Briefly my story, I met a boy in Tinder, we went out a few times, we liked each other and our relationship started. I had done Tinder for such a purpose, a serious relationship, not to look for someone for sex. Our relationship lasted 8 months and the scandals started on the second. Call it the sixth sense, but I never felt loved by it. He introduced me to his parents, friends, and I was his official friend. We talked about children, a common future, we promised to be together FOREVER. But my fears that he didn't love me continued, I got more and more out of control. He was constantly hiding his phone, constantly sharing some stupid posts and stories. He didn't want to take many, many pictures with me. And I concluded from everything that he did not love me, that he was looking for another. Last Friday, as we lay there received a message in Tinder, I was angry, I said nothing, I turned to the other side. In the morning I told him that I was very disappointed why he kept his profile on Tinder, he came up with the stupid excuse that he kept it for our chat, of course I didn't believe it, then he said that when he got drunk he looked around from time to time. I literally went crazy in front of my eyes, I gathered the things I had with them, he was standing and looking at me, he offered to take me to us. Here I literally freaked out, jumped at him, hit him, pushed him and told him I hated him. My brother came and took me away, I was literally drunk 24/7 for 3 days, I didn't go to work on Monday, I was constantly crying. I wrote to him, but he didn't even read my messages, but he didn't block me. I went to a psychologist, I was almost relieved. I love him very, very much, but I may never trust him again. I guess he doesn't want to see me. Even if we get together, I don't see how we will continue. Did he love me Am I paranoid, I have a complete mess in my head. Literally all day I look at his profile and wait, wait and I don't know what. Please advice and opinions.
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When he hides his phone, his work is not readable. Just keep it quiet, it doesn't make sense. Don't expect him to appreciate you when you're gone, it won't happen. Just erase this person from your mind, it's not readable.
Abe, what are you doing with this one? You will not get together, and it is not good for you, what is it for you? She didn't even go to work, she didn't sober up. And for what? Because of some idiot? Enough nonsense.
People, don't expect serious men / women from tinder ... This app is only for sex, whatever you ask, it will tell you. Leave him alone, it's clear he's not asleep. It will not be the first or the last.
From the author: I believed, because I am the first to meet my parents and friends and they told me, I am his first serious relationship. I wonder if I overdid it or he just doesn't love me.
If you say end once, it means end. He's already gone, don't expect anything from him.
Neither yours nor his reaction and actions are adequate or normal. It's good that you haven't gathered to deceive each other that you can build something more both of you ...
You're just crazy, the problem is only in you
Wow, you jumped to beat him ... What about looking at profiles? Consider what jealousy, and now she was left alone.
Nothing new . Many women have suffered from tinder, badoo and other similar sites .. Just read the latest topics .. All scammers on the Internet. I have already deleted my tinder and badoo accounts. I realized that I would not find a serious man there
The attitude of people using Tinder is disposable. Stick it in your head. This is a sex app. For nothing more. Most of it is in your heads and then you roar. Where to find a link? Well, no one knows that. But I know where not. In Tinder and in dating sites - 99.9% security. You can't see a water jug in the picture and expect it to become a water heater. No way.
I liked the qualification "FOREVER" You shout until death do you part. Ha ha ha ha
Author, meeting parents and friends is not who knows what. Every man can do it and not invest anything.
Not only are you overdoing it, but you're out of control. You sound paranoid. This behavior is very repulsive. You just got into a fight ... I don't know what to tell you. He may not be a flower to smell and he may not love you, but your behavior is bordering on delusion. Don't you have dignity, people ..., what do you call and write. It is as clear as day that after your cracks everything is over. You start the car and say goodbye. It wasn't worth it anyway.
Serious men do not hang on social networks. M36
So how did you know you were the first to take home? If he loved you, he would look for you, even then he would tell you Oh don't stay, another bastard. As we quarrel, mine doesn't let me sleep on the couch, and what's left is to let me go. He is the answer in front of you, a person who loves looking for, who does not love easily forgets, that is, if he does not look for you and does not write to you, then he has found another.
Are you 15? It sounds like a lot of childhood to me. In short, you better leave.
Men don't care about anything. Years ago I was in the same situation. I was crazy, I loved him very much. I was exactly the same as you. I constantly thought that there was another, that he did not love me and the like. Remember from me: "He will return, but you will already be with another"
All ladies love to be "in love" with a jerk who doesn't care about you. Take matters into your own hands - love is a mutual feeling, not one-sided. Yours is pure mania, because you have not been able to get what you want, namely someone's full attention and devotion. On the other hand, when you receive them, you become extremely bored and start looking for another thrill. Stop being easy prey for players, and have dignity, even if you have to be alone for a while.
You scared him - he said to himself, what will life be like with this one?