The banal story of the banal feelings that each of us has experienced at least once. I wonder if all people deserve to be loved. I'm not talking specifically about men or women. We humans are very similar and very different. One has always loved more than the other or has never been loved. I can say for myself that I have never been loved by men. However, I have loved, at the moment I also have strong feelings. However, I feel that these feelings of love grow into hatred and dislike. I wonder how this man deserved someone like me. For him, I was once ready for so many things and I did so many things. Now, however, after every blow from him, after every pain, I feel rage and a desire for revenge. I wonder, or rather repeat to myself, that my day will come. The day will come when he will want to be with me and be the same, but there will be no going back. Do you think these are some of my meaningless utopian expectations? For example, I feel myself moving away from him day after day and wondering if this should have happened. I wonder why fate brought us together when he didn't deserve a girl like me. He deserves some heartless selfish shawl. Why didn't fate meet him like that.
Do I or those like me have to suffer and be fucked so that someone can learn their lesson. I know that when I leave he will think for a long time. Not because he will miss me, he will miss our home comfort and my unconditional love, but not myself. Will the wheel turn for me too? Will I meet a truly loving and devoted man. I doubt it because we always lose good people. And will he suffer as I do now, or maybe he will never feel that way, because he just doesn't have any? Well, if he's not able to love, why did I love him. What did I win? What did I lose? Who should I ask to tell me? In fact, no one seems to know anything and we will never know. Is there a force that returns to every evil with evil and to good with good. I am 28 and so far I have not seen any justice in general. How can I believe in God? In miracles and in healing? Thank you for your time. I will continue to wonder, and hope that one day I will just stop caring and get rid of my feelings and see that there are more important things than someone to love me. which returns to every evil with evil and to good with good. I am 28 and so far I have not seen any justice in general. How can I believe in God? In miracles and in healing? Thank you for your time. I will continue to wonder, and hope that one day I will just stop caring and get rid of my feelings and see that there are more important things than loving me. which returns to every evil with evil and to good with good. I am 28 and so far I have not seen any justice in general. How can I believe in God? In miracles and in healing? Thank you for your time. I will continue to wonder, and hope that one day I will just stop caring and get rid of my feelings and see that there are more important things than loving me.
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As long as we have involved God in our nonsense. That's right, you're perfect and good, and the one next to you is super bad. Does this story seem familiar to me? He will care just as much as I care when someone wants to show me how irreplaceable it is and "give it back" to me, namely in general.
"How can I believe in God?" - Faith in God comes from listening to and reading the Word of God. Faith is not for psychotherapy, it is for the salvation of your immortal soul. If you read the Gospels, you will see that we must forgive our debtors from the heart and you have the desire to take revenge on them, but demanding revenge accordingly, you must be avenged for your sins, because whatever court you judge with, you must be punished. adjudicated.
In this case, there is nothing to return to the one you are in love with, because one cannot choose for oneself whom to love and whom not. Just as it is not your fault that you love him and you cannot control these feelings, so he is not guilty if he does not have the same feelings for you. Don't take it as an injustice, just try to look at things as realistically as possible. This is always the case in life - we are not equal. We are all human, the same blood flows in our veins, we are created in the same way, but the upbringing and the values we receive and the circumstances we face make our lives flow in completely different ways. And this is completely natural. And things are not so clear. One is always a loser in some situations, but a winner in others. So look more positive. There are other important things in life besides love and relationships. In addition, when a person does not tend to be good at something, you need to think about whether he himself is not mistaken somewhere. Personally, I do not always accept that blame for our failures is sought only in some paranormal forces or in the so-called "fate". Just try to accept as normal the thought that we can't always succeed in everything, because we are not so perfect and so intelligent beings that we know how to achieve it. The best we can do is try to be aware of our mistakes and shortcomings and improve as much as we can.
Do not accept any failure in a given relationship as a cruel injustice. one must consider whether he himself is not mistaken somewhere. Personally, I do not always accept that blame for our failures is sought only in some paranormal forces or in the so-called "fate". Just try to accept as normal the thought that we can't always succeed in everything, because we are not so perfect and so intelligent beings that we know how to achieve it. The best we can do is try to be aware of our mistakes and shortcomings and improve as much as we can. Do not accept any failure in a given relationship as a cruel injustice. one must consider whether he himself is not mistaken somewhere. Personally, I do not always accept that blame for our failures is sought only in some paranormal forces or in the so-called "fate". Just try to accept as normal the thought that we can't always succeed in everything, because we are not so perfect and so intelligent beings that we know how to achieve it. The best we can do is try to be aware of our mistakes and shortcomings and improve as much as we can. Do not accept any failure in a given relationship as a cruel injustice. that we cannot always succeed in everything, because we are not so perfect and so intelligent beings that we know how to achieve it. The best we can do is try to be aware of our mistakes and shortcomings and improve as much as we can. Do not accept any failure in a given relationship as a cruel injustice. that we cannot always succeed in everything, because we are not so perfect and so intelligent beings that we know how to achieve it. The best we can do is try to be aware of our mistakes and shortcomings and improve as much as we can. Do not accept any failure in a given relationship as a cruel injustice.
No. Nothing revolves and there are no guarantees in this life. If they don't love you, it's probably because you're not loving. This is the sad truth. People who are liked - are liked for a reason. The same with people who are loved and people who are adored. However, people look outside for the fault / reason for this. And it is not there but in the people themselves, inside them. Get better than you were yesterday and so every day. You have to stop thinking about what can be given to a person and what that person will want to take from you. Brother.
Number 1, obviously you're a bastard by nature, you're like that most I'm not surprised.
I ask myself the same question, why didn't a whore happen to a creature like them, to see where the sun rises from ... Why don't such people gather with their peers, but look for "victims" among decent and good women / men? Author, don't think so much, put an end to it and don't wait for retribution. This person is causing you suffering, ie. run away from him, and look more wisely at your next partner.
On the first question - no, of course. On the second - yes. Everyone has a destiny - good, bad, some. But everyone also has the free will to lead their own lives. And yes, at some point everyone deserves what happens to them.
some people are just mentally defective and will never love and be happy, it's very simple
I'm sorry, Mr. Bratan, but I'm definitely in love. I am dedicated, I am a good listener, I am a good friend. I am tactful, I am an earthly person and I have more positives. I also have negatives, one of them is that I am naive in love, I also have complexes. At times I burst into anger and shout and scream, I'm nervous. If I don't love myself because of these things, let them not love me. You cannot generalize if I have not described in words what kind of person I am. You think cool and original, but I don't think so. On each topic you write some arrogant and arrogant comments, here is a person like you I would not like.
This is as long as you prefer to believe in some imaginary gods instead of yourself. No one owes you. And you didn't love either, otherwise you wouldn't have expected anything in return. It's a trade - "I love you, but you have to love me too; if you don't love me, I'm disappointed in you, I stop loving you and I want you to suffer." If you think you're good just because you're clinging and you have given your strength and time to a man, you have a problem with concepts. And yes, there are thousands of more important things in life than waiting for someone to come and love you. Honestly, lately, when I go to this site and read stories only from people who are the perfect victims and who expect someone else to bring them what they want, and to meet their huge expectations. Echo, grow up, you're not 15, it's funny.
Until 2 Then go read and do not bother us with your nonsense :)
Number 2, look at the comments and topics and you will understand that this is too complicated things for their modern souls, what you are talking about interests us "backwards".
No! NO! Not everyone deserves it. Besides, love is something that must be earned before it can be given!
it's scary to know the truth about women, and most men would probably live in ignorance of it if their pettiness didn't show it off. After all, women are the ones who praise love to lie to someone that they are worthy of love, but the truly frightening irony is that they themselves praise it so much because they are not able to experience it. Only the woman is considered the center of the universe and writes "I wonder why fate brought us together when he does not deserve a girl like me." He deserves some heartless selfish shawl. Why didn't fate meet him like that? "This goddess demands revenge from the fate of the other for not punishing him as she wanted. And yet, since he is with such a vicious and vindictive woman like her, it is obvious to him as well. is written to have the perfect life. And the sad egocentric realization - "How to believe in God?" It is true how to become the center of the universe will be not you but God. It is clear that a radical egoist like you values nothing but his own ass. So, miss, don't get carried away, listen to the Count's drama queen and kill your sick fantasies of personal holiness from the unwise head
Човек не е роден за да страда и да му е кофти, като виждаш, че една връзка не те прави щастлива, прекрати я. Няма смисъл да си губиш времето и да се залъгваш, че ще стане чудо и той ще види какви качества имаш и ще те обикне като в сериалите. Просто приеми, че този не е твоят човек и отмини. Не си пилей чувствата за някой, който не ти отвръща със същото. Старай се да не мислиш за него, отдай се на хоби, развлечения, чети. Най-доброто отмъщение е безразличието и забравата, ако въобще имаш да му връщаш за нещо. Дали ще вярваш в Бог или нещо друго е много личен въпрос и не виждам защо трябва да го коментираме.
Много интересен казус. Тя никога не е била обичана, но в момента обича силно мъж. Как така като няма взаимност имаш чувства към някой? Аз може много да обичам, но в момента, в който той прояви грубост, лошо отношение или подцени чувствата ми, губя всякакъв интерес къв него. Той е този, който не е достатъчно далновиден, за да ме оцени по достойнство. Той е този, който трябва да съжалява за мен. Продължавам без грам съжаление за бивши. Животът ми е много пъстър и интересен, за да си губя времето и да инвестирам емоции в някакви безперспективни връзки. Ежедневието ми е щастливо и смислено, защото аз си го правя такова.
Number 6, I'm nasty because no one can manipulate me with a nasty attitude by pretending to be interesting. I'm just far-sighted enough to throw out things like number 19 before it's too late: D. But they can always brag about how happy they are on an anonymous site, so don't think about them: DD.