Hi, I'm a man of 30, I've had Tinder for about half a year. My profile is supposed to be ok (I asked friends and they think it's ok). I set the search age to a very large range (19-39). Out of 100 swipes a day, I get one match - I don't. This match in 99% of cases doesn't even suit me. In half a year I have 30-40 matches. Of them, I had a conversation with 5 women, 4 of whom stopped talking, and only one girl and I were supposed to go out, and at the last moment she called me that she had decided not to go out today. Then when I asked her again, she didn't want to. I ask mainly because I have the feeling that it is much easier for women to have matches. I know from friends. Most of them almost every swipe is a match. In fact, if they decide, they can go on a date or even have sex tonight with someone from Tinder. And I'm not even just looking for sex (obviously women don't want sex with me), I want a normal relationship. How is it with other men I find interesting?
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A woman having sex with someone from Tinder must be very desperate or troubled
Tinder looks like a very simple app, but has a complex algorithm. From what I read, the mistake you make is to swipe so much a day. Tinder takes you for a bot. My advice is to delete it, reinstall it and swipe a maximum of 10 girls a day. Like you, I clicked that I liked everyone and there was nothing on the other side, so I was even depressed that no one liked me. I became interested and started to swipe less and things improved significantly. Separately, as you have 30-40 games, Tinder believes that there is someone to write to. Reinstall and go again.
I'm a woman and I must have dated more than 10 men from Tinder in one month ... Not everyone has sex, but ... I was impressed that Bulgarians are not particularly good at the app. You stretch various delicacies and the girls give up. Foreigners (from Western Europe) directly invite you to a meeting, without bystanders. That's Tinder's goal, though ...
I hope my comment is approved, or I ask the moderators to remove the only social network I mentioned for use :) At first, if you are not looking for light women, why are you looking for them on such sites. Any smart woman will register on such a site. Use Facebook, almost everyone nowadays uses and almost everyone is used to making conversations - especially single women. From there, pay attention to your approach, do not behave arrogantly, stupidly, etc. Behave politely, on a level, intelligently - nowadays simplicity and simpletons are more, and with that you can't impress, that's why you behave differently from them. And I think leave this site, in such sites you will hardly meet a normal person. Use Facebook, it's much easier to start a conversation. You send invitations, you write - you meet whoever wants, but you have at times a better chance of 100 at least with 20/30 you will start a conversation. Leave this site, there you will not find anything. No self-respecting woman, not even a self-respecting one, will register there. From so many social networks, you are the most lost, to see that you are wondering. It is normal for nothing to happen there. Use on popular things, Facebook is the perfect place if you are not looking for * ex. And if you search, there are still many other popular sites, only that I will not publish names, so as not to contradict the rules of the site. After all, children also watch, but if you want to write sites for dating and register in the popular ones, then there the dating is a bit in quotes, isn't it :) From so many social networks, you are the most lost, to see that you are wondering. It is normal for nothing to happen there. Use on popular things, Facebook is the perfect place if you are not looking for * ex. And if you search, there are still many other popular sites, only that I will not publish names, so as not to contradict the rules of the site. After all, children also watch, but if you want to write sites for dating and register in the popular ones, then there the dating is a bit in quotes, isn't it :) From so many social networks, you are the most lost, to see that you are wondering. It is normal for nothing to happen there. Use on popular things, Facebook is the perfect place if you are not looking for * ex. And if you search, there are still many other popular sites, only that I will not publish names, so as not to contradict the rules of the site. After all, children also watch, but if you want to write sites for dating and register in the popular ones, then there the dating is a bit in quotes, isn't it :)
Hello! I am a man, 24 years old and I live in Sofia. Tell you what, I've been using Tinder for about 3-4 months, but then I deleted it. I haven't used it for at least 7-8 months. Sometimes I had a few matches a week, and other times 1-2 weeks nothing. Women get a lot of matches, they use it a lot just to raise their self-confidence, nothing more ... And it is normal that not everyone responds. What is important for there is what you want, whatever you want, you have to mention it at the beginning so that you do not have a headache afterwards. I went out and had another nice evening, but 2-3 times in 4 months is definitely nothing special, for me personally the problem was that I had gotten into various movies, it was only for sex with a girl, but he admitted to me that she fell in love, etc. and it was a soap opera, I decided not to deal directly with the application and deleted it ...
I regularly rub my profile and make a new fake, because when in real life I meet a girl whose profile I saw in Tinder, I immediately end the relationship. There are either psychopaths or liberated, primary adventurers. Thank you, I don't care about animals ...
That's right. It's getting harder to find a serious girlfriend. And women these days just don't appreciate what they have. Because there were a lot of men. At the same time, decent men who want to have serious girlfriends or women for their family find it very difficult and stand alone. Grandiosity has taken over every second. In their heads to only limousines and restaurants. And when he made them some kind of head child and left them muttering that no one wanted them.
https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a Truth. A woman forgets about her morals and principles when she is with a handsome man.
I feel so old and I'm 31. I'm a woman. I learned from a colleague that this application exists. Since she is a type of muffin with a rich man, with whom she is not married, I thought that the opinion about the application is insignificant. I have never used it and I share the opinion of other commenters that such applications are not worth it and only jerks or lewd people are registered there. Looking at the people on the street or the profiles on Facebook, I am left with the impression that there are many beautiful women of the decent type and quite ugly men. I don't comment at all on the prostitutes who look like prostitutes and the crazy men, like traitors inflated with proteins and chemistry, who are useless. Men are massively fat, obese, and quite ugly. Somehow a simplicity wafted from everywhere. Because normal men, with a good education, without complexes, broadcasting a good person and with qualities do not particularly use social networks, it is easiest to meet them by chance on the street, at some training, in companies or at a decent concert or theater. Generally places where there are normal people. No complexes. One person's complexes scream from a great distance and do not go unnoticed. No normal woman will want to deal with complexes.
If you are looking for a woman like 3 who has dropped the quotes, defining herself as such, then continue with such social nonsense. You'll meet the real woman outside (and I don't mean discos and such).
Haha, I read a lot of nonsense. I am a woman, 31 years old with a stable education, profession and career. I use Tinder because I don't want a serious relationship, and yet I need sex. No, I'm not looking for a man-piggy bank, I manage myself financially. Yes, I also have success in bars, but online is easier and safer. Most boys, in fact, can't step on my little finger in terms of skills or intellect, no matter how much you copy various ancient professions. And yes, I can talk, something very important in flirting, which is often neglected by both sexes. You both use sex apps and insult women there. In general, do you feel how pathetic you look? Of course, no one is going to date a man like, "I haven't touched Abe in months, but you're all whores. I'm looking for a noble virgin. except for various pretend traffic jams, which will then turn such numbers on you that you will still lean on this site. And on the subject - I never look for men after a date, and some I liked a lot. If someone writes to me and wants to see me again and I liked it - OK. But soaps and tearful stories are funny to do right there. except for various pretend traffic jams, which will then turn such numbers on you that you will again lean on this site. And on the subject - I never look for men after a date, and some I liked a lot. If someone writes to me and wants to see me again and I liked it - OK. But soaps and tearful stories are funny to do right there.
I am the author. In many responses, I read that only fools, simpletons, desperate and / or ugly people registered in Tinder. I may not be the most beautiful and perfect man, but among the women I know there are quite decent and quite good-looking ones who have registered there. I don't know why they are there, to be honest, since they get a lot of offers outside of Tinder. I didn't ask them exactly why, but they say it wasn't just because of the sex (I'm not familiar with their personal lives, they may be liberated, but they cover it up well). to 4: A long time ago I tried to make acquaintances on Facebook, but I never succeeded. In general, I only use Facebook to chat with acquaintances from time to time. Has it worked for you? How do you know which woman is single and open to dating? Otherwise it's like an intrusion. to 8: Well that's right, but what should we more ordinary men do? It is clear that women want beautiful men, just as men want beautiful women (especially for a serious investment ... otherwise for one sex almost everyone is), but shouldn't the two sexes meet somewhere in the middle? Otherwise we can stay alone until we die because we haven't hit the genetic lottery and that's it. to 9: Why did the topic again become a condemnation of men in Bulgaria for being fat, simple and ugly? What about women? Most of them are superficial scoundrels full of complexes and their life goals are limited to going to the mall on the weekend. And if we have to be more constructive, and not just condemn reality, we still come to the conclusion that although there are many evils among both men and women, we somehow have to find a common ground, right? Not everyone can emigrate,
Ahahahahahahahaha, Number 11 is so sad that she even described to herself what she wants to look like, but obviously she can't. Katos and so great, you and everyone are complexes and peasants, what are you doing in Tinder to write to you and go out with the poor rural Bulgarian men. It is a pity ... The Bulgarian woman is educated (or rather ill-mannered) and has been taught that her husband is indebted to her. Find out that Share includes people with problems. Ours turned out to be crystal clear.
I've never used Tinder, but I really want to fuck cool babes. Are there cool chicks or are they some bastards?
Dude, don't look seriously in Tinder! My acquaintance divorced and died of indiscriminate sex right there, and she was supposedly looking for love, at least that's how it was in fairy tales! ... Because she had married the 1st man in her life and they separated, she had such a hard time in Tinder that I was horrified by her talk ... She had slept with one in the lunch break, with another in the evening ... it's clear how serious they get in there! If you're looking for a fuck, yes, but you probably don't, so ... burn your brains and don't look for trouble with various whores! Success!
Tinder's idea and all similar applications is ... Sex. In the West, due to the hectic daily life and lack of time and opportunity for social contacts outside the workplace and family, these applications serve as a quick and easy way to find a sex partner for the evening. Nothing engaging just overnight sex. And the application there is used for its intended purpose by both sexes. But in the Balkans, such applications only serve to boost women's self-esteem and kill time. It's just that in folk psychology we are told that we should at least get to know each other in the real world before we have sex. It is especially true that women have a lot of sex with different men, but they try to do it so that they do not get the name of light women, another question is whether they succeed. We are a small country and things are quickly heard and understood, this is also the problem of all these similar applications, they give too much publicity. The women in Tinder are there en masse out of boredom and self-esteem, and hardly any of them become a serious relationship.
Number 15, she, having only had 1 man in her life, did not have sex. It is very clear that it will explode :).
to 11 by the author: Interesting opinion. I will answer a little more emotionally, because your arrogance teased me. I did not understand why you call sex with various random men "success". This is success only if you are a man. A man has to put in a lot more effort to be able to have sex with a random girl, which is why he usually admires such men. And a girl to have sex with any man just has to ... do practically nothing. Any woman weighing less than 100 kg if she registers in Tinder can have sex today. For a woman to find sex is child's play, even easier. That's why there is contempt for women with many sexual partners - you just don't need to be an easy woman. For a woman, the real success is when she finds a quality sexy man and manages to keep him. The thing is, quality sexy men know
By number 13, you're right, most Bulgarians don't know what Tinder is for. I only went out with two people who were OK, everything else inflates your head with nonsense, they are obviously looking for noble virgins there. It's best with my westerners - we get along the same day, we go out, we talk for a few hours like normal people, we do what we do and who is from where. Bulgarians don't have such a sexual culture yet, and they hardly will.
Number 20, what exactly are you talking about, if it's not a secret?
To Number 20, from Number 13, You get along very well with Westerners because they are interesting to you and are something very different for you ... and one is Ganyo, where he whips brandy, another is Michael or John ... or Jonathan yes They write to you, don't they ... It's completely different for Pesho or Gosho with his flip-flops and country shorts to talk to you about fucking ... We have nothing to do with Bulgarian men, we just pissed you off ... and yes, Westerners maybe like more open know how ... But it's normal to know. In the West and the United States, it's okay to go on a first date to have sex at home or with them. This is not the case here.
Hello, I am a man of 25 and I am quite inclined to believe in number 11, because I am as she described herself and I am not lying. I have nothing to lie about, provided that the site is anonymous. I have a fairly stable education - I am a doctor and I know 2 foreign languages at a good level. As a vision, I don't define myself as beautiful, but I'm not ugly either. I can't say I missed female attention. In response to the author, I will say that I have had Tinder for a long time, but I do not use it regularly, because since I have Tinder I have had 3 serious relationships with women over a year. I don't have many matches, and I don't write about getting married to a girl. Now I recently broke up with my ex and I liked a girl we got married to a lot and now we are dating her. The girl is good looking and normal, so I recommend people who just spit to calm down. As for number 11, that's exactly the kind of women I like, and it has long been my dream to have sex with a woman over 30. It is a pity that we have not moved ... To others who understand a lot, both say that they are not easy women, and say that "simple Bulgarians" many jokes stretch . Well, I think that before you do something with someone it is good to get to know each other, but obviously for you "difficult" it is better for a foreigner to offer to fuck you directly with an apology and because he is not a "simple Bulgarian", but is "educated Euro-Atlantic" you agree immediately and give dupItU. You contradict yourself a bit and it is obvious that number 11 surpasses you a lot, the good thing is that you realize it and that's why you jump like that. It's elementary psychology. I wish you to meet someone like number 11 and take your mind. My opinion is that there are all kinds of people out there, not just some whores, but even if they are,
I have it recently and I have a few coincidences, but I do not intend to have sex. I wrote to a few, we saw others but only normal cultural relations. I have no problem attracting women's attention and wanting me at least for sex, but I'm interested in getting to know their souls and pretending to be struck by hints of intercourse. Somehow I feel like I'm just used to having sex overnight or when someone has itching between their legs. That I had such desires from different girls, to be their friend only for sex, after they see that I will not be inclined for anything else ...
As a flight attendant, I can say that Tinder is extremely popular in our circles, as well as among travelers. At the moment, the easiest way is to find a quality intimate partner and just arrived in a new country, to see each other and release the tension. As a former model and extremely supportive woman, I am very interested in the man's vision and the confidence that exudes from him, because we are still talking about a superficial attraction to sex. I dare say that all women are there for sex or a relationship, but very few men shine on them for anything. I live in Sofia in Bulgaria and when I'm here I run the application to see what the menu is in the capital, I still say that I'm quite capricious and in Sofia I have only 1 meeting for sex, but it left me with terrible wet memories. I'm 26 and the man was 30 years old and with a really big 21 cm penis, he is quite handsome, with a sculpted body and sexy radiance, I thought it would hurt me, but he turned out to be a virtuoso and made me literally fly. His phone was constantly bouncing from new matches, I doubted he would call me for that, so I decided to arrange a meeting with my girlfriend and me the next night and I managed to enjoy super good sex once again. I wish all the girls to have pleasant moments from the application, because life is short and no pleasure should be missed.
25- did he dream about it last night or that night? Because you are a man and there is no way to know that 21 cm does not hurt at all, but they are even the perfect size. I'm a woman and I'm of the opinion that tinder is really used by women just to brush their self-esteem, rarely can something serious happen. And as they said before me - if you are a man, you have to be really good looking to succeed. Tinder brings to light the most superficial part of us humans, because you judge someone by only 3-4 pictures.
I am the author. In the title, the address was to the "guys", ie. men, but since many women have joined, I can now draw the following conclusions that confirm the theory: 1. Tinder helps the average woman to have sex with cool men whenever they want. 2. Tinder does not help the average man to have sex. The result of all this is that most women accumulate numbers and most men do not. Women turn into fissures, and men remain fools. This creates an extremely unequal position between the sexes. Women with more partners are more unhappy in their marriage than men with more partners: https://heartiste.files.wordpress.com/2018/10/slutwifeunhappy.png
And let me share. I have been using it for about a year. What works is to delete your profile and do it again periodically, because the first days it promotes it (shows it to more women), then the algorithm calculates how busy you are, if you have matches and you wrote more with them, you shows on more, if not, bury you unless you pay. I have good profile pictures and I usually pull 10-20 games in a week, so it's not like there are no matches. So, so far so good, but here are the problems: - HELL many women do not answer. If they answer, the conversation goes on, but very often they stop answering for no reason. I guess it's because a lot of them are there to scratch the ego, not for dating. - Interesting observation. I'm from Varna and I mostly play it here. I was in Plovdiv twice in 1 day, and I created a new profile. The results from there were - in 24 hours, 15 matches, 15 more that I liked, but I could not beat them because I was no longer in the city. Most of them answered that we even exchanged Instagram / Facebook. In Varna, they do not respond en masse and pull. Including (this about the lady who shouts that Bulgarian men stretched candies a lot, and foreigners cinnamon directly), they tricked me only because I asked them for Facebook too quickly, what are we talking about? As well as for all sorts of other stupid reasons. I wrote to some people for 2-3 days, and in the end they are pulling together for a crazy meeting for 30 minutes after work, because "we didn't know each other", so they want to write more. So why should I invest weeks in writing if she's not willing to invest 30 minutes for a non-committal beer? I don't know how the situation is in Sofia, it must be even better. Something else, the prettier girls very rarely wrestle, while the fat / ugly ones swear easily that they even write first. If someone likes them, it should be easy. But they also aim for guys cooler than them, and not those who are at their level, so they may not bother with them. In summary: Many women just scratch their egos and look for something that is totally out of the league, respectively, in the end they are disappointed because they do not use the application as intended. They also write Instagram to accumulate followers. Good looks and nice photos make a huge difference. You have to play by the rules of the algorithm to be walking. so they may not struggle with them. In summary: Many women just scratch their egos and look for something that is totally out of the league, respectively, in the end they are disappointed because they do not use the application as intended. They also write Instagram to accumulate followers. Good looks and good photos make a huge difference. You have to play by the rules of the algorithm to be walking. so they may not struggle with them. In summary: Many women just scratch their egos and look for something that is totally out of the league, respectively, in the end they are disappointed because they do not use the application as intended. They also write Instagram to accumulate followers. Good looks and good photos make a huge difference. You have to play by the rules of the algorithm to be walking.
I completely agree with number 29. Unfortunately, this is true - the first 2-3 days after a new registration or when traveling to another town at least 50-100 km from home there are many proposed profiles of beautiful women, respectively, there are no coincidences ( it is also true that almost everyone is silent after that), but then comes a sharp drought and there are rarely even ugly women from the same locality, although there are certainly thousands of female users nearby. Here comes another feature of Tinder. When you set out to see women only within 20-30 km of you, Tinder falsely informs you that there are no more such profiles. However, when you choose to see profiles up to 500 km away, sometimes between them "miraculously" are offered to women 1-5 km from you, although until a minute ago Tinder wrote that he didn't! I also open a bracket that it is very easy to say the Bulgarian word "coincidence", instead of replacing it with its English translation "match" with the Bulgarian ending "vane". :)
up to 30 false tinder notifications occur due to the fact that some people temporarily hide their profile
From 30 to 31. It is about the fact that such deliberate hiding of profiles by Tinder concerns a case in which when setting the application to show me only women within a radius of a few km it lies, there are no such profiles, but as soon as I change setting up to a few hundred km, Tinder suddenly starts showing female profiles here and there at a distance of 1-5 km from me, sometimes less than a kilometer. It is not related to the hiding of profiles by the women themselves. :) All this is happening due to the fact that I do not pay BGN 300 per year for a subscription for the "unlocking" of the more liked female profiles. :)
Why the most adequate comments, such as that of number 17 are evaluated negatively. He really wrote the idea of a tinder in the West. However, for serious or non-committal relationships, make trips to certain destinations in Europe. 2017 with a friend in Kiev we had a great three days. Super cool dating and threesome in a hotel room with a ferocious Ukrainian at 48. For reference, I'm 29, he's 26. Tinder Bulgaria to have only the money of the balaclavas and you come across dumb and mostly women Temeruti
I tried it a few years ago and it worked. As colleagues said above - you should not like everyone, only people who seem interesting to you. Unfortunately, it turned out that Tinder is literally just for sex (then I was looking for a relationship). I went out with a few girls and that was all that was expected. Even one of them countered "And why do you go to Tinder when looking for a relationship" and it was right.
20, do you call sexual culture going to bed with a man after 3 hours? One woman
Huge success! Only cuckoos, saints and those who think that this job is a sport and they want gold medals. A princess developed a premarital theory for me, like she's in Technopolis buying a washing machine or a juicer. Many accounts and psychology as accountants are, and Kant and Nietzsche pale in treatises on life and the relationship between man and woman.
Up to number 11 You sound very angry, so "walking", but a lot. And matches with lame, kyovaro and are like not ok, because a quality man with one with your thinking is absolutely impossible :) many girls are independent, obviously you haven't noticed, but nothing, knock the molds there :)