Hello, a desperate girl writes to you. My life turned upside down suddenly, I started to not do what I started, I constantly quarrel with my friends and they are not many, even today I ended a friendly relationship with a real friend. I feel extremely lonely, I am very sorry because I am guilty too, I have the feeling that everyone is avoiding me. I really want to be respected and valued because I will always be by their side when it comes to my friends, whether I can or not. I want to feel that I am loved by someone because I feel extremely lonely, I have the feeling that unhappiness is my first friend. Please give me advice on what to do and how to keep my friends because I will soon be completely alone.
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Go out and make friends. I was like you at the time and I waited for my friends to come to me alone. As you might expect, this did not happen, but I quickly realized. No one owes you anything and they will not line up to be your friends. Go out and win them. Respect will come with friends, and loneliness will go away.
Don't shut yourself in, go to activities, sports or places where you can find people. Loneliness may have been with every person, but don't despair, it's temporary!
Nonsense. If you are alone, you can only have fun alone. Believe me, I tried, I went to all sorts of places ALONE and I come home even more lonely. The only chance is to reconnect with TRUE childhood friends. Such "go to places and meet new people" tips don't work. Your heart will always long for the real people of your life. In principle, true friends can find a person up to 22-25 years with whom you have experienced many things. Then everything is up to acquaintances and in very rare cases FRIEND. Unfortunately, I am one of those who do not take the step towards improvement and I live alone.
There is a great book that can help you a lot if you read it. Its title is "How to Make Friends and Influence Others," by Dale Carnegie. Since the edition is from a few years ago, look for it in a city library. You could also find it on the Internet. Success!
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