Since I read a lot of stories of people who want to end their lives, I decided to share mine - namely, does it make sense to live such a life I am literally a wreck - physically and mentally. In appearance I am neither thin, nor muscular and athletic (it is true that I am a lot of weight above the norm, but it is not obvious to me because I am tall). The problem, however, is that I can't find love. I first had sex with a prostitute (when I was 18). However, whenever I fell in love, the girls cut me off. No girl agreed to be my lady at the ball, no girl wanted to dance with me at the ball itself, I recently wrote to an acquaintance and she didn't even want to go out for coffee. The girl I loved for 3 years more than anything made fun of my feelings and now she is with someone else.
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Well, you decide whether to turn your tail and run away to the forest or to change something in yourself and in your life ... Look at your life as a challenge, and at yourself - as an architect. Do, create something beautiful DESPITE the difficulties! The confessions will come on their own. The later you enjoy one thing, the sweeter it is, because you are more aware, and you have worked hard.
And what should I do. I try my best, knock on every possible door and from everywhere I get the answer no: "No"
don't care about anything. Live your life the way you want the most important thing to be fun.
Well, it's easy to say but hard to do. It's just that sometimes I get torn by the thought that I'm alone and I will be alone in the future. I get angry watching the other boys immediately cling to any girl they want. When I think of those who have had sex since the 8th or 9th grade, I feel like a complete wreck. And when I think that after 10 years in the evening I will go home alone, there will be no one to share the joys and failures of my life with, I just want to live this life. Yes, there are temporary substitutes - sports, martial arts, television, in extreme cases, sex with a prostitute (although I don't want to do it again), but I just can't always live like that. The author
I'm 22 and I'm a virgin, I had 2 boyfriends when I was in school, I had the visa to have sex but I'm not ready. Hey, you're going home alone, big deal.
Number 6, at least you had the opportunity and you chose to keep things that way with you, while it doesn't work out for me at all. But I can't really understand you at the age of 22 not feeling ready for sex, I felt ready at 14 Authors.
You look like a decent boy to me, and I feel sorry for you. But this is not about suicide, just O. Oh, wait a little longer and you will still find the right one, which does not only look at the appearance and is not some complex that will hurt you. And if you have money, why not go to the gym? Maybe it can help ...
Well, my family gene is like that - to be tall and fluffy (although we don't see it until we undress). Otherwise, I haven't been to the gym for a long time, but I run in the City Park every day. Anyway, thank you for your kind words and sympathy.
What are you misleading him ?? Fitness will not help you, because if you are looking for a girl, you must be rich. I'm not telling you because I like it that way, I'm just saying how the girls of the confused age think. They don't look at the muscles, they look at the steam, but what's worse is that those who don't look at your cash have become units. Then tell me about spirituality, I will not be surprised if someone sees in my words and attacks me with criticism and insults. :( I am sadder that there are many such boys, and the girls care about the hat. They just manipulate us. to give them money, which shows a slightly bare thigh, or the décolleté and come on .. jump on the tub and then pay for it .: X Nature has created us to multiply, they look at it as an obligation, unpleasant and humiliating sexual intercourse. But this is life dude, if we want to change something, we can squeeze our pockets and not give more money for these services. We see this as a favor. :(
To be objective, not all girls are like that, I know two from my class where one goes with a boy who works on the construction sites, and on the other (where I was in love with her) her friend worked as a florist in England. But there is a certain amount of truth in your words number 10. But in general, I think that in this case the problem is in me.