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Does Being Small For Me Mean I Can't Love Him?

By 8inhard4fun July 23, 2020 13 answers Last updated July 23, 2020

Hello, I am 17 years old. I turned to you not only in the hope that by sharing my story I will receive advice from someone who took it to heart, but also that I will be true to one of my maxims. "The first and most difficult step is to realize the problem, after that already it's easy to solve it. " In my case, the problem is rooted in me - I like a boy who is 3 years younger than me! In principle, in old age this would not be an obstacle, and even a plus for both. But now things are not as I would like. I am the type of person who is used to mastering the situation and as you can already guess, this staggering cost me a lot. It took me about a month to realize I liked him. Then I decided to confess to him - I chatted with him anonymously for three days, and on the second day I admitted that I was 10th grade / he got my name several times, I denied, and he asked to call me so that he liked this name /, and on the third day after 3 hours of chat he asked me to admit to him who I was - burned to find out! I told him and immediately left the chat. Then for a few days we wrote to each other only as friends.

Then the events took an unexpected turn - for no reason he was angry with me for 2 months, lay down on the bus, and even begged my cousin not to go out WITH THIS PEDOPHILE! It is interesting how in such moments hatred prevails over love - the only thing I wanted was to see him suffer! I gathered my strength and decided that tonight he would regret being born. When I went to them, he treated me as if nothing had happened and we are first friends. Later in the evening, we started a conversation and word for word I realized that we were interested in the same things. Towards the end of the evening, he gave me his pen from the exam he had taken the same day. With a little delay, I gave him my dragon medallion / before I had given him another - but he broke it unwillingly /, with which he does not part!

Since then we go out to one company - we meet almost every day. And every time I see him I want to tell him how loneliness is bitter and love for him burns! I wish we were friends - he's a great friend, I wish I wasn't so hopelessly in love with him! Things would be so easy, but they never are! Thank you and I hope you help me with advice! I wish I wasn't so hopelessly in love with him! Things would be so easy, but they never are! Thank you and I hope you help me with advice! I wish I wasn't so hopelessly in love with him! Things would be so easy, but they never are! Thank you and I hope you help me with advice!

Answers 13

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missamerica_ answered · July 23, 2020

   Tell you what, he's 14, let him play football, and look for a boy your age.

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rosetaylorla answered · July 23, 2020

   Let him see that he is a paw and does not react adequately, he does not know what he wants. It's normally 14. I'm sure you can find something much better.

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babazooo232 answered · July 23, 2020

   At this age, boys often change their mood ... I went with a boy 2 years younger and I thought our relationship was serious, but I was definitely wrong. Give up this boy and move on. You'll be damn sick ... 1,2,3 months, but this is the better option!

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muslim_candy answered · July 23, 2020

   I have a big problem, I like a girl named Victoria I like from 2nd grade and since then I have been naughty and since then I try to tell her that I like her I try on Skype, etc. but I'm ashamed I tried to offer her but I can't because I'm ashamed but please help me win it enam that I didn't impress you but help me

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chestwig answered · July 23, 2020

   ooo god ... and I thought I was the only one: D What's worse is that I can't forget it; xx

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kitty_woow_ answered · July 24, 2020

   You better leave him at 14, the boys are still children, and you're already a woman. At this stage there is simply no way to get it, you want a relationship and he is playing with Playstation or football. If you were 20 and he was 17, it would be different.

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camiblue answered · July 24, 2020

   With a meme, it's the opposite ... a boy 2 years younger than a meme likes me, and I don't like him at all. And it just annoys me, but I don't know how to get rid of it and stop .. otherwise on your topic .. your boy is as big as me .. I know 14-year-olds are empty-headed .. you better find a bigger one or as much as you say someone you honestly ... :)

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cuteangelx answered · July 24, 2020

   4-How old are you?

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boxershorts_88 answered · July 25, 2020

   It's not nice to say that all 14 boys are the same, for example, when I was 14 I was radically different from my peers, it's true that they think about football and games, but I thought about how I would become a writer and I wrote fairy tales, novels - things like that. I liked a girl who was 1 year older than me, but she didn't go with me because I was small and not nice, and I knew that the problem was what people would think. My thought is that not everyone is the same;)

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eleonores answered · July 26, 2020

   to have the boy's problem too ...

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burlypup answered · July 26, 2020

   And I like a boy 4 years younger than me: (((.. I don't want to like him, I try not to think about him, but it doesn't work. I'm very sick and ashamed to share it with anyone. I don't know what to do: ((! And he likes me, but I do not know how to do. Please give me advice on what to do. I try to forget it, but it does not work :(!

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flimsyhieroglyph answered · July 27, 2020

   I'm 17 and I like a boy who is a year younger than me and I don't know what to do

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venusbabyx answered · July 27, 2020

   15th, if you like yourself, go and don't care about people's thinking, the important thing is that you understand each other :)