Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl, but I want to turn to the men on the site for advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year and everything is fine, except for sex. Not that it's bad, it's nice, but it ends very quickly, I'm not exaggerating at all, somewhere in 15 minutes. We can repeat, it is not a problem for him to pick it up for the 2nd and 3rd time, but even then it ends at the same time. We've talked a lot about it, it's certainly not mental, at least that's what I think. So my question is are there any pills or gels that can help. A lot of things are advertised, but I wonder if anyone has tried something and if it works.
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15 minutes is a good time, what do you want to continue in an hour?
well 15 minutes is good again and if I repeat where is the problem?
15 minutes is an ideal time, and if you can do it several times - what's your problem? For this job better ask women!
When I say 15 minutes, I mean that it is the maximum length, usually about 10, never more than 15, even after drinking alcohol. And it's not about 1 hour, just a little longer :(
So the problem is not that it ends slowly, but that it cannot satisfy you. Because personally I can make you cum 3 times in 15 minutes :).
I finish in two minutes
If he can't satisfy you for so long / 10-15 minutes is a normal time to finish / there are other ways. You've both read a little.
Hello, I think it all depends on him, if he wants he can make love to you for a long time, it's all a matter of training to stop his cum. Train through self-satisfaction, success!
Darling, I'm a woman and 15 minutes is great. For so long, if he's a good lover, you can finish at least twice - the other problem is if you can't in general.
I'm a woman too, but I need at least half an hour to finish. My friend has never left me dissatisfied, even though it ends in 15-20 minutes. Let your boyfriend ask what he can do for you. I guess you need more time too. Some women cum in no time, some - hard. But those who can not finish - the reason is the ignorance, inexperience or nepotism of men. Success!
There is a book. TAO LOVE by Zhang Zhonglan. I am 50 years old and young and I have had such problems. And now that I'm with a stranger, I get aroused faster. In this book he writes about types of impulses. Depth of thrusts. Sequence of impulses. I can say that I only know some of these things, but I can empty a prostitute twice in 5 minutes. Believe me, whores are very experienced and wonder. Train. You will get used to it. Love each other. Sex is an art. Just don't try with people like me, because you'll like it.
The problem is not in him and in you you are not satisfied !!!!
Hi, I'm a man and I was just like your boy, and then I used the condom gel, long love. " Ask him to put on such a condom or just smear his head a few minutes before sex. Its disposal time is extended by more than half an hour. They are available in sex shops, but are more expensive there. I found them at the checkout counter in the BILA store. The box shows a watch and reads in English "long love". They cost about BGN 3-3. However, you can help yourself by arousing yourself before the actual sex to a moment of irresistible desire to insert the penis. This is done by watching sex movies or purposeful caresses of the clitoris, nipples, ass and more. erogenous sites. The boy is very well, don't miss him just for that. In a few years, it will be discarded much more slowly. I hope then you can agree to his wishes. Success! I'm telling you from experience, that's exactly what happened to me.
Miss, I think the problem is in you, 15 minutes is a normal time, I think you should consult a sexologist
Number 11, I'm number 7, I'm not a prostitute, but in 5 minutes I can make you believe that you emptied me 3 times, you know. With all the signs, but I'll sneeze inwardly what a pumpkin you are! You know a lot, the boy finishes normally, and the girl needs more time. That's why he has hands and a tongue, do you understand? Darling, don't worry, everything is fine, and do you know that the older generation / around 60 / has no idea what an orgasm is, and someone - and love. I'm talking about women. My mother says: He liked me, he liked me too, but my mother chose my father. I'm 40. And I'm one of those who are not beautiful, but men are still crazy about them. And believe me, in time you will learn how a man does not end normally, but very slowly.
Number 7, if you don't know me, you won't insult me because you are the pumpkin. I want to tell the young lady not to learn from cable porn. If your friend looks at him all day, if he can't satisfy you, then he doesn't know how. Either he's a complete rookie or you're frigid. It can't take pills like that. That's why he has specialized offices. I'm talking about proven techniques, number 7 will make me a whore. When I had lovers, you were number 7 in kindergarten. The boy must know how to use his fingers and tongue. It is described in the books. To read and learn. By the way, number 7 I have a mistress 10 years younger than you, she is not ugly like you, she is great between her legs and when I empty her twice with licking, only then I possess her and pamper her. You will teach me. Eh with this experience of mine to be 20 years old now.
I'm the girl who wrote the article, hey, the "understander" under number 16, I can be anything but frigid. My friend handles his fingers and tongue quite well, I've cummed 5 times a day this way, but that's not the point. If she understood so much about sex, you would know what it's like for a woman to end up with language and what with sex. Yes, I may need more time for sex, but I don't think that sex should be 5-10 minutes, no matter how good it is, because we rarely get to 15 minutes after a few repetitions. As for number 15, ma'am, don't think that we don't know much about it, not only have we read it, but you probably know that today's generation is familiar with these things from an early age, and not from porn channels. Our difference with you is 20 years, but I probably know more than you, don't teach me that fingers and tongue can be used, etc.
Experience speaks for itself. Try everything, darling :) Ah, number 16, where he guides young years, but no :)
"Miss, I think the problem is in you, 15 minutes is a normal time, I think you should consult a sexologist" Is this a prelude? 15 minutes just a blowjob ... To the author - as you know, you made him use one of the hundreds of premature ejaculation remedies they sell. The other option - change it. And without that, sex is a huge part of the relationship, I don't believe you think that until it's okay, everything will be wonderful, or that it can go on forever and things will get better. And I still think that he is the person who should ask, but drive ...
Hello, can I, as a woman, express an opinion? I am 40 and I think I have enough experience. 15 minutes is really not small. According to research, this is a healthy time. If you don't have enough for an orgasm is another matter. And I must say that when it does not end and for an hour it is worse. My partner and I had a similar problem. We experimented for 2 months until we found the right posture. Condoms reduce sensitivity and suggest delayed ejaculation. Try it.
Author, what's your real problem? Go to a sexologist to prescribe pills and gels. I'm number 15, you know more than me on Cook's Day. You just don't know what you want and then why do you want advice and waste people's time? I'm sorry about your friend, you're just a mackerel harassing him.
I feel sorry for you number 15, you think you know a lot, but hardly. And my friend is very well, don't think so. I don't waste people's time, as I'm not interesting to you, don't waste it with me, and without that I didn't get any conscious advice from you, and I don't need it. And don't waste any more time with me, don't write to me anymore, you should waste my time. You are boring and useless to me.
It's all about technology. Go to a sexologist, read a book and / or another. Everything will be 6.
To tell you the truth, I found it very difficult to find a man who would finish slowly and last a long time. Mine does it all night (from evening to morning and I'm just super happy and satisfied) I cum a few times and he only in the morning (as a finale we both look to finish together ... I think talk or go to the doctor
Hello, I am writing for the first time in such a forum and I want to ask (if some can help me, of course) ... in general, I cook slowly by saying slowly, I mean that I can cook whenever I want - I can just control my orgasm. Now I'm with a girl who hasn't quarreled while she's with me .... How can I make her cum
Relax to number 25 and try to finish quickly and excitingly. It will end as well.
As long as the girl was poisoned. Your babe must love you very much or wish you well when she sees you. Great desire big thing. It's nice, but in 1 year it would have returned to normal. You must be very challenging. There is no advice from me, we have gathered a lot of competent people here and everyone is fighting for their ego, only here and there they answer you. Look at it from the good side, there are people where I spend 15 minutes just to lift it
And people are wrong. the girl tells herself the problem and you fix it. Put yourself in her shoes
Hello, I am glad to meet people with my problem and try to find a solution. I am 20 years old, I go out with a girl and I always finish after 10-15 minutes of whistling. This is not a problem for the girl, she is great with me and she understands me, even when I feel super uncomfortable that I finished quickly, she always calms me down and calls me calm, it's normal, you are young, etc., but still on I'm dumb. Explain to me how it happens in porn movies to stay with a penis for 1 hour and can not finish I do not know honestly. Please tell me what to do, do I have to take any pills and I don't know anymore!
Dude, 15 minutes is a perfectly normal time to blow. Twa in porn movies, everything has been shot many times. There is almost nothing from real sex life.
:))) Hey, I love this site! It's crazy, I'm telling you! So, I'm a modest 20 years old, my friend is 21. We've been together for 4 years. It ends in 10 minutes. So my question is, what are you complaining about? And I have 2 and 3 times and the maximum is 15 minutes and I feel great! Don't worry, life is ahead of us. With each passing day sex becomes better :)))))))))
Hello. From the description you make, I have the impression that he does not excite you enough before the act itself. 15 minutes is enough. I advise you the following: Start when you urinate trying to stop before you throw up the whole amount. At first you will not be able to, but after about a month - yes. What is this - you train the uterus (it is a muscle) so that you can tighten it whenever you want. So during sex you can increase the friction and the arousal as you want. Good luck
the poor man !!!
3 times 15 minutes is 45 minutes, are you short? And he carries a soul! Why does it seem to me that you are only looking to please yourself?
IN 15 MIN. I WOULDN'T GET UP, HORROR, WHAT'S NORMAL.
You're just very good and that's why it ends in 15 minutes.
You all consider yourself experts, huh? And will anyone answer my question why my girl can't finish even after the thousands of efforts I make ?! She says she's fine and the reason isn't in me, but it's the same every time. :(
Number 37 - don't worry. It's normal, maybe she hasn't relaxed emotionally yet. But still try if necessary 1001 options ... you will still find the way ... watch her, what she likes, what not so much :) I also have a problem with my friend. Honey, if you think that 15 minutes is not enough ... what about 5 ???? He tries to satisfy me in another way, but still sex is sex ... ahhhh
Get a cream shea smear your penis and ready there are creams for long-lasting erections and at the same time reduce the sensitivity write it on the net check from acquaintances I've heard that it works and the cheapest option is a spray sold it in pharmacies its real purpose is to relieve pain etc. but you can also ask the pharmacists about this work
Hey people, my friend lasts up to more than 30 minutes the first time and then he can drive for an hour. But the point is that at the beginning of our relationship, I never ended, no matter how long the act. Over time, we began to experiment and read some literature on the subject. Now I have the feeling that even just looking at me and I'm in the final. Darling, I'm 22 and he's 30, but even age doesn't matter. If you want to watch porn, but I guarantee you that you will not learn much from there, but take a little literature and try what is written, I guarantee you will succeed. The question is not in the duration, but in the manner of implementation. I wish you success :)
Hey people, do you know that my boyfriend ends in 7-8 minutes. This is every time without exception. We have been together for 6 years, I am 23 and he is 30. The thing is that you have to adjust mentally. before sex, this time is enough for me to finish it together with him. At the beginning of our relationship I didn't have enough time and I didn't have enough, but I started to control myself and get used to it. Believe me, time will fix everything.
Well, I don't know how old you are and how long you've been together, I don't know how you feel .. I'm a 20-year-old man, I have a girlfriend for more than 2 years, there was no case in which I didn't make her cum at least 2 times .. We had sex for 20 minutes, we had sex for 2 hours .. it just depends on your friend, if he has the desire he can endure much more .. This is achieved with a lot of practice but the trick is to stop from time to time when it gets too good, it's generally not who knows what, I wish you success and many orgasms. I hope I helped :)
It is correct what you say 15 minutes is very little and for a start it does not work. I am a man of 43 years. and I have tried many things with retaining semen and prolonging sex. However, you should know that retaining semen in men is a very difficult thing for someone to move mentally. So I will give some simple but very effective advice for men. First: Men have sex with folded legs as with push-ups, this leads to premature ejaculation, if they have sex with bent open legs, the tension is much less and the control is good. Second, the contraction of the anus (but not during sex) and pulling And thirdly when in the beginning and from time to time while you have sex when your boyfriend feels a little tension let him stop but stay inside you and a few times to strain his penis to stiffen it voluntarily and relax it, so you will be pleased because it resembles the thrusts when ejaculating but you do not move while doing it. This is the easiest and painless way for a man to delay ejaculation, because with this tightening and loosening of the penis after 3 to 10 contractions the tension decreases and you can continue until its next appearance when this easy and nice exercise is done again and each time the time lengthens more. it takes time and experience. Sincerely, Beauty ... because with this tightening and relaxation of the penis after 3 to 10 tightenings the tension decreases and you can continue until its next appearance when this easy and good exercise is done again and each time the time lengthens more. But these things depend on you, customs Respect the person next to you that a true lover does not become easy it takes time and experience. Sincerely, Beauty ... because with this tightening and relaxation of the penis after 3 to 10 tightenings the tension decreases and you can continue until its next appearance when this easy and good exercise is done again and each time the time lengthens more. But these things depend on you, customs Respect the person next to you that a true lover does not become easy it takes time and experience. Sincerely, Beauty ...
Hello, I am a 38-year-old man, I have a second marriage, and we have great sex with my second wife. on sex shops. I do not find any information on how it works, etc. give advice on what to do. I accept any advice from vsi4ki. I am not ashamed of my age, nowadays the younger ones have more experience thank you
I have given some advice above, but I will give another one. Try to go inside and stay still, but for this purpose you should choose a comfortable position for both of you. If you relax well, you can both fall into a deep sleep. you just sleep and that is, if you don't stay like that for a while it is very nice. The practice is known from tantra and is better known as nirvana (bliss) for two. Or read something from TAO with say braids and deep strokes 9 braids and 2 deep In general, when you are more tense, you pull it out, that is, you make shallow thrusts, so the tension passes more easily and this excites women a lot, then you insert it twice to the end. But the main thing you need to learn in the beginning is to stop when the tension can be controlled.And read from the above post (43) the exercise I have described with the tension of the penis is a very good and effective exercise. Regards Krasi ...
Hello beauties, thank you for the info, but let me tell you, ten years ago I came across this book of love. I read it carefully and decided to try some techniques. I hit a whip. My first wife didn't want any sex experiments at all, but what can I tell you about the horror. At the moment, my second wife loves sex in all its variants and is ready for any experiments. from that book. and it is not known if it can be found from somewhere. if you have an idea, write to e-mail [email protected]. I will be very grateful, because in the end how much is left for 4 people, what can we not do quality sex while we can
These things are innate, number 47. Either you can or you can't. Just like singing.
E 48 say something about your gift ... something about singing ...
Number 43 thanks for the advice and I have a problem with the finish I finish very fast tell me what to do I haven't tried anything yet just when I'm drunk I finish slowly what should I be like every time ??? I'm 20 years old without a girlfriend when I go to bed with a girl and then I'm ashamed to look her in the eyes and after sex I tell the girl I'm very aroused giggles sorry and I'll take revenge ... it's stupid shame I'm told what to do if some can to help or write here or by e-mail: [email protected] thanks in advance. :)
I'm a lot of 18 and I had a partner who finished in about 3 minutes and to prolong his time he bought Durex condoms - performance .. they had a pretty good effect .. I recommend them. But I have another problem .. it's worse with my current friend .. it lasts for about 3-5 minutes. I'm fine, but I also seem to prefer a little longer. He uses one of these condoms once and I don't know because he was worried or for some other reason it didn't happen to him at all ... and it's hard for him too, but it's as much as me .. I'm thinking of trying these condoms again, whatever happens .. :)