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Does He Like Me?-thomasallen6

By thomasallen6 October 20, 2020 6 answers Last updated October 20, 2020

Hi, I like a 2 year old boy. I've known him since I was very young. We were together in a kindergarten. I didn't pay attention to him from the beginning, but lately I haven't stopped thinking about him. He now studies abroad and we see each other very rarely, only on longer vacations. I feel like he likes me, but sometimes he is very nice to me and other times it's like I don't exist. When we play cards (Kent Kope) because we are in a team, our sign is to wink (he chose it). Once we were alone because the others were at sea and only the two of us went out. He looked at me as if he wanted to kiss me. We stood close to each other. Once while I was writing to a friend, he started teasing me by pushing my hand and pressing random letters. He was behind me and he was holding me like he was hugging me. I had the feeling that he was trying to kiss me because he was almost to my lips but did not move away for at least 5 minutes. Once it was a question of who I liked, of course I didn't tell them. He started pinching my hands to say something. I had the feeling that he most wanted to know who I liked. We always stand next to each other and when there are more people on the bench we sing I have the feeling that our hands are so close to each other that they will be attracted like a magnet. I even had such a dream. One day it was me, him and a friend of mine. She was crying and we were watching the stars. He lay down and I was sitting next to him and he told me, come to bed I will make room for you. Then we got up and he showed us where the little bear was. I couldn't see her. He took my hand and pointed to it, which was close behind me. I could hear him breathing because it was right next to my ear. So I want to ask you, do you think these are signs that I like it or just imagine

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allisajacobs answered · October 20, 2020

   Amiiii ... anything is possible. Sometimes we do not see the "signals" in front of our eyes, and other times, we interpret things as we want them to be. But if you wait for these signs, you can wait another 2 years. I don't think there's anything more to unwind than to act. If he likes you, he definitely doesn't know how to show it and maybe he's afraid you'll reject it. There is nothing wrong with taking matters into your own hands and understanding what it is all about. Invite him to go out alone or try to stay alone for longer, even if you are with company somewhere and just tell him how you feel. I know it will seem very scary and awkward, but when a person wants something, he has to make an effort to get it. If there is a shy person who is insecure or unable to interpret your behavior, he may not take the first step soon ... or at all. And what? You will stand and wonder what is going on, if something will ever happen, and he will eventually take it upon himself to find a girlfriend, and then it will be even worse for you not to have done something about it before. Close your eyes and confess to him! Don't worry, it won't be as scary as you think. And then you will know if it makes sense to feed hopes or not ...

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betsie answered · October 20, 2020

   I think she shared her feelings with him, but a long-distance relationship torments her a lot. There are certainly feelings; 3

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clubroyalfilms answered · October 20, 2020

   Signs are that you have to go and write your homework.

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xFuckMeSirx answered · October 20, 2020

   He must have sympathy for you. You can't help but understand if you don't tell him how you feel just tell him ... that you feel happy around him and like him. Ask him if he has the same feelings for you !! If you don't try now then you will regret it .. Even write to him right now PAB

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mutta_frenchie answered · October 20, 2020

   From what you describe, he doesn't look like a disturbing boy to me. If he teases you, pinches you, hugs you, etc., then he is open enough and the intimacy with girls does not bother him. So I think if he really wanted to kiss you, he would have done it. Of course, once you like him, you will always find some signs of sympathy on his part, but it may not be so at all. Some boys just like to tease girls to look cool and like them without having a certain attitude. I wish you it wasn't like that and you really liked it, but unfortunately what you said doesn't give you much reason to think so. The bad thing is that he studies abroad and you will rarely see each other, and that you have known each other since childhood. She may just look at you like a close friend. I advise you not to tell him directly that you like him, but if you want, try to invite him to go for a walk somewhere alone under some pretext or tell him various things on a "love" topic and watch how he will react and what he will say. Touch his hand with an excuse to pretend to give him something or something and see if he will back off. Good luck.

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Melani4G answered · October 20, 2020

   To like you and want to kiss you, but he worries and does not gather courage and therefore shows his attention in strange ways.