Hello, a very sad, confused and lonely girl is writing to you. I'm 17, after a few months I'm 18, charming, good-natured and ..., I'm not bloated, I'm not paired, I'm fine, I can communicate. Recently I go to the gym, with a friend of mine, we train, from time to time we look at each other, but it doesn't matter. A few days ago I found out that a boy liked me on 22/3 I don't know somewhere there I will call him A. My friend has a boyfriend and he trains there, and that day we were 3, my girlfriend and her boyfriend. At one time I separated and the boy in question went to them and asked them if I was talkative, that I was sweet and tiny, (minion) and he asked if I was a virgin and she told him I was, and he thought about it and said then it would be a little difficult. , why am I wondering because he wants to pass me. Anyway, after that he withdrew and so, a little later he came to us, we were talking about common things, I felt that there was something he was just looking at me but not telling me to say no, on the contrary very kindly politely, we were talking, common things . So I did not have sex with a boy, I had boyfriends were not many but it was for a short time. And I really want a boyfriend, but I don't want him to use me only for sex, how do you think he won't go with me because I'm a virgin or it's kind of good, I don't know everyone thinks differently
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Author, don't deal with this boy exactly. It's just not normal for someone to ask if you were a virgin instead of asking about your interests. The man just wants sex from you and doesn't hide it. He likes physical women like you and that's it. He hasn't talked to you, he hasn't dated you, he doesn't know you as a person ... but look - he looked at your body and found out about your vaginal condition. Advice from me - do not deal with people from the gym. Yes, it's easy to flirt there, but the attitude is physical. Go to the gym to play sports, but look for a man at school, university, etc. In the gym you will meet only men for sex. Not bad, as long as your interests are in that direction. You are 18 years old, not bad, but if you want something more - this is not the man.
Listen to the advice of 1, he is very right. There is no logic in someone instead of talking to you, going to ask your friends about you and not for anything else, but whether you are a virgin, and his comment is eloquent. Fuck him and that's it. As described, I like you too - cute minion, but do you think that's enough for anything but a little tossing between the sheets? You are small and that is why you have to burn your mind :) from your uncle :)
What do you call a BOY, a man who is at least 23? !! The man wants healthy sex, not nice relationships and boyfriends. Don't deal with it !!!
Don't deal with it. And he is unlikely to deal with you, once he realizes that you are a virgin, meaning, they only want sex from you, and you are a virgin, and obviously either can not open you, or it will seem too long waiting for you to let him go if you possibly leave. So, it's not your fault that you're a virgin, there's nothing wrong with that, his problem is that he's looking for a girl because of one fuck. If you want him to take advantage of you, well ... you decide.
THE AUTHOR: I think so too, but I wanted to ask you, thank you for the wisdom. And nowadays you remember that most people first think about sex then love comes, I'm not one of those, I don't want any serious marriage relationship to keep myself until the first night, I just want to know how much the person wants me and whether he wants me only sexually and whether he is interested in my personality, and thank you very many friends.