My story is pretty idiotic mainly because I'm afraid to talk to people I don't know well and I'm quite embarrassed at first. I'm a girl of 16 and I liked a boy from the upper class. It's not a family, it even looks a little closed. Besides being in the same school, we both travel by subway in the same direction. So after a while I sent him an invitation on Facebook. He accepted her four days later. He doesn't come in every day, but I don't know if that's the only reason he lingers so long. I wrote him to ask him something about school and he answered quickly and not in one word (this happened around Christmas). I had decided to talk to him after the holidays when I saw him, but I couldn't - every time I had the opportunity, I froze in fear. This despaired me and I began to seek help from various other people. I wrote to him again, he answered decently again, but he did not ask any questions, and the conversation died. It turned out that a friend of mine knew a girl from his class, we met her and she tried to make me go to their room to meet him, but again I was very scared and it didn't happen. Then she called him outside and we met, there was a group of several people and we talked for a while. It was very awkward, we both seemed to be talking the least. I didn't look him in the eye all the time. I was later told that he, too, had looked at the ground. Then I was determined to talk to him again when I saw him, but 2-3 weeks passed and I still haven't done it. I can't tell if he's avoiding me, but he's definitely not trying to be around me. I know it's getting more awkward every day, and I know that if I want something to happen, I have to act. My question is: don't you think that if he showed the slightest interest he would do something, write to me, say a "hello"? I know my story sounds funny and probably slimy, but I really like it a lot and the problem may be that I believe that something can happen, but every day I say "I'll do it today" and I don't like it. gives an opportunity, or I miss it and it eats at me from within.
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imagine that he feels the same way and doesn't know what to do, try to go to their room more often, pretend to talk to the one you met, greet him, look for reasons to talk, something will always happen for to talk, you just have to be around and wait for the right moment
You can see that the boy is shy, but I found it funny to explain that it is not a family haha, because I am a girl and I am a family, but nothing changes. Otherwise, here's a piece of advice from a faim haa. I think it's best to write to him and ask him directly if he wants to be friends, because he doesn't talk much to you and apologize if you bother him, explain to him that he is interesting to you and would be happy to meet him if there is nothing against. The kinder you look, the better for you. If he tells you that he has nothing against you and it becomes clear to you that you are not annoying him, then ask him what his hobbies are, whether he goes to certain places, what he does while he is not at school and then according to his likes invite him. I mean, if he tells you he loves golf, for example, then you invite him to golf. Otherwise, ask him if he likes hookahs, if you go out on a hookah, your chances of getting closer are higher, because you have to sit next to each other, to smoke from one hose. Just think of a suitable place where there are only two of you, whether you like it or not.