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Does Female Flirting Always Mean That A Woman Wants Something?

By thekedrickbrown September 03, 2020 23 answers Last updated September 03, 2020

I will try to be relatively short. I am 25 and I can say that women are constantly flirting with me. I meet a lot of people every day, but even when I go somewhere or we pass each other on the street, they look at me to the last until we get to each other and pass each other. I don't have a super athletic body, but obviously I have that look. And now the question. In most cases, there is no niche between me and these women. I wonder, however, does female flirtation always mean that a woman is waiting for a man to act? Because it has happened to me that they flirt more than visible with me and when I go to her, she puts on the mask of the ice queen, she has a friend or who knows what else comes out .. So women and men, how to distinguish female flirtation and always is a prerequisite for something? Or for the most part it's just for fun

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natalyosmann answered · September 03, 2020

   Hello, as a woman I am 1000% sure that everyone would say NO to you! Female flirting is definitely not a "prerequisite for something" as you put it. :) Each one has a different personality and character, but in general I think they do it because of ego and thirst for attention.

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yuno_renz answered · September 03, 2020

   I am a woman and I would say that at least in my opinion flirting does not always mean that the woman wants something to happen. Both men and women sometimes do it for variety or simply because it comes our way. Flirting is normal, like looking at the opposite sex, even though we are bound. Of course, I mean a little flirtation, not something too much.

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8_in answered · September 03, 2020

   Good attitude should not be confused with flirting. Just because a chick passed you on the street and didn't look at you viciously doesn't mean she's flirting with you.

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gaelle_vp answered · September 03, 2020

   Without checking for yourself, who can say what they want? When you meet another person in front of you, of course you will look at him, there is no way to pass as blind. Just because they looked at you doesn't mean they're flirting with you, just human instinct. And you, as soon as you feel that it is a flirtation, try to light the fire! Flirting is just the spark.

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juniorguitar777 answered · September 03, 2020

   Well, there is no smoke without fire ... If he flirts, then he wants something. Whether she wants it on a conscious level is another question, and probably the women themselves are often surprised by the consequences ... However, the hormones certainly want their own!

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garpagon14 answered · September 03, 2020

   And are you sure they're flirting with you? You can only imagine.

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phb answered · September 04, 2020

   No, it doesn't always mean, and I think you understand it from women's reactions, there's no point in asking stupid questions. Another thing on hand is that men often confuse a nice attitude with flirting. You put almost everyone who behaves well with you in the head of a flirt. Learn to make a difference so you don't get annoyed.

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lindamagazine answered · September 04, 2020

   From the author. It's not just about women on the street. And it is one thing for a woman to just look at you, it is another to look at you for 10-15 minutes constantly, to fix your clothes, hairstyle, etc. when we are in such a situation, of course.

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omegaverses answered · September 04, 2020

   You turned out to be very busy, but flirting seems to be only in your head, hahahah.

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flame_beauty answered · September 05, 2020

   Female flirting is first and foremost a test of whether a woman is (still) walking, whether she likes herself. We women define ourselves largely by our beauty and we need confirmation. Once you have shown interest, then you have confirmed :). From then on, you are on the move, whether you will present yourself as an interesting piece or nothing will happen.

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lovelylizzie420 answered · September 05, 2020

   Rarely. So we just raise our self-esteem.

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virgo_ria0831 answered · September 05, 2020

   It depends on the woman. I have many girlfriends who like to flirt without any thoughts of relationship, sex or anything. I don't like to do that and I only signal to the men I like. By the way, next to men I don't like, I'm very careful not to make gestures that might make them think I sympathize with them. And yet - some men take everything as a sign that this is so! A few days ago, I had to explain to such a young man again that just talking to him when we hit a place and laughing in his presence does not mean that I expect to have a relationship. What I find over time is that really keeping communication between a man and a woman is only on a friendly level is a laborious job. They should not be attracted to each other. I've also been in situations where I've thought that a man liked me, and it turned out that he was just nice and kind. So from this point of view, I consider flirting to be the best option to show a real desire for something to happen and not use it to scratch the ego. If this becomes a common practice, we will not wonder if we like a person, everything will be simple. :)

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bouyguestelecom answered · September 06, 2020

   7, and do the same women have the same "nice attitude" towards an old, fat and ugly uncle? Or some grandparents at 80? Because, if it's just a "nice attitude", it should be the same for everyone? I am a man, but I notice that my attitude becomes unusually kind to girls and women, from whom I expect and hope that something will drop ...

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sdriks answered · September 06, 2020

   Obviously, as they told you, they want to scratch their ego. They make a virtual (soul) chick, so to speak. They launch an advertising campaign just to tie you to them, and when you take the hook, when you go to take them off, they immediately cut the ice shower immediately: "What do you have ???". And so, to the end of the world. They want to have an entourage around them from as many Lapnisharans as possible - so they assert themselves, raise their self-esteem and self-confidence. And they may still need you for something - a favor, a treat ... And the "moral" victory is theirs - you come out the intruder, and she is such a pure, immaculate, flawless ... - just a white dove. Elementary muffin numbers.

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llacaman answered · September 06, 2020

   To add - because a woman is a paradoxical creature, in case you really liked her, and when she has any intentions or desires, she is more likely to be cold from the beginning, to imitate contempt, because she intuitively feels that it would provoke you. more than with banal flirtation. So - you will say to yourself: how will this one ignore me? ... And you will start acting. Flirting leads to familiarity, and familiarity often means a kind of disrespect.

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191campchamp answered · September 07, 2020

   By the way he described them looking at you (watching you walk away), you're more likely to look crazy than those who glare at the sight of a pretty woman and keep an eye on you as they pass. And I have justified my blouse, so to speak, because some people, when you put on clothes, it's as if I have dug buttons next to my navel or at least a stain ... That's why!

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uefacom answered · September 07, 2020

   Author, you may be misreading the signs. Sometimes men perceive the elementary worldly kindness as a flirtation. I will tell you a recent case. The other day I accidentally stepped on a man in the crowded minibus. I turned around, apologized, the man said: "It's not your fault, then there is no place for a needle to fall ...", at that moment a double seat became available and we settled there. We travel outside Sofia to our villas; he had recently bought the property. We talked about the bad transport to where his house is, where mine is, how difficult it is if a person is late for work to come home, from here - who does what and so it turned out that my new acquaintance and my husband are former colleagues, they have lost touch, and here they are neighbors. When we reached the last stop, we exchanged business cards, I said: "You must stop one day! Tony will be happy! "and everyone went on their way. As soon as I opened the gate, I completely forgot about him. Won't you, in twenty minutes the new neighbor calls. And he says," Look, I'd come right now because you're a nice chick, but I don't like to I'm third in a relationship, if you understand me. "I was burning with embarrassment! What" third ", what" fourth ", what is it all about, except for a polite and absolutely non-committal invitation to an old friend of my husband ?! My husband then he laughed as I told him the story, laughing most at my sincere indignation and explaining things to me: "When one speaks Chinese and the other French, these people are unlikely to understand each other. You, darling, are wandering among your intellectual friends, where there is a tacitly accepted code in communication and the promise "we will hear each other"

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bandbabyy answered · September 07, 2020

   Haha, funny story! Author, give details of where you look at each other on the street for 10-15 minutes. It's like snails diverging. : D And the ice queens are probably for the fact that from afar and silent you get closer to their fantasies, which are flying with a cold shower when you approach and open your mouth. :)

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21blackking answered · September 07, 2020

   Author: Honestly, looking at the answers, you women don't know why you do it, but anyway. And a specific example: I was in the bank to deposit money. The girl was looking me straight in the eye all the time, smiling and playing with her hair without even saying anything, so I let the leak go because it happens often. Here you have decided that I am either very busy or crazy.

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alex_cd_ answered · September 08, 2020

   I don't know about the others, but I'm (number 18) a man and I didn't see anything that deserved a serious answer, so I allowed myself to joke. After your last comment, I will say that a photo of you, or preferably live, would help for more adequate answers, but unfortunately both options are impossible here. And women always want something, but whether it's what you want is no guarantee. :)

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maryellenmatthewsnyc answered · September 08, 2020

   We also tell you this, author, that you misread the signals. The girl in your bank was smiling and looking you in the eye? This is his job - to be kind to each client. Well, the girls in the bank treat me the same way, no matter that I'm a 47-year-old woman. Did you fix your hair? Well, and? I greet every person we meet in the elevator of the 16-story building where I work. Now what? Should I be attacked - right there in the cabin? You don't have the fatal charm you think, dear. I say it without knowing you, but I'm sure. And if I'm wrong and you really own it, maybe it's good to think about how this charm can effectively attract people to something more than a glance. It does not happen only by looking at each other.

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mewsushi answered · September 08, 2020

   "Women and men, how can I distinguish female flirtation and is it always a prerequisite for something? ..." Sometimes yes, sometimes no. In any case, if a woman gives you such a signal (and if she attracts you, of course), you are directly attacking. If he ties, he ties. If not - bye and come next. The worst option is for the girl to really have sympathy for you, and for you to lose her out of a lot of thinking. It's like with a fishing rod, the fish pushes, pushes, you wait for it a lot, you don't dare to catch it and it avoids or eats the bait. Better early than never. So even if you miss a few times, you'll still catch it someday. And never ask women for advice, they don't know what they want, let alone give you general advice. Regards, M 35g.

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clit86 answered · September 08, 2020

   There is the work of the author, that in order to understand whether something means something, you have to take some action. Otherwise, you will only be amazed.