Hello, I have the following problem .... I have a girlfriend of 2 years, sex with her is not bad, but far from what it was with my last girlfriend. The difference is that my current girlfriend likes to be more dominant, to take the initiative, the same poses, nothing dirtier or perverted, which I do not like at all. While my ex was different, she stood in all sorts of poses I told her, we improvised, we tried new things, it was like a sex doll, she did a lot of "deep throat", anal sex ... I talked about this topic with my girlfriend, but just I have the feeling that we do not fit in sex. For this reason, my desire for sex has dropped, I do not want another boring and monotonous sex. Do you think this problem can hinder our relationship in any way?
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Sometimes girls are afraid not to compare them to whores or think of something like that, so they do not betray their sexual desires. They keep them in the derbies of their minds. Don't blame her, she may just be ashamed to tell you so you don't think she's a slut. Tell her you want to try a pose like this and see how she reacts. I think she will be happy with something new.
yes, it happens anyway .... the bad thing is that it will hardly ever change ... Dirty Daddy
In this case, you are both perverted. Being a very dominant woman is not cool. But for a man to have any desired type of porn is also a perversion. If you want a sex doll, just buy one.
Abe, if she is cool and punctual as a person - make a nice family, and you will always find lovers and scoundrels ... After all, don't forget what the real (natural) purpose of sex is! ... Use it at least 2-3 times as intended, and then harness your imagination and creativity ...
Either look for another girlfriend if this is such a problem for you or stop muttering and accept her as she is.