Hello, It says a girl of 21, I'm a student. I have been writing to a boy for several months, he is in Spain and we have not seen each other until now. He had returned to Bulgaria at New Year's Eve and I felt him pull away slightly, stop writing to me so much, and it was as if this made me even more interested. At the moment he keeps writing to me, we even send each other stickers, gifs, we talked nicely. I don't know what happened, we haven't been like that for a few days now, it seems that he likes me, he writes to me all the time, but he never does anything about it, that is, to admit to me or to see how we will see each other when he comes home. We haven't even said that ... I'm very sad, I don't know what I could do in this case. I can't admit it to him. It is his job to take this step, but it never seems to me that he intends to do so. I wonder if I should block it and forget about it, it will be very difficult for me, but I am more and more attached to a person with whom I don't think it will work out. Thank you for your attention!
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"I can't admit it to him. It is his job to take this step. '' 'With these stereotypes, you will die ALONE. Either you do something or nothing happens, as you are so lazy to take the initiative is your problem. Obviously, the person is afraid of rejection or is just shy.
When he returned to Bulgaria, he was caught by the coat and did not write to you, do not hope for anything more than this chat, even if you see each other, he will probably stand like a stump and will do nothing. He probably has no experience and is unsure, I had a similar story, but in the end nothing happened, I just wasted my nerves, we at least went out but just talked like friends and in the chat constantly some kisses, some stickers, but live stopped and eventually stopped I'm looking for him.
His step? It is not. The relations are bilateral. You don't deserve it, and I don't know if he deserves it.
It's not worth dealing with a boy like that.
Write to him when you have time, but he also does hundreds of other things;) that time flows and should not be wasted. And advice to all, leave the blocking for cases when someone scares you or bothers you steadily. In other cases they are childish nonsense.
Haha, when he came home and found his old friends, that's why he "withdrew". Otherwise, it's very nice for someone to pay special attention to him, so that he has at least something to fantasize about until ... you know.
From the author Thank you all for the comments. I think I've shown him eloquently enough that I like him. "The distance from me to you is so long ... Even if I walk thousands of kilometers, I will still not have one - the only step - the step that YOU have to take!" Nedyalko Yordanov
Author, you still think and you are almost never right. Your ideas for the roles are honestly crazy and nothing will happen to you when you see that it is difficult to help him and when you become attached or want something to happen to do something about it, and not just wait and grumble that it was his job. The most loving men come out of shy boys, you just want your mind not to be fragmented into boxes, but to care what you want to happen and what you can do about it. The other is girlish ligatures of attention-grabbing and gesturing pickles, with whom a very unfulfilled relationship would come out, full of accusations and labels about roles and problems, because someone can do something that needs to happen, but it doesn't. to do the other - stay away that your mentality is ugly, please. USA