Hi, I'm 21, I have a friend at 24. We've been dating for three and a half years. In principle, our sex life is very good, but because he had to go to Israel for work and before he left we had not had sex for a week. He left for 10 days, after which I also left for Israel because I was invited to teach at a dance camp. When I arrived in Israel I had a cycle and we still didn't have sex (I was in the cycle for 4 days). We hadn't had sex in almost three weeks. The other day he was left alone at the hotel where we were staying because I went to see a friend from the camp and he did not want to come. I told him I would be home in about two or three hours. However, my friend had to leave early. And when I got home I found my boyfriend masturbating. I told him I understood why he did it, but I honestly felt dumb. He's never done it before. I don't know why I got dumb. Do your men masturbate? How do you feel?
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It is normal to masturbate when he is not sexually satisfied. He has his needs and you have to give them to him. Otherwise someone else will give them to him.
OMG, do you really think he hasn't done it before? You are too naive about your age, and in a relationship for so long ... have you not clarified various things about men, sex, etc.
Dirty Daddy will explain to you: ALL men masturbate. By no means does this mean that they are not satisfied with normal sex. It's just different. For men, sex and masturbation go hand in hand, it would be absolutely wrong to accept it as a kind that you do not satisfy him, do not attract him, etc. When I was your age, I used to take it just like that when my wife masturbated ... over time, a man gets wiser, gains sexual experience and realizes that this is not the case. We even started masturbating together as a prelude, some porn, etc. and it was great. Now you are still small and inexperienced, but over the years you will feel these things ... Greetings
She masturbates and doesn't bother me.
It is quite normal to do it and there is nothing wrong with that, it can only make you happy because it is healthy, just a natural need.
"He's never done it before" - or you haven't seen it :) It's something personal and normal for both men and women, whether they're in a relationship or not. Stop filming and creating problems out of nothing.
It's perfectly normal. You just sometimes want to, even if there's a female around. For example, in order to keep an erection longer and to be able to have more complete sex with a woman, I have to abstain for at least 3 days. And sometimes those three days are hard to bear, so I prefer a quick release by hand. Better masturbation than infidelity, right?
He's probably masturbated before, but he didn't tell you. But it is not necessary, it is completely normal. G22
Haven't done it before? Come on, I don't believe it. There is no such man, period.
What if she had made him a Svr ...
But you should not be 13 years old !! what are these questions !! there is almost no man who does not do it whether he is 11 or 99 years old, those who do not do it to the body something is wrong, such are men as animals need to do it constantly during the day ... at night they are just created to go on with life, I don't see anything wrong with that, you should even be happy that it's sexual in nature like my husband ... he breaks me from sex and constantly wants us to do it and one time I say come on tomorrow and go to the bathroom and ..... he leaves after 20 minutes satisfied but he calls me his debtor, tomorrow we will do it for at least 2 hours :) the important thing is, still mine.
Yes, even when I'm in the other room with the child, he locks himself in the bathroom, plays porn and ...
He cheated on you with porn! It's best to break up and find a man who doesn't watch porn. Good luck with that. :)
We masturbate ....: D If not, we find another, during the time you are with friends, or we are on a business trip for several months.
And don't you masturbate when he's gone?
Masturbation is done by many men and even more by women, but the latter do not openly admit that they are checkers. Your boyfriend was complacent, most likely because you don't blow his whistle during a cycle (or at least not on it). If you did to him then, correct me. Only you know. Unlike you women, we men regularly produce semen for at least half a century of our lives and it must be periodically expelled from the testicles because it accumulates too much in them, becomes thick and if this swelling of the testicles lasts too long, the body responds to this with some unpleasant internal itching, easier excitability and a feeling of irritation.
I masturbate myself (just in times when I'm alone), although my husband is very sexual and we do it often. Accordingly, I find it normal for him to do the same. I didn't "catch" him, I didn't ask him, but I'm sure he's masturbating. Which is fine with me. However, I do not find it normal to prefer masturbation to real sex. Fortunately for me, my husband prefers me as much as I prefer him. We had a great sex, and that's very important. :) Ж31
I feel great masturbating. Otherwise, are you seriously jealous of his hand?
Aren't you masturbating? What does this have to do with the partner? My friends masturbated, they shared with me, I shared with them. It is normal.
It is perfectly normal to beat your head. Even while you are together. Men do it because the habit of self-satisfaction is from childhood and for a man it is not infidelity, but simply "some ME time". What happened so much? It's as if you don't scratch, you don't have a vibrator or you don't play with a shower.
You think stupidly. You are young. By the way, you do not distinguish between a cycle and menstruation.
No. He doesn't watch porn either. Nor I. When we need it, we just have sex and give ourselves completely.
Apparently you think it's more normal and desirable to find him fucking someone - because he's been tense for 3 weeks.
Wow, I have your problems. I wonder how to stop mine from doing nonsense, and she worries that hers is complacent. Well, rejoice that he is not looking for his need in another, and he is completely faithful to you. What's wrong?
There are two types of people in this world - those who masturbate and those who lie! Confucius
I find it normal if he watches porn and shines or just while he's with me. I apologize to the author for asking a question in her topic, but I also wonder if it is normal in another version. It really is not infidelity, but if it thinks about the neighbor, the mistress or some ex, then what and where is normal? He doesn't prefer you, but thinks of another? What is normal in this? Author, if you don't let him or twist one, it's normal, but otherwise they choose another in front of you? What prevents him from being with her, coloring and polishing her, or even her doing it? If she doesn't want to, she doesn't give, etc. is a separate question, but otherwise where is it normal for you if in front of you, she prefers to end up thinking about another? I just ask you the question, and I turn to men, it is extremely unnecessary for women to comment. For me in such a variant prefers thoughts of another, which is not infidelity, but it's not cool for the female audience - more precisely, that something else attracts him more than you. When I say again, if a woman does, wants and does everything, why not with her, but alone? Is this a preference for something else and more exciting, insufficient attraction to you, or am I mistaken somewhere? :)
And my friend does. I do it too. We even talk and share who imagined what while doing it ... or who .... It's actually more than normal for me, even exciting! Obviously you are not that close ...
The author pretends to be super naive and modest, but who knows what she is like in reality. Author, tell us, do you never masturbate.
It's healthy ... if he really doesn't masturbate and you haven't had sex in 3 weeks or he's sick or cheating on you. You should even be happy: D My wife and I have fun like that sometimes, when there is no one around for a threesome or something crazy, we masturbate against each other, it's very exciting ... and when the time comes we stand next to each other and finish. Give him some freedom of yours: P
I like to have sex every day, if possible 2 times for 20-30 minutes, sometimes maybe 3-4 times, but in recent months my husband could not satisfy me, he had erection problems, and I do not want to cheat on him, we had sex once or twice a week, several times we even missed a whole week ... for me it was awful, because since I had sex for the first time, at most for a day or two I was left dry by accident, and during these painful months I used to masturbate 7-8 times a day, but it didn't help me a little not to think about the lack of sex, during these months I understood how people who don't have a regular sex life feel, they don't have serious partners ... it's awful, I just don't know how to handle it! Um, not much on the subject, but when I wrote it I got better :)
No, he doesn't care about sex. Love is important. Maybe without sex. Like money. And without anything?
A 24-YEAR-OLD MAN I briefly and clearly tell you that there are no angry chicks ... This does not mean that we do not love you, on the contrary, we cannot do without you! We love you women! The check is for pleasure, sex for prestige!
I don't see anything wrong with that. I have good sex with my husband, but sometimes he does something on his own, just like me! While I was pregnant we didn't do French sometimes to each other. More often he himself something. I have never blamed him or felt less loved or wanted. Even reassuring, if he didn't, I might be wondering if he didn't have another. :)