Hello and I want to tell my story. I had a 6-year relationship with a man, of whom I have a 2-year-old child, but 9 months ago we broke up forever. I felt very bad and cried all day until I met the other. I fell in love very quickly, as he at least told me. Everything was going well, we talked about marriage, living together, etc., but until the day he started postponing it for the next time, he thought of all sorts of reasons not to live together. I decided to wait for him a little longer, but I can't anymore and I told him to choose because I have a child and I want security, not something else. People don't understand it, we are constantly together, we sleep together every day, he is looking for me, but he doesn't want me to bring my luggage to them, why Is it just for sex? Anything that comes to my mind is still 33 years old and I can judge whether I am alone for him or not.
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Well, darling, your situation is very naughty. You really need security. But with ultimatums you won't be able to sit down and talk to him most calmly. Without making him choose between you and anything. Just explain to him how you feel, what you want from life from himself. And you will judge from his very answer. Ask him what he can offer you, such as love as support and whether he is ready for marriage, regardless of whether you will enter into a civil or just live together, it is the same. Well, I wish you a lot of success and I hope things go as you want them :) !!!
You haven't written how long you've been with your current boyfriend. If it's clear lately why he doesn't want you to move in with them, he just wants his freedom for a while longer. I think from my (male) point of view.
Emmy, look what I think now: A normal man will never, ever get caught, at least seriously, with a woman who has a child by someone else! I write off the married woman - and if she has a child - forget it - she does not exist for me!
Honey, all men are very mean and want only one thing and that is sex.
People don't care about him anymore, we said goodbye forever. Thanks for the help though.
You are one of many ... Please give me advice, because I will go crazy, I love him and I want to live together. He gave up very quickly.
AND DID YOU THINK OF THE OPTION THAT HE COULD WANT YOU, BUT NOT THE CHILD OF ANOTHER MAN IN HIS HOME. IN THESE CASES, YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE, AND YOU WILL NEVER FIND A BETTER THAN YOUR OWN CHILD.
YOU ARE SO LIMITED AND WITH GUIDANCE THOUGHT THERE IS NO MORE ANYWHERE. A CHILD FROM ANOTHER MAN - IF I LOVE A WOMAN, I HAVE TWO - ONLY IN BULGARIA AND SURROUNDINGS DOES THIS ORIENTAL MENTALITY HAVE IT. DIVORCED WOMEN WITH CHILDREN ARE NOT SECOND HAND PEOPLE !!!! I RISE UP FROM ALL THIS ....
I RISE FROM ALL THIS SIMPLICITY .... IN NORMAL SOCIETIES, WOMEN DIVORCE AND CREATE OTHER FAMILIES, WITHOUT LOOKING AT THEM LIKE THAT