How can I find out if a man I have been living with for 1 year loves me. Is there a way you think I can find out if he really cares about me Let me clarify that he is 34 and I am 25.
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If you doubt his feelings, and if he has not confirmed them with deeds (rarely with words - not in the style of men), he probably does not love you. This cannot be hidden, it cannot but be obvious. Especially if you live together. There is a way to know if he loves you - but this is called manipulation, men do not love them and you risk losing it. A woman
Everyone loves and expresses feelings in their own way, some are frugal with words and tenderness, others are very emotional, repeat magic words to the point of shaking, etc. Lack of determination does not always mean lack of feelings. From what you've written, I judge you're expecting a marriage proposal, but it's not coming. Maybe instead of wondering and tormenting, you should share your fears, expectations, and ask him the question: "Do you have plans, ambitions for the future?" and if the answer is yes, ask him if you fit into them and how. Be hrisima, with aggression you will not achieve anything.
Has he shown you in any way that he loves you, and if you don't try to talk to him and explain to him what you think, at least I think you should do it, I'm 14 and maybe I'm wrong .... I'll be glad if I helped you with anything ... and good luck
Men do not like to show their feelings, this does not mean that they do not have them for them, this is a sign of weakness, they also do not know how to talk, and you have to understand your question because you know it best
The boy I loved for a long time came and met me, we went out, we kissed and everything went well until I realized that there is another five years old, I know that they are not close and it is not very serious because they do not live together and have this opportunity to find out which one. loves and who wants besides talking to him because he doesn't know i know about her and i don't want to know about what i can do in this case
Why should you spare him the fact that you know about your ex - are you afraid of losing him? Do not! Do not live your life in fear, this is not right for you and for him - so you increase the likelihood of losing it even more. And I think that he feels these fears and doubts of yours, and that makes you even more distant. Be aware of yourself - set the things you want from life and always treat your person with self-respect. When you begin to respect yourself, you will see how automatically he will be attracted to you. But the most important thing is that you have to make yourself happy. Go on a trip for 2-3 days alone or with friends, but not with him - make him miss you! Hide from his gaze for a while - and this way you will give yourself time to clarify what you want from your life in general, go back to your dreams, ambitions, goals ... so it may turn out that he is not the man for you, but the real one is waiting for you somewhere there :) life is too short to live it pretending to be something that you are not! The Brave