonsense. These tests are irrelevant and irrelevant. Apart from causing irritation and cooling from the "tests", they can not achieve anything. To pass them and not to pass them is irrelevant, because they mean nothing and are not an indicator of anything. Like I said, just another woman's nonsense. The only good thing is that if you pass a shit test with a woman, you can then be good friends, I say friends, because you don't have to deal with a woman who has the audacity to test you as if she's something more than you, she has to prove herself to you. and to win your affection, as well as you hers. If she is instead staring at you and your behavior and thinks that having a specific genital is enough to keep your interest, then it is not worth it.