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Doubts After Anal Stimulation

By bobbybobat July 29, 2020 27 answers Last updated July 29, 2020

Hello, M28 writes to you. So, first a little history, then a few questions. Yesterday, when I went to my boyfriend, I felt that she was thinking of something. Just a feeling like that - he was supposed to be behaving normally, but? it seemed to be something naughty :) After dinner he let me know that we had a long night ahead of us, we went into the bathroom together, and then he almost threw me on the bed. Apparently she was educated with some literature or movies, because the massage was great, and maybe I was more aroused, but anyway, it brought me to a state of caramel cream. And here comes the embarrassing part. The picture is as follows: I'm lying on my stomach, she works wonders with various aromatic oils there and I'm just wondering if I should turn around to start with the essence, when she delicately puts her finger in my ass! Not the whole thing, but still… I felt very ambiguous, I was both very happy and I was thinking " How can you have fun, well, that's p * derastko! "but I realized that there should be no problem, because this is her, we have known each other for a long time, I have? trust, she would not abuse him, etc. I was a little scared because so far she has not shown that he wants to dominate in that way (at least that's how I see him), nor did I expect to accept him so reluctantly. I definitely pick it up when I see a more twisted woman, but at the same time I don't regret it at all, because sex is simply indescribable afterwards. road? Did you repeat? And did you have doubts similar to those described, or any remorse? Did you overcome them or did you stay? Questions to women: How would you react if your boyfriend asked you for such a service? Do you find it gay? Does this kind of domination over your partner arouse you and do you consider it domination at all? Or is it just another way to deliver pleasure?

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kartnissevergreen answered · July 29, 2020

   Look, there was a movie now, if I'm not mistaken, it was called the lovers guide: sex positions, I'll lie to you, I don't remember exactly what it was called. I saw something similar there and that there is a point that if you touch it you can bring a man to ecstasy. I personally don't know if I would try, but your girlfriend is brave. Just because you like it doesn't mean you have a tendency to be gay. Just be happy that your girlfriend is diversifying and that you have a great sex life.

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guywild25 answered · July 29, 2020

   Something like this happened to me once. I was belly up and my girlfriend was massaging me. He played around my ass a lot. I remember strength, yue I was terribly excited and even wanted to penetrate. She opened the topic, told me she really liked men's asses and gently rubbed my anus. I was scared because I really liked it. I said we liked things like that. Now I'm curious too. She continues to play from behind, but after my categorical refusal she did not try to penetrate, and to ask for it already seems too pedal to me.

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vikki_walker answered · July 29, 2020

   Hello, if the topic is not a fabrication - I personally am not a supporter of a man doing such a thing and I would not be with one, but in your case, if you really like it, I see no reason to bother. If you are too tormented or you can't get used to it yet or maybe you know internally that you shouldn't. Think about it. Good luck.

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trtsteel answered · July 29, 2020

   There's nothing to worry about! very useful, as long as you know exactly how to do it and be very careful! Quotes: "The prostate is a delicate glandular organ that is easily injured when pressed with a finger. As a result, bleeding occurs, secretory functions are disrupted." "The message is done not with pressure, but with circular movements."

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bigg_boss_ass answered · July 29, 2020

   I will answer you from my position as a woman. First, I don't consider it dominant, but part of the love game. It's as if you put your finger in her ass, is that dominant? Anyway. I have a great desire to do it to my friend, but I am preparing it gradually, because for now he is pulling, obviously because of the same stupid scruples that are harassing you now. I don't see what's gay about that? !! It will be gay if a man puts a finger in your ass, not your girlfriend. This area is a very erogenous zone for men and you can just relax and have fun without dumb thoughts. Make your girlfriend play with the area between the anus and the base of the testicles, my friend goes crazy;)

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veronicapassi answered · July 30, 2020

   My wife also tried to put a finger in my ass. I'm 29 years old MAN> I notice that she likes it a lot and she doesn't hesitate to put her finger or 2 in my ass. Lately, he's even hinting at a penis belt to fuck me in the ass, which doesn't make me the other way around ... It's just all a game and experiments for a bigger orgasm ... I like to be the weak part at times, and the dominant one

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daniksaroberts answered · July 30, 2020

   Homosexuality is a sexual attraction to the same sex. You're not a fagot, your boyfriend just knows where to touch, and he doesn't learn that from the movies, or at least she can't watch a movie and then do it perfectly from the first time, that's the most disturbing thing in the whole story. And use lubricants.

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ebony_flavor answered · July 31, 2020

   Again chewed up 100 times topics, the car to waste our keyboards ... I can already imagine the argument from both sides - supporters of the idea and those who do not accept it and all the nonsense that has been written hundreds of times on this issue ... .

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ashley_sweet1 answered · July 31, 2020

   Get educated - this is called PROSTITUTION OF THE PROSTATE in men, it is no coincidence that recently it was said on TV that in the anus of men is the male G-spot! Here is some info on the topic in this link: http: // forum. rozali. com / viewtopic. php? p = 619796

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gia_brooks answered · July 31, 2020

   I don't think she got to the prostate, it was just the beginning of the finger. Apparently I'm a little stuck in this regard, what to do, but the feeling, and maybe the surprise… abe just do not dare to admit frankly that I liked it. №10, maybe someone raised the topic, but I didn't see it in the first few pages, and I was too lazy to read a hundred topics in a row. The author

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mia_loverx answered · August 01, 2020

   Author, I don't think you have to succumb to human prejudices and imaginary boundaries. In bed you can experiment with your partner as much as you want. You do not need the approval or opinion of outsiders. I see absolutely no problem in practicing what you like. Intimate life is therefore intimate, because you decide how far to go under the covers and no one else has the right to interfere with you :)

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misterymasterbai8 answered · August 01, 2020

   Hi, I'm a 27 year old woman. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time, and I've recently started practicing what you're talking about. I haven't read books or any special articles, just one day while checking on him and whistling, I decided to poke one finger lightly into his anus. I did it smoothly, very carefully, with only my fingertip. Somehow I felt that he liked it and adjusted himself in a position more comfortable for me to touch him there. He finished much faster than the other time and said it was amazing. I don't think it's gay or embarrassing, just as we women like finger stimulation of the anus, so men like this stimulation. Nobody talks about anal sex, it's just stimulation. In both men and women, stimulating the anus with a finger (without nails and rough movements) is terribly arousing. Namely the circular movements, in sync with touching the penis and licking are something amazing for a man. Who wants to overthrow me, this is my opinion. I even offered my husband to penetrate him with an artificial penis, I'm sure he will like it even more, and I will be gentle. Men - do not be ashamed of your natural "vices" and be happy.

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sexygio23 answered · August 01, 2020

   Hi, I've been trying to get my boyfriend to play with him this way, but he doesn't agree and I just left him .. I don't think he's gay it's all about orgasm and to see him die of arousal in your hands :) I think that if he likes to lick my ass and fuck me there for sure I will like it too. It looks identical to blowing and licking.

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anibutler answered · August 02, 2020

   Friend, rejoice! You have a brave partner who is really interested in how to give you pleasure and does it! In almost every modern article about male erogenous zones, anal stimulation is talked about at length. It is neither gay nor an expression of domination. The girl just wants you to have nice and varied sex! Enjoy! BM

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dolly_cruise answered · August 02, 2020

   Lucky you! To come across such women! Of course, not everyone needs to like it, but I think that in most cases if they do not have mental restraints, it is a pleasant feeling for men. Question to the female "audience": And by doing it to him, do you hope that he will remember and do it to you? Is that kind of prompt on your part? How did you tell your partner that you wanted such a stimulation? Are there any who, although he was considerate and gentle, still did not like it? I mean just a splash. Or maybe in the end if there will be a game there, just a splash is not enough?

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nic_1 answered · August 02, 2020

   №17, and I started to wonder the same thing. Thoughts of anal sex went through my mind, but I was left with the impression that, with or without lubrication, the feeling of a woman was painful at first and I did not raise the issue. Except to take a closer look at the issue :) The author

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mikejackson7 answered · August 02, 2020

   Author, if you want anal sex with your girlfriend, are you right? say. Apparently she is an open chick, if she also likes the idea, she will hardly rely only on hints. Personally, as a woman, I don't think she hinted to you that she wants to, because if you have a very erogenous zone there, it's not with us ... For me personally it's very painful even with a careful partner and that's why I don't want to to do it, but there are also women who claim that they like it and that it doesn't hurt them. Your lady can be one of them :) Tell her that you find the idea of ​​flirting around and in her ass interesting, prepare with knowledge and consumables and ... as far as your desire and imagination go ... BM

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aternikterek answered · August 03, 2020

   There is nothing gay about striving for a new sensation or reaching a more intense orgasm. I am a woman, I applied it to my friend several times, he was also tormented by such "gay assumptions", but in sex there must be trust, and everything that happens in the bedroom should remain between you, especially if it would make the partner to feel uncomfortable. Now my friend even invites me to give him this pleasure. Sex is not for disgusting people or prejudices, it is a desire for feeling and pleasure. Don't worry, author, there's nothing gay! Success! :))

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jennyxlee answered · August 03, 2020

   What happened to you is really a little shocking, considering the fact that it was the first time and you didn't expect it, but don't worry - YOU ARE NOT GAY! This type of stimulation in men can lead to an incredible and powerful orgasm, because it stimulates the prostate in this way. There is another way - you can get a powerful orgasm if 5 seconds before you cum during oral sex, the girl puts a finger in your anus.

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shototto answered · August 03, 2020

   You are not gay :) Most men like the fact that if not all;) We aim to please

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xxxkendalynnxxx answered · August 03, 2020

   My wife has never tried anything like this, and I really want to try it. it's a "standard" hedgehog (if I may call it that) and nothing else

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shyguyatfirst answered · August 04, 2020

   Today a finger, tomorrow two .... finally member Dude went on the sloping plane ... to the other shore

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kleopatra69228 answered · August 04, 2020

   I have been in a relationship for 8 months with my girlfriend and I am the first who managed to get her to let her go from behind (she let me go), but since the 3rd month I have been struggling and a little less with my finger, with other things I showed her that it is nice, but I personally wasn't a fan and I didn't want her to confuse me from behind. After 8 months, the last time I was really tired, because we just killed each other sexually (literally), all night, and at one point I reached behind, I had no strength to resist, in general, until he confused me, and tickled me from behind I was pleased , but then when I boiled my finger all of a sudden and I was going to beat her (because she has nails), not that it hurt, and I had the feeling that I was going to go out, I didn't like her twisting my finger inside at all and I was angry ... she got wet from below while she was doing these things to me and she was getting a hell of a lot excited about it ... my sorry mother. She'll probably want to continue if I fix it there, to touch me from behind, but I wouldn't let him push any things into me and push his finger in, that I don't like him at all. Otherwise, her anus has caused me a lot of problems, because it is hellishly narrow, while I wash myself hellishly thoroughly and mix my back and mine was not and she immediately noticed this: D but no, it is not definite for me and if I leave her in the hands to touch me there I warned her that if I'm in good shape and I'm not tired of never allowing myself to do it.

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sexgod1200 answered · August 04, 2020

   M (12) There is a G-spot in every man's ass that excites him.

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dixiesutton answered · August 04, 2020

   My wife accidentally touched me from behind once. It was nice, a little embarrassing, but nice. I began to tuck my ass in her hands. She saw that I was hell aroused and began to slightly possess me from behind. We do it quite rarely (unfortunately). But I'm starting to like it a lot. I'm thinking of buying an anal rosary or a double dildo, but I don't know how it will react. For me, this is not pedal at all - I have not even thought about a man. I just like it. I also like to fuck her from behind, although she is quite reserved. But when I give her my ass, then she can't refuse me. M-37, F-33

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misspetula answered · August 05, 2020

   To 27: Complete nonsense! Neither I nor my friends get aroused by pedal imaginary points. I can't imagine anyone trying to even touch me from behind. There is no such nonsense in anatomy. It was invented by fagots and only they like it. The anus is the natural opening of the digestive system and serves as a ... well!

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asian_flowerr answered · August 05, 2020

   No, I would not allow such simplicity! Are you a man or a pedal !?