I come here as an observer. After all, what is my boyfriend for - to bother and cheat Or a friend to intrigue. But nothing has happened to me that makes me happy enough to dance around the room, to jump for joy. I don't consider myself as exceptional, I'm quite ordinary, I'm still looking. Hence the question above? What is your opinion?
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For something new to happen to you, you have to do something new yourself. Ex: If you stand in front of the computer all day, it is very clear that nothing will happen to you that makes you jump for joy. The answer to your question is - No, you should not. But you have to do new things.
You have to be searching, understanding and have a goal.
Well, it depends on what you mean by "extremely" ..
You can't expect "extraordinary" things to happen to you if you stand at your computer all day. Go out, do something, meet someone, you will always be interested if there is a problem. However, what exactly do you mean by "exceptional"?
This dear author is a problem for most teenagers, because they all do not find cause for great joy. This is due to over-satisfaction of the needs of the person from early childhood, and also from the lack of praise from the parents in case of success of their child in something. One learns to rejoice and your problem is due to the fact that no one has taught you, has not shown you how to rejoice. There is something extraordinary in every simple thing that can fill you with joy, such as today's sunny day, each of us can find the bad side of today's sunny day, but only those who are taught to enjoy, know and feel that this day is exceptional. Believe me if you want, but an African from the equator or an Englishman would jump for joy just because it is not raining today and there are no clouds, the weather is cool and spring is in full swing. But such is life, a person does not appreciate the things he has until he loses them, instead of enjoying what he has today, he either waits to lose it to get angry, or he is afraid of losing them and worries. Today is an exceptional day for you, you are alive, you are healthy, you are young, is this a little bit on vacation? Free get create something beautiful, paint eggs today is the best day for that. Do you know how many people in this world would jump for joy just to be in your place today !?
I know that there are people who are much worse than me, I even resent myself sometimes when I have such thoughts ... I find an exceptional person who knows what he wants, is not afraid to be himself and to takes risks.
I don't understand why so many people want to be different, exceptional, different ... In essence, we are all completely the same. Therefore, we are all exceptional - no matter how many claim the opposite, there are no exceptions. The only difference between people in general is that some get the opportunity to stand out at an earlier stage in their lives, and others at a later stage. I don't know how old you are, but I'm sure that one day you will find something that will make you feel exceptional and unique.
This is the main problem of the consumer society - everyone is waiting for someone else to come and make the show. Or he believes that by paying for it, all his problems will be solved! No - you don't have to be exceptional for exceptional things to happen to you. It is enough to learn to think in an exceptional way. And yes - for something to happen that makes you dance around the room and jump for joy, you have to dive a little deeper into things, not slap them on the surface. For example - to catch a boyfriend who has to cheat and cheat, and a friend to weave intrigue ... Are there great joys and great sorrows - the other is a "calm" and emotionless vegetation.