Hello, I am writing a new topic, because my old "Do you like me or I imagine" is exhausted - I just acted and realized that I like it! Briefly from the old topic: "I finally couldn't stand it and revealed that I'm in love with her" "A few days ago I heard her say that she was" "in a hole" and could not concentrate as before "" she was the first to look me - he even turned because he had his back to me and looked me straight in the eye and so for at least 10 seconds face to face. Then almost - sorry, I look like that! Ah, he even said he doesn't remember! I write from time to time, but general talk and nothing about the fact that I'm in love with her - she already knows it. The strange thing is that she keeps saying that her husband is not excited about her, and that she doesn't mind us writing to each other. !! ”“ At our last meeting she started explaining various personal things to me and also asked me if I had dealt with my feelings, because she was worried about me and wanted me to be well! She told me again that it was not a problem for her to call and write to her when I decided. ”“ Last time she told me that she was looking forward to my calls, because it was nice to talk to her! . ”“ She told me that she wants me to write and call her, because I was not indifferent to her and she likes me as a man, a colleague, etc. !!! She even offered to share it with me and called me when I was nervous, angry, etc. "" Sometimes it seemed to me that she wanted something to happen between us, sometimes it seemed to me that I was annoying her and she didn't want to he sees and hears me. When I didn't understand exactly what she wanted, I ended up with a direct offer of sex, which, as I expected, she didn't accept. Then I almost stopped looking for her, and she seemed angry, for she must have decided that was my only goal. After that we wrote to each other and heard each other a few more times, but when we see each other in the general company it seems that she is angry. I had no goal - I just shared my feelings, and then everything got out of hand for me and ended with this proposal. I found out that she is quite a strong character and even if she has some feelings she will not show it in any way, which is best, because otherwise it can get bad. I don't know what she expected - she wanted to keep me around, even though she knew about my feelings! And now my question to women is: Can a woman who behaves in this way have no feelings for me - even if something is slightly frightening to her? Not that I'm going to do anything, but I just can't explain this behavior and I want to know if my analysis is correct? And my analysis is that she had feelings, so she withdrew. We are both married!
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The woman may have liked you, but since you are married, have reservations. Second, the fact that you offered her sex was stupid. Every man can offer her sex, how will your proposal be different from someone else's? What makes you stand out as a person? I don't know why most men think that making a sex proposal makes a huge impression, and you should feel flattered. Nowadays, the invitation for sex is not a miracle, just someone uses it as a hello. You have to stand out, with your qualities, in order for him to want you. You made an impression, but when you sent this invitation, you became like everyone else, and you are quite normal and she thought that this was your only goal, that all your words were sweet lies to shine on you. Not all women want to ruin their family, you may have liked it, but to have reservations about your feelings. Even if she had decided that it was better not to get into dramas.
But this proposal came many months after I explained myself in love and then I abruptly withdrew. Then she offered us to write and hear. What can a woman expect when she knows that a man is in love with her, but there is no way to be together ?! To be just friends - is it possible, in addition - we are both married. And I had stood out, as qualities and personality even before I explained myself to her in love, and obviously that's why she wanted me to be around her. Apparently, it was a pleasure to court her. And strange as it may sound, I hadn't thought about sex but just at one point I decided that maybe she wants to have some kind of sequel and is waiting for me to remember. Mine was a kind of pure love - almost platonic, because it seemed to me just perfect. Beautiful, charming, sexy, intelligent, kind, smiling, positive, in a word, unique.
Hello, if you are married, do not deal with foreign women, firstly - it is not right and secondly you will get in trouble.
M. you pretended to be a great stripper. The woman let you in a little closer to her, she was in a "hole" and you just asked for sex like a slut. There is no woman who does not want, there are men who can not ask! You are both married, what more did you offer, "love" and when you go back to your beloved you say how much you love her. You are in the same company, so you write to your husband's friend and work together. This woman seems to be at a much higher level than you. She opened you correctly, otherwise she risks ruining her family because of someone who doesn't seem to be worth it. Now that she hasn't let you in, you'll be drinking beer with friends and saying what. va e! Reaction of a failed downloader. Learn your lesson, tasks do not happen to you in your family. Women are the ones who choose with whom! This woman has to run away from people like you,
Yes. Maybe. Accepts they are a friend. Women like to turn someone's finger on their finger. I haven't done it, but I know my girlfriends do it.
Author Up to 5 Comment 3 is mine and there you can read, and a little to clarify the situation. Dear ladies, what did you do to me, I'm not a stripper, nor have I offered sex, like a slut. Not her, but I let her into my soul after she did that to me. in love with you - so, just to court you and raise your self-esteem. I do not know her husband, and also during the many years of marriage I have never thought about infidelity. love is a disease.
There is no. She wants to raise her shares, to take her down. You're just wasting your time watching and your conversations are a collection of empty words. Block her. She is not the only woman on the planet.
Hello! This site is like a book about real life, we can write, but we can't read, if we read we don't understand it, and we don't learn a lesson. Author, don't you think that a year and a half or two is an awful lot of time in writing and complaining. And because you analyze the actions of your burn / let him call her the Heroine, as you express yourself /, you miss the comments that are written to you or you do not understand them. I will only try to analyze what is written. And at least you know the Heroine, even though she shared even intimate things about her family. It's also a mistake on her part, because you try to use her weaknesses. It's not bad to be in love, no matter the age, but love is and respect, devotion and most importantly to preserve the dignity of the partner. The adulterous man / woman / can be betrayed 100% on really elementary grounds. Behavior, / you described it exactly /, change of wardrobe, change of appearance, erotic lingerie / but which you do not use at home /. And the doubts start until you make a fatal mistake, and it all turns 180 degrees for a moment. I see from your topics that in periods when no one answered you, you wrote yourself. But you did not notice, more precisely you did not know the Heroine, that she wrote in your topic and you in it. There can be no 90 percent match / and she wrote to you,, I hope you are the same person,, / For work, you help her in some things, but you are not colleagues / she also writes it /, she invites you for coffee with colleagues and alone, organizes parties, my conclusion is that you work for her and maybe she is your boss. Doesn't it turn out that she has a better vision, physique, education and income from the woman? The fatal mistake of knowing your wife, and as she writes (but you missed it) she follows her, as well as you, not her husband. And if you did not understand it, everything is only a matter of time / there is no undisclosed infidelity /, and you know it better from experience. Why do you feel sorry for your wife, does your wife's lover feel sorry for you? Hardly. You have not understood the most important thing you are striving for, and it is written in capital letters !!! The heroine has a normal happy relationship, and only wants an emotional sexual experience, but you were still more narcissistic than in love. Only your eyes are left, and my colleagues probably already know / excuse me the disabled / you don't work with the blind and deaf. Family women who want to keep their family, their career, their security, even the fragile harmony they have created in the family are paid for by men who are too in love. Infidelity is a secret shared between two people, one of whom is already a traitor. That's why she withdrew for a while. It's just a question of when and how many people you will drag to the bottom. I don't know if I'm right, but this is only a small part that I analyze, if at least 50% is so think seriously about how you continue, otherwise you will change your wardrobe again. The heroine may still be reading your topics and you reading hers, if you don't discuss it openly and find out who wants what and how much she agrees to take the risk. An apology to the gentle half for rightly saying that some men are not worth it, no matter how good they look. Good luck to both of you! if you don't discuss it openly and find out who wants what and how much he agrees to take the risk. An apology to the gentle half for rightly saying that some men are not worth it, no matter how good they look. Good luck to both of you! if you don't discuss it openly and find out who wants what and how much he agrees to take the risk. An apology to the gentle half for rightly saying that some men are not worth it, no matter how good they look. Good luck to both of you!
9 You've played a lot with the analysis, but unfortunately it's not true. 1. I don't use any of her weaknesses - rather she knows a lot about me. 2. Yes, I am in love and I have kept the dignity at 100% 3. The change of the wardrobe coincided with an increase in my income, and I have not written anywhere that I use erotic lingerie! 4. I analyzed the one that had written to me in the topic and 99.9% is not it. 5. Yes, this for vision and physique is individual and different men like different women. 6. I don't work together, nor is she my boss. 7. There is no normal happy relationship - if there was one I would be rudely cut off and this would probably be a much better option for me. And for the fact that it's not worth it, I don't know how to answer you, because the women I've slept with are less than the fingers of one hand, and over the years they have pressed me more than the fingers of both my hands!