Hello! :) I want to ask the engaged or those who have had more serious relationships so far - Do you visit your partner? Who goes to whom more, how often? And how is this received by the hosts (if he / she lives with his / her parents)? It will be nice to mention how long you have been together, as well as how old you are. Otherwise with me: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, I am 18, he is 21 and we are practically neighbors (we live in the same block). In the beginning he often came to us, now only I go to them and quite often. I feel very good there, I like it and his parents have always treated me well. But I still can't get rid of the worry that I might interfere or annoy them. Probably has something to do with the fact that our people constantly tease me that I stay there a lot, that I go too often and that I probably interfere ....
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Hey, you're ahead of me with the topic: D otherwise, how are things with me: I'm 19, my friend is 24. He works and has a master's degree, and I'm a student. And yes, as with you, we are neighbors. Our houses are in one yard, practically between his and my window there is a distance of 7-8 meters. We often visit each other. I study in another city and when I come home every week, on the day I come home he is at home we eat and drink with ours, and the next day I am in them. And you know, now that I think about it, I think I've been to them more often. His parents are hellishly nice people, and his mother is a very understanding woman, and his father always helps me when I ask him for something, when mine is gone. But it doesn't matter how often he is in us or I am in them. The important thing is what is between you, how you feel when you are together. All I know is that I love him a hell of a lot, makes me happy, makes me smile even at the worst moment for me. For God's sake, he believes in me more than I believe in myself. Just to mention that we have been together for 7 months. :)) Sorry for the long post.
We have been together for 10 months. We are 18 and 17. In the beginning we went to both places equally often, but now we go to them more. It's more comfortable, strange as it may sound. More solitary. And he is a boy - theirs would not come to us, no matter what we do :)
There is no way to visit each other. Mine lives in us. :)
I am a girl of 19 and my boyfriend is 22. We have been together for 2 and a half years and I go to them much more often. Their parents, in my opinion, do not mind or I have not felt it. And precisely because my parents are like yours, I go to them more often. My mother constantly grumbles that I annoy people and when I sit for 2-3 days and they feed me, they couldn't take a break from me ... but you know. And if mine comes, it has to sit for at most 2 days and leave, because my mother mutters the carousel. He ate a lot, he had to cook a lot, he couldn't sit or lie down peacefully (this is because the place where ours actually has a bedroom and we eat, because we're in a house, it's complicated ..) In a word, ours as well yours mutter to me about it, but they can't understand that not all people are like them and don't think so.
We live together :) We are 29 years old and we have been together for 4 years.
Great topic, but it's different for me, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, we are both 22 years old and we slept together every day, either at home or with them, his parents are great, but it just seemed like that , behaved super well with me. Two days ago we had an argument with them and his father told me not to go in there anymore, now everything is different and we will probably separate because everything is very tense and I just can't do that. So girls not everything is as it seems, do not overdo it!