My friend and I have been together for 8-9 months and something is still wrong. From the beginning we had a lot of problems, because he didn't believe me, and the reason for that is that our difference is big, he is 30 and I am 18. And so from the beginning he drank a lot, we fought, he even touched me, but I I swallowed these things and we continued our relationship. Last time we had such a scandal on New Year's Eve and since then we have made great progress, we are thinking about the future, I will finish in 2 months. We want to live together, to have a child, we even work on it. But when there is even the slightest problem and I make a mistake, he immediately wants to leave me, he says there is no point in not feeling well. So one day he wants a child from me, and the next he doesn't want to see me. I don't know what to do, I love him very much and I really want to be with him,
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and you dumped it, you're crazy if you give birth so young from a mold that affects you are complexes, understand that it's not normal for a man to attack a woman
Obviously, this man, despite his age, is unbalanced and cannot be relied on. Think about what would happen if the child was already a fact, and he decided that there was no point in being together and left you.
are you okay .. not only are you small but you are also stupid and naive .. how would you want to have a child from a person who has touched you .. can you look after this child .. do you have a job? do you have an education what can you give him? me if tomorrow he grabs his rags and dumps you then what are you doing with a baby in his arms ?? think people .. stop flying ..
I don't know what to tell you except that you make things difficult on your own! When did this man touch you for the first and last time? When you've seen him drunk or trying to skate people. If you love him, make him see you, because if you know how much torment you create for him, your imagination is just poor! ... and still likes you the way you are !!! Do not make an elephant out of a fly, but spit out the stone that is stuck in your throat! We do not play games here, but we are looking for adequate advice !!! This man loves you very much, but you do female tricks yourself! Be honest at least once, but not only with yourself, but also with the people and the one you care about!
This is living proof of how stupid we women are when someone makes us feel like potential mothers to their children. "I want a baby from you" seems to be the easiest way for any average or below average intelligent woman to bow her head, to accept the Chosen One to be the incubator of this supreme male individual, and to swallow any insult in the name of " wants children and family with me ". Complete shock. And for number 5 - apparently he is one of those who think that a woman can "deserve" the beating and that if someone is boiled and attacked, then surely the woman was looking for him and provoked him. And for this a complete shock.
No. To live unhappy. To beat you. To have problems ... Well, if that's something that makes sense - yes, it makes sense in that regard.
LEAVE IT! Don't be silly to GET PREGNANT from this unbalanced uncle! Young, beautiful girl, don't waste your time! How many wonderful and NEW things await you, you tie yourself to this old goat with an APOLOGY. Get away from him and don't look back, there is no other solution. YOU WILL BE SORRY if you don't!
Author, you really are very naive. You're only 18 after all. Almost all men say such things to the woman next to them for some purpose. I guess he wants you to think you're the only one and do your best for this relationship. Telling you that he almost wants you to get married and have a child by you, you will be ready to do anything for him, and living with a man of 18 is a pure mistake. What could be better for him than to live together - you will have regular sex, you will cook for him, you will clean, etc. At 18 you have to think about how to build your future, and if a man really cares about you, he won't tell you such things until the 9th month of a relationship, he will do it at a later stage, if for example you were 2-3 years together, you have already lived together and so on. Look, my friend tells me things like this, and we've been together for a year. But I'm more skeptical. Maybe he's in love now and he's really thinking these things, but the truth is, only time will tell. I myself can not be sure that he is right until a significant time has passed since our relationship. In my opinion, men are sometimes big talkers, the only sure things are not the words, but the actions of a man. I wouldn't live under one roof with him now, I'm too young to have any personal space. For me, the ideal age to live with a man, get married and have a child is after you have a stable job in the specialty - you and him. 30 is the ideal age for a woman to start living on a family basis. that he is the right one until a significant amount of time has passed since our relationship. In my opinion, men are sometimes big talkers, the only sure things are not the words, but the actions of a man. I wouldn't live under one roof with him now, I'm too young to have any personal space. For me, the ideal age to live with a man, get married and have a child is after you have a stable job in the specialty - you and him. 30 is the ideal age for a woman to start living on a family basis. that he is the right one until a significant amount of time has passed since our relationship. In my opinion, men are sometimes big talkers, the only sure things are not the words, but the actions of a man. I wouldn't live under one roof with him now, I'm too young to have any personal space. For me, the ideal age to live with a man, get married and have a child is after you have a stable job in the specialty - you and him. 30 is the ideal age for a woman to start living on a family basis. to get married and have a child is after you have a stable job in the specialty - you and him. 30 is the ideal age for a woman to start living on a family basis. to get married and have a child is after you have a stable job in the specialty - you and him. 30 is the ideal age for a woman to start living on a family basis.