I met a man I have feelings for. We have known each other for about 2 years. He is an extremely intelligent and honest man. But he carries in his heart the grief of a crime committed by his father; it just ruins him, he feels like a criminal because he carries his blood. I'm a little confused, I know about this story from the beginning and I see how it affects my friend; so far I have not asked myself whether I will be able to accept it with this story; but now that I feel I have to make a decision about my life, I'm scared. I'm ashamed to admit it, but it's true, this story affects me and I'm confused ...
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Let your feelings and respect for your friend take over!
You have to judge for yourself that you know the story and you know your friend! If you love him, does it matter what his father did? Help him to overcome this whole story and move on.
Well, it's not his fault for what his father did. What zodiac sign is your friend?
And you are right to be afraid your gene is a gene beware!
If he has not hidden from you from the very beginning and you see that this is ruining him, it means that he has a conscience even for his father, and he cannot be responsible for him. This is nonsense for your pear. I don't know what his father did, whether it was caused by someone else or intentionally, but keep in mind that only a part of the genes are manifested. In my opinion, if he suffers for it, they will not show up if there are any. And be sure that he is also afraid of what you will decide. But if you know from the beginning ...