Yesterday, after another case in which someone took me to a party and then did nothing, I began to wonder what the reasons were for people to do so. I do not understand. I always feel like talking to the person we're dating. It happened that I didn't like him and I was dumb that I was too drunk to openly refuse. But I don't understand how it is even possible for you to be the initiator and not like the girl you killed? Why are you doing this? Are you accumulating a number? Do you start with the most drunk or the one that seems easiest, or just the closest? Why not just try the one you like? I was killed by different people, not all players - friends, acquaintances, strangers, even girls. In more than half of the cases, they don't talk about it as if it didn't happen. However, my desire to clarify things was pressing and I asked the boy, with which I pushed the party to meet and clarify. He told me it was only for yesterday, he just really wanted it. How come one day you want to kiss someone and not the next? What has changed so much? Maybe he just doesn't like me as a boyfriend because of my character, but do boys care about character at all? Or maybe I'm not attracted to him and the question arises why did he take me down then? What about boys who aren't like that in general? I was stabbed by two people I know didn't push each other. One didn't even write to me. PP I'm 16, but let's not turn the subject around. but do boys care about character at all? Or maybe I'm not attracted to him and the question arises why did he take me down then? What about boys who aren't like that in general? I was stabbed by two people I know didn't push each other. One didn't even write to me. PP I'm 16, but let's not turn the subject around. but do boys care about character at all? Or maybe I'm not attracted to him and the question arises why did he take me down then? What about boys who aren't like that in general? I was stabbed by two people I know didn't push each other. One didn't even write to me. PP I'm 16, but let's not turn the subject around.
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It seems to be important that you were quite arrogant at the party.
Well, I'm a man and it happens to me, I make contact, but then things somehow don't go well, I don't know what they expect from me. I write or like something, but they can't expect me to chase them and fuck up the whole thing if they're interested in writing too.
Boys also scratch their egos. He tries to gain your attention and when he achieves his goal, he moves on to the next one. He doesn't even care to have sex with most girls because he either wants to have sex only with very beautiful girls and / or he is constantly watching porn and masturbating at home and he is satisfied. He does not deal with girls who would find it difficult to let him into bed. Nowadays, sex is super easy to access and doesn't cost five bucks in most cases, so he really wants to be some scary alien chick if he's going to have sex and go out of his way.
He wants to, but when you "push" with him that evening, he is already looking at you with different eyes. That is, he has to get to you, he liked you, and you "give" him. And he immediately begins to think, "is it that when he gives it to me so easily, he doesn't give and doesn't" get stuck "with everyone else like that" ?! If he was a little more normal, he would think about it and not deal with you. Nothing that he is the initiator. It's not good to give in easily and be "nailed" easily, think about it.
What can someone want from a 16-year-old pickle? Was it a 15-year-old Temerutlyak? Emmy to kiss a little, which is fun, there is alcohol and this is done at "parties". After a year or two, they will start fucking you like that for one night, and you will always wonder why they don't call you again. Now I'm going to tell you something ... you have no values. I know, I know ... at 16, everyone gets stuck like crazy at parties. Well, yes ... but those who don't follow the crowd are always wanted, but real, not wanted ... to rub my head in your anyaga ... One piece of advice, if it's not too late ... don't be a whore, there is too much of that ... Bro.
What did you want at all, a little party or a serious boyfriend. These two things are mutually exclusive. He who is afraid of bears does not go to the forest ... ie to parties. And if you wanted a serious boyfriend, you should change your approach.