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Does Not Answer

By penelope_amazing September 17, 2020 4 answers Last updated September 17, 2020

Hello! I'm a boy from England and I'm studying at university. I am a Christian by birth and recently went to church. I had not visited a place of praise for several years. I also return to the town where my parents live and where the church is located. So let me move on to my problem. I had just written here about a girl we were dating. But by coincidence I left her. I just fell out of love. I wanted to dedicate myself more to my faith. Last Sunday I was at the meeting like every other weekend and there was a new girl with her mother. We talked after the service and I liked her very much. Radiant, smiling, beautiful. She also answered lengthwise and breadth, she was not silent. That was my observation at least then. However, I obviously made the mistake of telling her about my ex-girlfriend, because she and my ex-girlfriend are on the same side. She was surprised that I was in her country. We exchanged Facebook because she claimed that she did not know her number by heart and that she could not check because her phone was in her mother's. We talked more and she said she had to leave. I waited a few days to write to her, not to look desperate. I wrote and said that I am glad that we met and which church attends in principle, whether they have a youth and so on. The next day I saw her online with the difference that her account was deactivated. My message has been marked as delivered. That was more than a week ago. The next day she restored her account, but my message came from delivered to sent and it remains the same now. I don't know how to figure this out, is it a glitch? Should I write to her a second time? However, it seems to me that she has not logged in to her account for almost a week. Maybe she had a bad impression that I have an ex, and Christianity forbids extramarital affairs. She seems really immersed in her faith, and most of her Facebook friends seem to be Christians. I couldn't tell her that while I was with my ex I wasn't a newborn Christian yet. Like I said, I liked the girl a lot. Kind, kind, beautiful, charming, lovely, etc. I don't know how to understand all this. I would like to see her again, to get to know her, but how? I don't have an answer from her yet. What can I do from now on? thanks in advance that while I was with my ex I was not a newborn Christian yet .. As I said, I liked the girl very much. Kind, kind, beautiful, charming, lovely, etc. I don't know how to understand all this. I would like to see her again, to get to know her, but how? I don't have an answer from her yet. What can I do from now on? thanks in advance that while I was with my ex I was not a newborn Christian yet .. As I said, I liked the girl very much. Kind, kind, beautiful, charming, lovely, etc. I don't know how to understand all this. I would like to see her again, to get to know her, but how? I don't have an answer from her yet. What can I do from now on? thanks in advance

Answers 4

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cloudydaysreno50 answered · September 17, 2020

   Leave her alone. If he wants, he will answer you.

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hottylarax answered · September 17, 2020

   She has hardly seen it, but rather has no interest. She may have spoken to you out of kindness, she may have missed something, she may be worried about theirs, since they are so religious. Whatever the reason, I don't think it makes sense to bother her anymore. If she had at least a little interest, she would still give you a hi. But since I see that you like her very much and she will chew on you, still write to her once again to make sure I'm right. If she still doesn't answer, you have no choice but to leave her alone.

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dicksfury answered · September 17, 2020

   I have a rule that is to be repeated once! You say what you have to say, you repeat it once if necessary, because I am convinced that everything happens and in many of the ways it is not what I think at all. If after the repetition the situation is ignored, then you forget about the number. Brother.

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frontageroad68 answered · September 17, 2020

   from which sect did you say?