Good evening friends. I am writing this letter in another black evening for me .. I already call them that when our people are arguing, more precisely, my father always scolds his mother for not wanting and she is silent and even ate paints from him because he is very bad but only for us and for outside and for other people he is a very good and smart person ... I am 24 years old and I live with them, but I am moving. My father is a good man when he wants to be, but when he is angry about something even a little, he makes it a big problem and harasses me, my brother at 23, and most often my mother sucks. You can't talk to him well to explain yourself, but why, but what, etc., not a word not to happen, only he is right, ONLY he knows everything ... I can say that we are all afraid of him and I don't know what to do .. I don't want my mother to live with him but there is no other way because I have no opportunity to help her .. Oooff people, my heart hurts and trembles, I tremble all the time and my mother doesn't know how it is because I can't go to her out of fear. Help me give me ideas what to do with my crazy father ..
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You are 23 years old, and why do you still live with yours? Act like you don't like it. I don't understand, how can you be 23, with such a sinister spelling ?!
Well, when you are 24 and never move out, let them live as they know, move out or run away from you by leaving them a note not to return.
You live with them, and you can't go to her, where is she, isn't your father fighting with her !? Very unclear. If you are in a home, why not help her? And what kind of man is your brother, 23 years old, and he leaves your father to derby, can't he jump on him? No matter how bad he is, your father is already old and if you wash him he will shrink his hair!
You and your brother are big now and it's time to find a job and move out. When they are left alone, they will calm down. And your task is for you and your brother to oppose him and show him that what he is doing is not ok. Why are you all silent and afraid? Get together and beat him.
Are you a man? Is your brother a man? Do people like your father know how to calm down by smashing his beak and letting him lie covered in blood by the sink until he regains consciousness and starts wiping his own blood? God ... if my father dares to say anything, I'll break his fingers.
So you're a 24-year-old woman and your brother is a 23-year-old man, right? I will not judge you for not knowing how to proceed, because you have been living in fear for many years, and this hinders adequate judgment in certain situations. Listen now. In the next fight, you take your mother by the hand, go to get her medical treatment and file a complaint of domestic violence with the police. If you are lucky enough to call 112 during quarrels at home, even better. Then you sit down with this woman and tell her directly that you are afraid to leave her alone with your father and you want her to divorce. Don't let her start with stupid explanations that he won't give her a divorce, that she wants to stay with him for you and things like that. There are none. If he does not want to divorce voluntarily, he will go through the courts, they will divorce again, but it will take more time and resources. The woman can also get a restraining order. It is important for her to have her own income, to work in order to be able to move out at the first opportunity. You, your brother and she are adults, you are all adults. Work, raise money and go to a place to live together. Then each of you can decide where to live, you don't have to be under one roof for life, but as an initial idea it happens. No one can strike, harass or threaten another human being with impunity. It doesn't matter that they are married, it doesn't give him the right to force her to do something. you don't have to be under one roof all your life, but as an initial idea it happens. No one can strike, harass or threaten another human being with impunity. It doesn't matter that they are married, it doesn't give him the right to force her to do something. you don't have to be under one roof all your life, but as an initial idea it happens. No one can strike, harass or threaten another human being with impunity. It doesn't matter that they are married, it doesn't give him the right to force her to do something.