Hello, I am a woman of 30 years. I don't have a serious relationship, I like very relaxed and sexy men and I usually fall in love with women. I recently met a man. He is 39 years old, with a very sexy body, no relationship for 9 years. I was lying on the beach and I was asleep. When I woke up, he was near me with a friend of his and talked to me. He was known to a friend in my company. We met again at the sea, at a house party, he was at a table with friends and I joined them. After the sea I did not look for him, nor did he look for me. After about a month I wrote to him and we started chatting on Facebook. We wrote to each other for a week. He started offering me sex. I continued with the casual communication for another week. I like that it is very spontaneous. He had once written to me at one in the night to invite me to a disco. I slept so I didn't see. I really like that he goes out and has fun and goes to discos, unlike most people his age. We had sex recently. It was spontaneous, until very late at night. I remember with a smile and I am very pleased with the feeling and the thought of him. He hinted that I might stay with him, but I left because I would fall asleep for work. We have a casual relationship, it doesn't bother me because it's not obsessive. I don't like someone to follow me like a shadow and write to me and look for me non-stop. He looks quite mature, we talked for a long time after sex, he radiates calm, which I really like. I am too impulsive and easily ignited, and a person like him balances me. He asked me about my life, why I don't have a boyfriend, etc. I want our relationship to deepen. I have a pleasant emotional attraction to him, which intensified after sex. Do you think
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Hardly, considering he's a womanizer. These are hard to tame, especially since you've had sex like that. But it's too early to say for sure, and you don't give much information. Does he look for you often? Do you want to see only the two of you without having sex? Do you always respond to his invitations? Answer these questions and analyze his behavior (and yours) as if it is not aimed at you to judge correctly. A man is in love when he invests his time and effort in you and in your relationship. When he puts you among his priorities, not after them. If he is looking for you, he is punctual according to your arrangements, he does not dare to justify himself to you, he keeps his word, he keeps his promises ... then it can be concluded that he has serious intentions towards you.
No, I'm the only one looking for him. I'm not even sure if he wants sex again, although he said he liked it and apparently enjoyed it a lot. He is a very extreme womanizer. He only has sex with women once. It's an achievement to reach a sex friendship, let alone something more. The problem is that I like exactly those, which is really a serious problem. I accept them as a challenge. I don't like something to be easy for me, to know that someone is crazy about me and running after me. I like to have the choice to be with everyone, but to choose me. In addition, I choose them according to objective criteria - sex, physical data and as he is experienced, many women will not refuse him. On top of everything, this one was filmed in a video, even worse for me. It is not known, thank God. In my opinion, this is my psychological problem and with such preferences I am doomed to complete failure with men. I try to change my criteria, but it doesn't work, I try. Yesterday I went out with one - a programmer, a BMW, a top body. However, I am not attracted to this. I'm bored with him, he's too serious and 80 percent of his life is work, it strains me. It's not ugly, but it has cheeks and I don't like it. He's not tall and that annoys me. I don't like anything in him at all, of course he breaks out looking for me ....
I let you go, I won't think of you anymore, don't think, and you let me go! Promise yourself that you will not return to me because this is not love
No. Women never change! Or if they sink, it can't be long! The wolf changes its fur, but ... Be careful, there is no more unhappy woman than the one in love with a womanizer! I'm shy and I like the same as me - everyone doesn't do anything and it's "Mission Impossible", but I can't and can't get carried away by inspired downloaders ... and that's why I'll sit alone!
Abe, dear author, at 30, what are you looking for in a man? In fact, do you want to have normal children and a family, because it's time for them? Children raised in a normal environment, not as a single mother? You seem to be only for one sex with men and you look at them as pieces of meat and a source of emotions. You're worse than men in that respect. When I read you especially how he described "the programmer with a BMW and a top body, but with cheeks and a boring life" I don't know where you went. Don't be greedy, because in a few years even women will hardly be interested in you for one sex. You gave your youth to sex, and now it's hard for you to find a man - well, hack, to be honest.
To number 6: And what did you spend your youth on? Sitting at home? In my opinion, deep down, you are quite angry about missed opportunities. And if at 30 people are not excited about sex, when will they be, at 50. The author just loves life, she also loves sex. If you haven't had good sex in your life to crave it, delude yourself like the fox and the grapes that it wasn't worth it. You've caught a mold with a small dick and you're repeating how valuable you are. The truth is, you can't score anything better than that. This is your level, darling. When I look, you have reconciled and you have nothing left but to be angry.
to 7 of 6: Only that I am a man and I gave my youth (and still give it) to a permanent partner with whom we already work for children. At 30, it's time for family and children. I understand that you hate your parents and don't want to continue your genetic line, but at least don't try to proclaim your nihilistic lifestyle as a pleasant thing. It is pleasant on a superficial physical level - on the animal level. But your realization as people is lame.
Hey, you had this golden sex, almost the main meaning of life is not in 99% of cases 5 minutes
At number 7 - hash: 3cb9d4770c, at number 3 - hash: 3cb9d4770c (the author). Number 7 trying to write as a random citizen or writing in the third person as royalty? I found it very interesting: "as he is experienced, many women will not refuse him." Does that mean that all women are stupid and do not care about reputation or that they are married? And, for the first time in her life, does the author want anything other than sex? And what if he goes to undress with high expectations and the visual impression is small? Because the author in number 7 says: "You caught a mold with a small dick and you repeat how valuable you are." That is, she is a thug and catches, takes, etc. only big.
Hahahaha number 9, I'm sorry to read such comments. For you it can be 5 minutes, for some it is 1 hour and it is good sex, not desperate attempts.
To Number 6: You're very congested. Why do you imagine that at the age of 30 it is time for a person to have a family and children? This obligation pours, what? What age do you live in? One makes children and a family if one wishes. And not everyone has a desire. There are people who want a relationship but do not want children. Today, everyone arranges their lives as they please. If he wants, he has children, if not, he doesn't. And no one has the right to tell him what is right. At the age of 30, a person is mature enough to decide what he really wants from life.
Of course, when I look at the congested provincialists in Bulgaria, I feel bad. A person who has started a family is no better person than one who has decided to be left alone. There are people who prefer a career to children. Or they just don't like children. Accept it was! Who wants to have children, ok, to be alive and healthy. But don't think about anything more than others. Author, it is too early to understand what will be the development of your relationship with this man. You know very little to see if your relationship can get serious. I can only advise you to let things happen spontaneously. Don't even mention a connection to him. Meet him first as a friend. That way he will be able to get to know you well. And if there is a thrill, why not do something?