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Do You Want A Family And Children?

By reptomreed October 01, 2020 50 answers Last updated October 01, 2020

Is it true that nowadays young people do not want to start a family and have children By "young people" I mean anyone between the ages of 18-29.

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legendarylea answered · October 01, 2020

   Not true for everyone. I myself do not want, many of my acquaintances and friends too, but they still want and / or are already married, have 1-2-3 children, etc. Most of my young neighbors also have at least one child and a marriage.

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Norma_Nor answered · October 01, 2020

   They want to, but in this lack of money it is very difficult.

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trixiebeee answered · October 01, 2020

   I have for now, I hope they are alive and well. I want and always wanted to have. Both because I wanted to and because it is a normal course of life. And who is "self-sufficient", these are just fairy tales. There is no such nonsense, they are just deluded egotists. They explain to you how easy it is and how straightforward it is to start a family, not to "develop", but this is exactly what "to develop" is. You compromise, you sacrifice yourself, you become more humble, more thinking about others, not just your own ass. This, of course, they cannot understand. Now it is imposed on them that they must chase a lot of money, a great career, more, more, more. Holidays, entertainment. And what if they have them in the end? Yes, one does not have to be a slave, one has to live, but this "eternal party" will one day come out through their noses.

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thelanawwe answered · October 01, 2020

   A child makes sense only when it will be useful to society and the universe as a whole, when he will receive such an upbringing, as a result of which he will be aware of himself in the context of reality and what is expected of him. How many parents today they approach the creation of a child with such an understanding? They are probably units, but even they will not succeed, because the Matrix does not forgive anyone.

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yeisyhot answered · October 02, 2020

   Because both sexes are afraid of being fucked.

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perfectbodybb answered · October 02, 2020

   I don't know why, but lately one of the two has decided to have a child and only for the purpose - after the divorce to have something from the common pizza (apartment, car, etc.) ... Sad, but a fact !!!

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zuly42 answered · October 02, 2020

   I personally want exactly this family and children, but the problem is that society, women and men are bombing, I all say it under a common denominator, although I am a man, everything is full of curls and whores, everything is already a fictional world in which everyone looks at the means and the goods, there is no value system, there is nothing all this, I don't know where the stupid Americans obviously came from, but they have 5 children en masse. And that's the thing that stops me, there are no decent women, they are useless, most behave like babies or pretend to be men, and there is nothing to talk about whore thinking, everyone is a corpse, society is sick, including me. And this is not from today as I look at the past 50% of my friends are with one parent, although ours have been together for a long time despite the problems and hardships. Well that's my point. M29

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veryannalicios answered · October 03, 2020

   I am 20, my friend is 22, we do not want to have children in the next 10 years, but one day I would gladly have a wonderful child :) with people who have chosen NOT to start a family I understand them and I respect the choice, not to we forget that our planet is overpopulated after all

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Sama_tylko_dla_CIEBIE answered · October 03, 2020

   I want to have a family and a child. And not because I have to or to leave a generation and have something behind me, but to have something good with me while I'm alive. And I will do it with a person I love very much when I find one. I don't understand women who lie to men that they are on pills just to get pregnant easily by someone, because they "have to" have a generation. I am a woman of 22.

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bigpipitun answered · October 03, 2020

   Yes. I am 29 years old and I have a child, and I also have a marriage and a wonderful husband. We also have our own home. Our salaries are not over BGN 1,000, but we are doing great. When I achieved the goal of my dream job, I just gave birth. In my opinion, everyone wants and it is normal, but the situation in the private sector is really bad in terms of workload and payment, and people do not have mass housing, and with a salary of BGN 600 they do not buy.

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d33znuutz answered · October 04, 2020

   4, are the gypsies from the neighborhood rich in giving birth to 5-6 children?

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andressaurachoficial answered · October 04, 2020

   8, very incorrect assumptions. I have not seen anyone who has swallowed anything foreign after the separation.

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Emmie answered · October 04, 2020

   I want everything, but financially it is impossible to achieve the standards that today's society imposes on childcare. For now, my husband and I are postponing, saving ...

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vivienne29 answered · October 05, 2020

   Family, yes - children, however, no.

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gildylux answered · October 05, 2020

   Well, many young people do not want to, because they are not financially stable and no, I'm not talking about high incomes, but just looking after a child and providing him with a normal life with a salary below BGN 1,000 is a mission impossible. And don't start repeating the mantra for our grandparents who had 3-4 children. The times were different. F 46

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auroralightz3 answered · October 05, 2020

   Well, the women want to be whores by 35, at least what kind of families are you, brother :)

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love_nasty_sluts7 answered · October 06, 2020

   19, many, but really many men are bigger whores and the most disgusting whores among women. Make up your mind who is worse ... :)

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whiteelves answered · October 06, 2020

   19, your comment is inadequate because a whore is a whore whether she is a mother or not. It is full of mother whores, this can be confirmed by many men.

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nimfoboobs answered · October 06, 2020

   21, yours is inadequate, totally. These women fuck "smart" men, don't they? These men, in most cases, know that they sleep with married women. And what about cheating men? What about married men who cheat? (Or yours doesn't count, haha. It counts, and it counts a lot.) Then it's all women's fault that you're easy and you can't keep it in your pants. Typical ridiculous excuses are, "All women are the same." and "Such is our nature." (Let's take it out to everyone we meet). I've never seen a man admit to being rubbish / wrong. Everyone justifies themselves with women, with their nature, but no one has admitted their prostitution. So not me. Honey, don't pretend to be crazy and don't deny the obvious that they will laugh at you a lot. Yes, there is a lot of women rubbish, but that doesn't justify or hide the male whore, no matter how much you want to. When I see a man and I vomit, literally. In summary, I will say a very wise thought that you must remember: When the soul is a whore, sex does not matter at all. I hope you understand at least half of it, I don't waste time explaining to dishonest and limited individuals like you.

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outiegirls answered · October 06, 2020

   M23 I do not want children and family. I just have no desire and I don't find meaning.

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landryfields answered · October 06, 2020

   I think a person has to wait as long as he needs to be sure he wants children. Unfortunately, this did not happen to me and now I will pay for it. I think that one must first live, to experience everything, to diversify, because these are young people who have to experience it that way. Gone are the days when our parents gave birth after graduation and quickly started a family. Times are different, borders are open, so many things one can see and experience, because with children it is different. There is another responsibility, he can't grab his luggage somewhere or do something for himself. Yes, children are good things, but they also grow up and take their own path and we are left alone, so you have to force me for yourself first of all, because this is his life.

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ortcomkz answered · October 07, 2020

   "And who is" self-sufficient ", these are just stories. There is no such nonsense, these are just deluded egotists." But you know, because you understand things a lot, don't you?

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melton answered · October 07, 2020

   No, and I don't want to in the next 10 years. F25

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myNAMEisBOO answered · October 07, 2020

   Up to 22 The difference is that I'm not swearing allegiance :)

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ceejayzebra answered · October 08, 2020

   I don't think that's true. Most of my acquaintances lived with someone between the ages of 20 and 23, and I'm one of them. In the second year we already had engaged, married and pregnant women. I talked to friends on the subject, most are ready for marriage when they finish their education, that is, at about 25 years old. I can still sign, but I would wait another year before giving birth, because I want to finish my master's degree and gain at least a year of experience. Of all my acquaintances, there are only two who do not want families.

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JennyBear answered · October 08, 2020

   I am a woman of 30. I would very much like to start a family and have children. I have always strived for serious relationships and responsible men. If I could start a family, I would have done it much earlier, but for me it is important that the father of my children is quality: serious, responsible, with a good heart. Unfortunately, many women have lowered the standards, do not demand much and offer even less, men are spoiled. Instead of building a relationship that requires focused effort and dedication, everyone is looking for a soft bread.

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mira_sweet answered · October 08, 2020

   Here again, some "sublime" young ladies explain to us how progressive and cool it is not to have children, but only to go on excursions, to pour in restaurants and to be a careless person. Number 5 very accurately explained it, for which admiration. There is another category of people in Bulgaria, such as number 15, who supposedly want, but always save, you will say that having children takes millions - it seems to me that "I wanted, but I have no desire" .... This is typical for people with consumer thinking to strive first to provide materially, understand, for them to provide materially you must have almost a penthouse, income of BGN 5,000, to be a director of Microsoft almost when they become at 40 to try for a child, to pass from them, if they try at all. To whom will you leave these houses, cars and I don't know what if you don't have children, you will not live 200 years. Many young people do not want children, not because they are not financially stable, as number 18 writes, many of them are quite financially stable, they just procrastinate because they are only in life or they are lazy, or they do not want to have, again out of laziness and out of selfishness too. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. Many young people do not want children, not because they are not financially stable, as number 18 writes, many of them are quite financially stable, they just postpone because they are only in life or they are lazy, or they do not want to have, again out of laziness and out of selfishness too. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. Many young people do not want children, not because they are not financially stable, as number 18 writes, many of them are quite financially stable, they just postpone because they are only in life or they are lazy, or they do not want to have, again out of laziness and out of selfishness too. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. as number 18 writes, many of them are quite financially stable, they just procrastinate because they are only in life or they are lazy or they don't want to have them, again out of laziness and selfishness as well. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. as number 18 writes, many of them are quite financially stable, they just procrastinate because they are only in life or they are lazy or they don't want to have them, again out of laziness and selfishness as well. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. or they don't want to have it, again out of laziness and selfishness too. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. or they don't want to have it, again out of laziness and selfishness too. See some fat the size of a lamb regularly take such, even some 2-3. A typical example for procrastinators is number 10, even if she has a long relationship, she does not want to give birth at 28, for example, but about 40, as I look at her writings. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. as I look at her scriptures. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong. as I look at her scriptures. And her "argument" that the Earth was overpopulated is ridiculous, Bulgaria is not overpopulated, what do I care about the Earth? As a number, I want to ask them if you are Bulgarian, what nationality you belong to. If you think that when you gave birth to a child you gave a lot to the state or you performed a great heroism, you are very wrong.

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Helen-xxx answered · October 08, 2020

   23, at 23 you are not a man at all, but a little boy .. wait at least until the age of 30 .... I knew that these opinions against the family are always written by children aged 25 ... it is expected!

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emmavigeland answered · October 09, 2020

   I am a woman of 25, I do not want to give birth after my husband and I are equal. I just don't want to be tied down. Nor to spoil my figure. No other being is more important than me. I like to live my life, to travel the world, to have my comforts and figure, which with a child at least at this stage can not happen and the next 5 years as well. Not to mention how harmful and dangerous childbirth is, my friends got all sorts of health problems.

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tigerwoods answered · October 09, 2020

   I am 22 years old and my husband is 27 years old. We have a 1 year old child, completely wanted and planned and we do not regret it at all. It is the dream of both of us to have a family and to give him what we lacked. Love, attention, attitude, moments spent with both our parents, because both our parents are divorced, this is unknown to us. In my opinion, it is born en masse around and over 30, because people want to be financially stable, not because they do not want children. The other problem I see is that they break up en masse after longer relationships because they are bored or find another ... I often hear comments about how I gave birth so young, but for me this is completely normal. All the women in my family gave birth at that age and have 2-3 children. We are a huge family and it is unique when we all get together. For me, children and family are the meaning of life. It is more important than career and finances, I can always achieve them if I want with children! Even now I have an even greater incentive to develop. This is my understanding. BUT .... I have nothing to blame my soul that money is mandatory. If my husband didn't get a good salary, I wouldn't even think about children at this stage. This is quite a big expense, and everything is very expensive, unfortunately :(

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sidoelanaksekolahan answered · October 09, 2020

   36, I am glad for you, may your child be alive and healthy and may you look after him and love one another. However, be glad that your husband makes good money, otherwise it will be quite difficult for you with the child. And just to tell you that this "career and finances, I can always achieve them" is your fantasy. If it was that easy, everyone would have a good job and enough money for almost anything they wanted. This usually requires years of study and work, as well as many other qualities. Otherwise I wish you to achieve them. Woman with 2 children, career and finances (well, not who knows what, but decent)

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_thelustlist_ answered · October 09, 2020

   Societies are changing, the mentality of the Bulgarian and the European as a whole is changing. Someone had mentioned poverty, but to be honest, our grandparents and generations before them lived in much greater poverty. With the development of industrialization, education, medicine, gender equality and many other things, people start families at a later age. 100 years ago, the Bulgarian (and the European in general) thought in the following way - Let's make 10 children so that there is someone to help in the field. One can die of measles, the other of tuberculosis, if they are boys they will send them to the front and return it, not her. Let's do that as much as they stay, they stay. People were mass illiterate, or the only book they read was the Bible. Women had no rights and did not develop. They married them from a very young age, because of the lands they have, for breeding, etc. Now that there is gender equality and people are not so rigid, when there is contraception, when you have a choice of partners and when you are pursuing a career, things are different. You study, graduate from university at the age of 24. You work, you try to rise in your career, and by the time you feel you are 30 years old. Because of this, the Roma give birth at the age of 15. Because they are illiterate, without side interests, who think only of primitive things. and by the time you feel you are 30 years old. Because of this, the Roma give birth at the age of 15. Because they are illiterate, without side interests, who think only of primitive things. and by the time you feel you are 30 years old. Because of this, the Roma give birth at the age of 15. Because they are illiterate, without side interests, who think only of primitive things.

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Arisa330 answered · October 09, 2020

   Until №32 What are you like to determine who will have, when to have and who will not have children? This is something very personal and everyone decides for themselves.

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co0lz answered · October 10, 2020

   The topic this time is for people up to 29, but I decided to write too, because I saw that over 29 years old commented. I'm a woman of 32. Such as 5, do they really care who will 'get something out of their nose'? Personally, in my opinion - no. I'm willing to bet on that, too. Every day, people who enter the site share.net, trembling in anticipation of someone posting a topic in which there is ground to pour out the negativity accumulated from their unfortunate monotonous existence. Here is the 34th number I immediately recognized - the one with the 'nasty' boss, the one who had discussed with colleagues at work what people write on the Internet. I've always been amazed at the enthusiasm of people like 5 and 32 to throw their energy in directions where there's no way to achieve anything. Hey people, think about your noses, don't worry so much about other people's. Instead of dealing with ' educate 'on the Internet, try to pay more attention to your children, that just tomorrow it turns out that they no longer enter the image of your dreams ... The one who was worried about who will inherit our property and money ... :-) Well, whoever inherits them won't be you, darling, so breathe easy and stop worrying so much about the property and money of different people. Even you yourself understand that no one creates a child because his country needs more population. The only reason a person has a child is because he wanted it. There are people who don't want children, and that's a fact you just have to accept, especially for your own good. Because no matter how much you stumble and foam, you will not achieve a result. And to add that those who want a child, but postpone, it is also not your job to instruct and judge, grasping or not for their 'arguments', or there for whatever came to you from the fax. Have a nice day.

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aking503 answered · October 10, 2020

   Yes, I am 29 with two children. It is true that it is different with children. I also want to live, on excursions and a ball, but I also wanted children - I have them. And for the excursions, if we find a way. Who says life is over?

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theblackkeys answered · October 10, 2020

   I want to, but I'm already 32, a man, and I haven't had a relationship in 5 years. Things are not going well in this regard. I don't communicate with many women, and the few I communicate with are not appropriate. I don't know where to look for women. In dating sites and Tinder, you look mostly at the appearance, not shine with some super appearance.

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madamemature answered · October 10, 2020

   I don't want to have children because I don't want my children to share a planet with individuals like number 32

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huyentxo answered · October 10, 2020

   Until 31 I know that this is not the place and the way to meet, but I would start a family with you, so I felt here, not to live in Sofia anymore, but I am close and the place is more than wonderful and with conditions even better than Sofia, if you agree, we will find a way to see each other and make our lives more beautiful together. mareid

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capguntom answered · October 11, 2020

   How long will you chew this topic? No one forces you to give birth, whoever wants to give birth. With or without children, the world will not end, but to spend your life as a selfish person is the dumbest thing, this is the life of a parasite!

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davidfreiburger answered · October 11, 2020

   32, number 15 is. My children will be the ones whom the children of people like you envy for the opportunities they have - whether for study abroad, whether for their own business or something else, while yours will count their pennies. But all this is good and this is exactly how this world must function in order to have bachelors (whose parents did not save five money and did not give them anything - neither a good education nor money for health prevention). I did not say that they will be pickers in Bulgaria, maybe they will pick strawberries in England. Don't worry about income, savings, real estate, etc. You look after your children like gypsies, if you want. Your will.

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your_event_horizon answered · October 11, 2020

   Woman, 33 years old - I don't want children, I like my life as it is.

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kittyygirl75 answered · October 11, 2020

   Up to number 45 Can't you think of something smarter, you can give birth to a dog if you want, to continue the dog breed

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lilbitofus1 answered · October 11, 2020

   Look what number 41, I do not seem very sublime and knowledgeable, I do not instruct anyone, I just say what are the real reasons people like you do not want children - laziness, selfishness and carelessness, combined with anti-Bulgarian nihilism often. I do not teach anyone, nor do I make them have children, see people like you constantly tease how different you are and out of the herd when you do not want to have children. In fact, you are a consumer. People like you and number 40 don't accept the truth. You can give birth to one puppy, dogs give meaning to the lives of many like you. I don't know if you've noticed a simple correlation that's all around me. A young family takes a cute little puppy and for the next 3-5 years these people have no children. The dog is a substitute for the child in the search for closeness to people. How do you expect her to start wanting children in such circumstances? Isn't it much more rational to have the children first, and only then the dog to take care of? Well, it's more rational, but it's easier to walk the dog than to change diapers and not sleep regularly. You know, your child will be with you for a long time after your dog. Not the dog, but your child will be with you at your last hour.

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kimberly_lester answered · October 11, 2020

   Number 15, your attacks are very flat, me and my children are not petty souls like you, they have nothing to envy for any material things or career-related ones that consumers like you put on a pedestal. I don't know how old you are, but it seems to me that you are over 30 ... I don't know why you say "my children", if you think that at 40 you can give birth to the first and the second at 45, let's say no it's so easy .... People like you usually bloom once every 20-25 years and then divorce or separate from their father to wave their flag and fuck with various idiots and swindlers or are forever unvived and give birth after 35 or do not give birth at all. It is no coincidence that we are disappearing as a nation, there are too many women who are too lazy to give birth and only think about themselves.

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ammelie answered · October 12, 2020

   From number 45 to number 50 I don't really want kids, it wasn't a joke. The reason I don't want children is the bad human material on a global scale - I don't want my children to live among such people. And as for giving birth to a dog, I have no uterus, no ovaries, no vagina to give birth to a dog. And even if I were a woman, if I had a little more knowledge of biology, you would know that such crosses are not allowed by the laws of Mother Nature.

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buddylongdong answered · October 12, 2020

   I am a man of 26 years, I love children but I do not want to have in the next 50 years the reason is that I do not know how and in what I will raise them I will think about children after I turn 75

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Agulka0412 answered · October 12, 2020

   Although I did not intend to get involved, but only to review, the atmosphere itself somehow prompts me to tell the story. I fully support the position of number 32, and I congratulate it. This is common sense for me. The bitches are different and there are some of them who actually replace the child with a dog. And there are those who discard the dog the moment they have a child, thus filling the population of stray dogs on the streets. It's hard for me to imagine what kind of parent you will be when you start with such turbo irresponsibility. Where was your mind when you took this dog? And even if they give them away or sell them, it is still simplicity and irresponsibility, because even an animal like a dog has some kind of soul, affection, etc. and does not like to constantly change its owner. I am writing these things not from the position of a desperate animal rights activist, but to make fun of the hypocrisy of some of those who take dogs ... In my opinion, dogs have no place in the city at all. But nothing. They are both cramped, they bark and they are not for a block, they are shit everywhere, with an apology. But let's go back to the sheep, sorry, the children. It is high time to think about the country, about the Motherland. The fact that it is bad that things are not going well, etc. is not a reason for another young person to leave the country, but on the contrary - to stay and make things better with what he can. You don't like the government - you protest, you fight, you gather a partisan detachment, if necessary. You don't like simplicity and chalga - create a blog, a website, write a song, sing, play, do, cost, gather colleagues. But to make all these goals easier to achieve, it is good to have more young people! Accordingly,

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naughtyschoolgirls answered · October 12, 2020

   52, have you and your children achieved anything in life? You give out "diagnoses", so I just ask? Are you smart, do you have achievements and education, do you do something meaningful? Because if the answer to all these questions is "no", then you are the consumers - you are spending a natural resource without contributing to progress and evolution.

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akosofficial answered · October 12, 2020

   Yes, this is the case nowadays most young Bulgarians do not have children. On the one hand, it is because they do not want to, but on the other hand, in my opinion, there are now many restrictions and obstacles to starting a family and having children. Also, many Bulgarians are to blame for the fact that many Bulgarians are gossipers - that it is not good for a woman to give birth young (at the age of 20-25, for example), even though she is an adult, because children are a great responsibility and a young mother according to them, he will not be able to see them, that women should not have children if they cannot provide them with everything. These are restrictions and suppression of women's rights, because every woman has the right to give birth at any age she wants as long as she is an adult and as many children as she wants. Why? What's wrong with a woman giving birth young and enjoying children earlier, instead of waiting a lifetime for one child. I do not like this tendency for women to give birth to adults (for example after 30-35 years), because it restricts women and makes them just wait for children, stops them from having friends, and the younger a woman has a friend, the better he will feel. Well, if we listen to people and their stupid monastic understandings (Children are a responsibility, etc.), then people should not have friends at all, they should be exiled to monasteries, become monks and nuns, be deprived of everything in this life and die alone without love and family. Bulgarians set limits for themselves with these too strict understandings of ours, and then we only complain that children are born only to minorities, as if they are to blame for us not having children. In our society, unfortunately, there are many restrictions related to the family and children. I think it's good to have a family and children, even if you can't provide them with some things so that you don't end up alone one day, get bored and have no one to talk to. And without that, our lives are too boring. It is one thing to live alone, to tremble alone and have no one to help you, it is quite another to have a family, to live with people to help you. Income and money are not important, it is important not to be left alone, and children should not be given everything, they should also have respect and help their parents, not just seek and anger their parents. Children must respect their parents! to tremble alone and have no one to help you is quite another to have a family, to live with people to help you. Income and money are not important, it is important not to be left alone, and children should not be given everything, they should also have respect and help their parents, not just seek and anger their parents. Children must respect their parents! to tremble alone and have no one to help you is quite another to have a family, to live with people to help you. Income and money are not important, it is important not to be left alone, and children should not be given everything, they should also have respect and help their parents, not just seek and anger their parents. Children must respect their parents!

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RubinFlames answered · October 12, 2020

   Yes, some young people really don't want children, but there are also many young people who are asexual, have communication problems, can't find friends and start a family. Nowadays, people are very closed and shy. In my opinion, this is mostly the reason why many Bulgarians remain unmarried and have no children, not that many people are now studying and making a career and therefore do not have time for children. This is not true. I know of many Bulgarians who have primary or secondary education, work in the most ordinary job and still remain unmarried and have no children, so this has nothing to do with education. It's just that a lot of people are asexual and can't start families, no matter what their education is. I'm also fed up with people who only talk about providing children with everything, or that all children should be strong students and have higher education, as if higher education is compulsory. Well, there are strong ones, there are weak students, not everyone can be strong and learned. I can't understand what this aspiration is for people to be all the same - scientists, successful, all to be something more than others, all to be the best. Nothing! It is as if these children, who are weak at school, are probably not human beings, they deserve nothing and they should only be mocked. And besides, now many go to study higher, because it is easier to accept for some specialties, while at one time they went a little to study higher, because then it was very difficult to accept only the strongest students. not everyone can be strong and learned. I can't understand what this aspiration is for people to be all the same - scientists, successful, all to be something more than others, all to be the best. Nothing! It is as if these children, who are weak at school, are probably not human beings, they deserve nothing and they should only be mocked. And besides, now many go to study higher, because it is easier to accept for some specialties, while at one time they went a little to study higher, because then it was very difficult to accept only the strongest students. not everyone can be strong and learned. I can't understand what this aspiration is for people to be all the same - scientists, successful, all to be something more than others, all to be the best. Nothing! It is as if these children, who are weak at school, are probably not human beings, they deserve nothing and they should only be ridiculed. And besides, now many go to study higher, because it is easier to accept for some specialties, while at one time they went a little to study higher, because then they accepted very difficult and only the strongest students.