Hello. Please help me understand what's been happening to me lately. I'm 29, and I've been having sex since I was 17. During these years I have had several serious commitments of several years, as well as several dry periods. What I can say about myself is that I have always been sexually strong, in the sense that during sex I have always had powerful and long-lasting erections that have allowed me to have sex for hours, sometimes every day. , and during sex I did not fall to the very emptying. My last serious relationship lasted 3 years. Sex was regular and abundant, but after the first year it happened for the first time that I fell spontaneously before I emptied. Subsequently, this happened only occasionally, during prolonged sex. I didn't pay much attention then, because I think we're probably getting a little overwhelmed with the chick, because I seem to have had the most sex with her compared to the girls from my previous relationships. After we broke up I had a dry period of almost a year, with only a few contacts for one night and all the time I was at max, as always. For two months I've been dating a new girl we like very much, and for almost a month we've been having sex every day, before bed and before getting up (I hadn't done that before), trying not to cum every time because I've noticed that with more frequent ejaculation the desire weakens. The problem that bothers me is that lately my erections are not as powerful as before, and as in the beginning of my current relationship, and that quite often it happens that I fall during sex. I can't figure out why I'm having too much sex, or is it something else. I don't think the problem is mental, as is popularly believed, because I've always felt confident and strong, and I've never had any problems with the girls I've been with and had sex with. However, what is happening now is starting to bother me a little. Please help me to understand. Thanks in advance to those who responded.
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It is natural that there is too much sex, give yourself some rest and everything will be fine. There is nothing wrong with you.
Do you know when a man realizes that he has begun to grow old? "When he doesn't get it a second time for the first time!" And do you know when a man realizes that he is already old? "When it doesn't happen to him the second time."
"... for almost a month we have been having sex every day, before going to bed and before getting up ..." Before getting up, it's great. :)
and my skin was fresher when I was young ...
It could also be from too much sex. Slow down a bit, you will get bored quickly .. :) If you still want to be calm, because it does not happen to you for the first time, you can consult a specialist. I am a 29-year-old woman, I have had long-term relationships, as well as short adventures, but it has never happened to me that the man next to me falls while doing it.
From a lot of sex NO, but from watching a lot of porn YES. With your current girlfriend, you have obviously entered a stage of routine sex and the previous thrill is gone. Try new things and positions.
In my opinion, the problem lies in the fact that you do not finish every time. Apparently you've done it before, as long as you have observations on the effect of not emptying. However, this method has a bad effect on the prostate, as you well know, it depends on whether it will fit you and how hard it will be. Stop this practice of not emptying, dilute a little sex. It is also possible that you have started to like the way the act goes, the things that are done to get aroused. It doesn't matter that the woman is different now, it doesn't mean diversity. Think about whether it's time for real sex, not records in bed. I wish you success F43
Attempts to explain your age problem or frequent contacts are simply unfounded. In my opinion, neither one (you are 29 ...) nor the other would create a problem. Rather, things like alcohol, some medications, more stress or even cigarettes are more likely to cause problems.
I am a man of 30, I have been married for 7 years and I have sex with my wife every day often and twice a day / I have a lot of sex and I can't stand a day without sex /. It has happened to me too, the work is that there are several things that affect - stress, work, fatigue, alcohol, eating before sex, etc. Pay attention to these factors, I think that nothing is pure for you and there is just something that you interferes and you have to remove it