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Do You Have To Smoke, Drink Or Hang Out To Have Friends?

By rosapearson_ October 07, 2020 9 answers Last updated October 07, 2020

Hello, I am 14 years old and I can no longer rely on the word friend ... So today's times are so ... disgusting ... I have no words ... just why should you be baked, smoke or drink or worst of all to use drugs ... and hop you'll have friends ... yes I don't think so! I'm telling myself I'm not very hot, I don't smoke and I don't shake, I only drink a little, but I'm a real friend, I've never stabbed someone in the back and I won't stab because I'm not like that. Here I am looking for real girlfriends and friends who do not look for in the person what he is NOT. Or what ... if you are not baked and do not swear or threaten this one ... do you have no friends ... wow, this is no longer life for me, I don't want to become banal, but listen to me. because no matter how much you don't want to believe, there is a lord who sees, hears and helps those who deserve it, and it is this lord who will tell you that you will not live anymore ... and why? and? you will not blame anyone else. I'm not talking about those who will read, but about those who dig their own grave, but do not understand it, and this din will come, in which they will be very sorry ... but it will be too late. I moved with addicts and what I am not, because I do not want, because I have the will. I moved with people who smoke and drink and pretend to see who I am and who they are? NO ONE !!! I just want to find friends who are real, because if you know me ... you will be very good with me, because you will have a friend next to you who will not stab you in the back or betray you! It is! and why? and? you will not blame anyone else. I'm not talking about those who will read, but about those who dig their own grave, but do not understand it, and this din will come, in which they will be very sorry ... but it will be too late. I moved with addicts and what I am not, because I do not want, because I have the will. I moved with people who smoke and drink and pretend to see who I am and who they are? NO ONE !!! I just want to find friends who are real, because if you know me ... you will be very good with me, because you will have a friend next to you who will not stab you in the back or betray you! It is! and why? and? you will not blame anyone else. I'm not talking about those who will read, but about those who dig their own grave, but do not understand it, and this din will come, in which they will be very sorry ... but it will be too late. I moved with addicts and what I am not, because I do not want, because I have the will. I moved with people who smoke and drink and pretend to see who I am and who they are? NO ONE !!! I just want to find friends who are real, because if you know me ... you will be very good with me, because you will have a friend next to you who will not stab you in the back or betray you! It is! who smoke and drink and pretend to see who I am and who they are? NO ONE !!! I just want to find friends who are real, because if you know me ... you will be very good with me, because you will have a friend next to you who will not stab you in the back or betray you! It is! who smoke and drink and pretend to see who I am and who they are? NO ONE !!! I just want to find friends who are real, because if you know me ... you will be very good with me, because you will have a friend next to you who will not stab you in the back or betray you! It is!

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sojagram answered · October 07, 2020

   At this age, it is difficult to find real friends. Unfortunately, fashion and interests are immature and often quite meaningless (drugs and drinking), and this cannot be something that brings people together and builds real connections between them. My advice is to avoid companies that drink a lot and shake. Now they may look attractive, but in the long run (life onwards) they are the first to drop out. Just try to look into the future at least 5 years ahead (it's not very easy;) only) and you will be able to bet on something more permanent than the usual vices, which do not need much effort to get :-) Good luck!

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laproxie answered · October 07, 2020

   BRAVO darling! You are one of the few girls of this age who do not pretend to be "who I am". Keep it up, and don't worry about your friends, you'll find it REALLY, they are really few but I believe you will find it, you just deserve it. SUCCESS!

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oohoohnahnah answered · October 07, 2020

   Definitely yes! :-D Bass simplicity, you don't even have to shake .... :) laughshhh ...

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la1132 answered · October 07, 2020

   Oh, now a second comment :) I can be your friend, I can give up cigarettes and alcohol (not that I'm a regular drinker ...) ... but there comes another moment :) It's hard for a boy to be a "friend" with girl ... and the girlfriends you're looking for are hard to find, they're all from the "elite". Here, everything alive passes 15 goes to the street to bachka ... these people were very wrong

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aniceman73 answered · October 07, 2020

   Wow ... this story is like I wrote it :) And I'm a 14-year-old girl, and both with you and with me, most people already smoke, drink "to try" (but they get into the habit), they get drunk like pigs and have sex like that, for sports ... Everyone seems to be competing over how many more things harmful to their health they will cause, but in fact ... they are just proving what rubbish they are. And the closer they get to the bottom, the more "respect" they earn from their friends ... But you don't care;) You know ... "who is a friend to everyone, is not a friend to anyone" :) Everyone they consider friends is actually just a user. Now everything seems "fashion" and cool, but one day they will be cruelly sorry for these days, rest assured! He said you had no friends. It is very difficult to look at all this from the positive side without such. My advice is, start doing something! Meet new people and be more open with them :) Don't be closed, just communicate more with them to get to know you better and you will see how many exact people, even at this age, exist! Everyone needs a person next to them to support him, and who seeks and finds;) I hope I helped you, write what happened next :) Good luck in new acquaintances, I hope you are lucky and find friends, with whom you will be able to share everything you share with us! Lots of smiles and a virtual hug, Number 5 :)) even at this age, there are! Everyone needs a person next to them to support him, and who seeks and finds;) I hope I helped you, write what happened next :) Good luck in new acquaintances, I hope you are lucky and find friends, with whom you will be able to share everything you share with us! Lots of smiles and a virtual hug, Number 5 :)) even at this age, there are! Everyone needs a person next to them to support him, and who seeks and finds;) I hope I helped you, write what happened next :) Good luck in the new acquaintances, I hope you are lucky and find friends, with whom you will be able to share everything you share with us! Lots of smiles and a virtual hug, Number 5 :))

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blue_foxy_studios answered · October 07, 2020

   Nobody said that in order to have friends you have to have vices. I'm 18, boy, I don't drink (for several months), I don't smoke and I can't talk about drugs. However, friends hurt. The problem may be in you, you need to think about it before blaming others and their vices. True, there are sections of society with whom not everyone can maintain a warm relationship, but most normal people find normal friends.

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camilla_cortez_ answered · October 07, 2020

   :)

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iamcarlajones answered · October 07, 2020

   first, real friendships between girls are much more difficult and less common. I was in a class with 26 girls, which in addition to the benefits when drunk on excursions, has a lot of intrigue. I missed driving a girl, but I'm not sorry, to be honest, then a friend and I started drinking more regularly. In our company most people drink, smoke less, and there are those who do not lick or touch a cigarette. That never stopped me from being friends with them. The problem with you is that your "girlfriends" 90% are tanned blood (puberty) who think that smoking and drinking are something like VIP or something more than others. They just want to show themselves to the boys in the upper grades. I'm sorry about that, but with bad situations comes experience.

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therealcarlospena answered · October 07, 2020

   definitely NO, I was respected at the time precisely because they failed to corrupt me. Now they are trying to quit smoking, but it doesn't work