Hello young and immature teenagers! Well, I'm 24 and I'm a WOMAN. I AM NOT A GYPSY! ON THE CONTRARY, I AM FROM A VERY WEALTHY FAMILY! So ... I gave birth to my first daughter at 13. My boyfriend and I lived in the same block. We named the baby Violetta (short for Willy). Then my friend was 17. Now our daughter is 11 (the next month is 12). Hedgehog, toast, is already in 6th grade. She is almost a teenager already. My boyfriend (now officially my husband) and I live together. We lived when we finished high school. We are a good family. And what about when I gave birth to Willie at 13? She is now a normal girl, with many girlfriends and so on ... I think of her as poop and (giggles). I'm not sorry I gave birth to her early. On the contrary even. I am glad. I have another child (again a girl). Her name is Iva. She is 6 and is in 1st grade. I gave birth to her at 18. Ivito is also a very good girl, quite normal. We are now considering 3 children. So ... I want to say that not every child born to a 13-14 year old mother goes home! Clear? Yes, I know that most children born like that go home .. But still .... And with this,, at 13, watch your lessons, play with the dolls "or,, Sex? At the earliest at 17" This are NONSENSE! Yana, a 24-year-old mother of two girls, gave birth for the first time at the age of 13
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I agree with the title, but only if it is with a condom! Author, for me you are a completely irresponsible and irresponsible woman and mother. Poor children born to such irresponsible parents. I think the story is made up ...
Author, help yourself and other people! Stop your net !!!
From the author: First I WORK! Secondly, my children are EXCELLENTly brought up! !! willow heyut, biva ama ..
And now by your logic, your little girl Willie also has to fuck someone? And you are a grandmother of 25 years? And you can live to see your great-grandmother, who knows ... hahaha, the people have screamed!
I am glad that there are mothers like you who give birth and look after their children, but I think you are an incredibly lucky woman, most of the time a Bulgarian woman gives birth at this age, the child is left without her father afterwards, I am sincerely happy for you and for your husband, to be alive and healthy and I wish you to do at least one more :) m21
Number 4 - ha-ha-ha! I have been having sex since I was 16, I have turned 30 and I have neither children nor abortions, and people like the author in Lyulin and the gypsies are nothing compared to them. What a great-grandmother - she will have become a great-grandmother at my age, and at 40 she will be twice a "great-grandmother", because for her sex is to inflate her belly and fuck unhappy children. I have no words.
And how many years did you hang out with rich mom and dad? It still seems so. The geese shouldn't give too much sense to anyone, they won't have anything left for them. Live with your children and do not try to explain to others that it is good to give birth under 15. bile
But please, author, don't argue with us.
bile - you are mistaken, the children of rich and normal average families do not give birth at 13. However, you can shovel them in the ghetto, where people throw their garbage out the window and do not pay for electricity and water.
It is not bad to give birth to a child early, as early means 16-17-18. At 13, it's a crime, sorry. Don't you have parents? I really hope the story is a fabrication. You may have become a mother physically, but you were hardly mentally ready. How well-behaved the children are means absolutely nothing, given that 100% of the grandparents helped with the upbringing. I will repeat a comment before me - by your logic your daughter is ready for sex? Although I don't know you, it's not hard for me to figure out what value system you have. If the story is real. If not - then something is wrong with you once you have written such nonsense.
Number 9, read the author's post again - she admits to herself. So ... bile
I am glad that there are Bulgarian children in Bulgaria and there are mothers who can afford to look after more than 1 child. Good luck, Jana!
Look, it's not bad that you gave birth at the age of 13 and things went well for you. But we are not talking about a private case, we are talking about the mass case. It is also important what we encourage and what we do not - when someone reads your post it seems to me as if you encourage young people to have sex early, to have children early, etc., and this is not normal. No one has the right to judge you or to judge others who have given birth young, but I do not think it is right to encourage this. You still have to admit that you work now, but at 13 you hardly worked. And then I don't know if your mother or you were the mother of this child. There are just things you can't give your child at 13. In your case, your children did not miss it because your wealthy family provided them with these things. But she introduced herself alone, without mom and dad, with a man who is 4 years older, alone and with a child in her arms. And now imagine the same picture, if you weren't 13, but 24. Which case is better? Ana
What are you going to teach this child, since you yourself have no idea about anything outside the "mom-dad" money circle? The law must prohibit conception and birth of children 25 years ago for women and 28 for men !!!
After 2 years grandma, huh?
Author, do not agitate for such things because at this age most of them cannot look after and support themselves, let alone children. You're just one of the few exceptions - you're lucky with the circumstances.
ooo yes and how good are you instead of living your life at 13 you gave birth to a very strong child so you were a child then ... I just can't believe that there are such people ...
What was the statute of limitations for having sex with a minor? It is easy to prove, because you also have a child from that time. :) Otherwise, what you mentioned is not a cause for pride. We acknowledge that it is not only gypsies who do such things, and 13-year-olds do not always go home. Do you want a medal or are you happy? But before you speak against the majority, I will remind you that you came here to fight on your chest how advanced you are, etc. We did not look for you in your house to read you on horseback. If you didn't want to or weren't ready to hear the opinion of the others, you shouldn't have started the topic! Maybe you expected to come here, to tell lies (the opinion of the majority is always more important when you try to give direction to everyone else, and not just to defend your choice) and not to hear any criticism. That's what a dreamer is called!
By the logic of the author, she has to have a child next year. I ask the author to answer me if after 1-2 years her child tells her "Mom, I'm pregnant" what will she answer.
Number 19 will probably tell her that she is very late ..
this world has gone crazy, by the way, we never heard the opinion of the author's parents and the parents of the head of the family :))), oh her, while I'm writing it and she's already making me laugh .... she definitely won't let you It's easy, I guess you live with your parents and you are mainly dependent on them / how else / ... and finally, what can I advise you, you know that everything comes back, soon the author and grandchildren may have to watching ... :))) but one thing will remain lost and crippled in you avkorke: YOUR CHILDHOOD!
Come on, as long as you were lucky enough to be from a wealthier family! But imagine that your parents could not help financially. At 13 what could you do to make money and support a family? !! You are one of the few to whom life is favorable, so do not give advice to teenagers that they hardly have rich mom and dad!
I want to ask you how you will react if in a year your daughter serves you that you will become a grandmother? I hope you answer
Until 14:25, hahaha! My mother gave birth to me at 22, and it's neither early nor late. It is normal to be born at the age of 21-22-23 !!!
24 - what is normal depends on the norm in the country. On average, it is normal in our country to be born at the age of 27 - this is the average age of mothers in the country. In Sofia, on the other hand, she is 33 years old. A woman can otherwise give birth from the age of 12-13 (depending on when it came) to the critical age (at the age of 50). or 50 years, and you always look at the AVERAGE for the country. In the West, statistics show similar results as in Sofia. We live in the 21st century - today the requirements for women are great - education, profession, career. In the Stone Age they may have given birth at the age of 12, and in Lyulin and the Faculty they may still do so, but this does not mean that it is normal for our country in 2013, and these are the exceptions.
hahahaha she wanted another child ... why not ... and your daughter will give birth together next year. Sorry, but my parents are people with opportunities ... but instead of giving birth at 13, I look after my education ... but maybe my mom and dad are to blame for that ... when you received everything ... you obviously became a dumb pamper who knew nothing but to open her legs at 13 .... God forbid Bulgaria from such people
Aloo, the proud mother! Realize it .. who normal gives birth at 13 nowadays? !! Tfa speaks badly about you, because being 13, and already opening your legs ... is not a big feat. Purely mentally, at this age you are not ready to grow another life .. and do not say that you raised them alone, because at 13 .. you could hardly erase your z ***** k !!!
Whoever is sinless, be the first to throw the stone. Everything and everyone under a common denominator and everyone imposes their opinion. And the author is an exception. They came here to read morals hidden behind their laptops. I wish the author good luck and happiness!
Author, you obviously developed MENTALLY quite early, because for raising a child it is not enough just to be physically healthy and right, but to be ready and grown enough! Personally, at 13 I was excited about completely different things, I played on the street with the other CHILDREN (because at 13 you are still a child, whatever we talk about), I watched my school and that's it. I'm not judging you, you for yourself you are right, but do not encourage others to act like you. They have parents, let them decide how to raise them and what principles to build in them.
I have no words. I hope it's a fabrication.
Babe, I agree with you, but the fact that you happened to a man is rare.
A complete fabrication.
author, the fact that you gave birth at 13 (so you had sex at 12) is not an example to follow. not to comment that having sex with a person under 14 is subject to jurisdiction. Tell her, but with a hand on your heart, how does this baby look after him, who supports you, when does he study and when did he start working and earning his own living, what profession do you have? don't tell me you did it yourself, because I know enough children at this age and they are. just because you had a menses and could physically give birth doesn't mean you're ready to be a mother. in your case, you obviously looked after your child with the crucial help of the parents. but do not set yourself up as a positive example because you are not.
However, Author, if nothing else, at least you are intelligent. Sex and pregnancy = the same .. Hmmm .. Apparently you are very tired of wearing the complex of your actions when you throw a finger furiously and ask .. "Clear?": D: D I found it very funny, honest. May your children be alive and well. Parents are not chosen, but it matters how you raise your children. To cultivate your neighborhood simplicity, only thanks to it they appeared - um, how can I tell you ..
14, even to be banned by law ... and my mother gave birth to me at 22, when after 20 years it seems good to me personally. Although, come to think of it, many people, large, mature, adult and educated, still have children and can't recover. The author just happened to a man who was with her, this does not mean that now the paws should start fucking from an early age (they are not that they are not), and children should do. Generations have gone crazy anyway, now don't encourage children to do bigger nonsense! It is true that we should not blame everyone for their mistakes and that things are not always as bad as they seem, but we should not confuse the little ones even more. Sex is one thing, getting pregnant is another. And besides, sex before the body develops is not useful at all! And the most important are the protective equipment,
But does that mean that you somehow set an example for people to start having sex at such a young age and even have children? Your case is an exception. I understand that sometimes such things happen to some people, there are many people with interesting stories, for example there are people who get married 2 weeks after they met and are happily married with children, etc. Of course, that there are people who have known each other for 2 years and even live together, but something happens in their relationship and they break it up. I am glad that you have children that you raise and educate and you also have a man next to you who is also the biological father of the children, which is wonderful. It was written for you to be together from the age of 12-13 :) There are such cases :) as I said. But it's good for children to think about such things and not rush, because it is not very good to start having sex at the age of 14-15 (which unfortunately is already happening) The wrong thing is that it becomes fashionable to have sex at least once before you turn 18. This is ridiculous. But here, there are tribes, ethnic groups, which it is their custom to marry their children when they are 4-5 years old. And they bring them up and they go to school and already after they turn 18 or I don't know exactly how old, they get together to live together and start a family. They don't have the right to choose a partner, not that they understand something when they are 5 years old, but that's the way it is. Different cultures, with different customs. But let me emphasize that this is a custom with them, while what is happening in our society is pure fashion introduced by stupid movies like "American Pie", and it is "start having sex before you turn 18!" 20g.
I wonder if this is a fabrication or if there really is such a simple woman in this world. If this is true, you cannot convince me that at least once in your life you did not want to go back in time and have a childhood. People say that childhood is the most wonderful time and that's right ... You didn't have one. I sincerely feel sorry for you. And get to a psychiatrist instead of writing nonsense on the sites for kids to read and then make mistakes. Enough with this misunderstood fashion and this "21st century". Be reasonable, people! ... pf.
Terrible nonsense, terrible ... enough with late sex! I have an acquaintance who gave birth at 19. She did not have the opportunity to "live" as a young woman, and when her daughters turned 20, she remembered. One must first think about what one wants from life and pursue it as a goal, and then think about creating new people - when one is ready to take responsibility for them. I am one of the "average for Sofia" - I gave birth to the first child at 32, the second - at 34, precisely because now I can give them everything they need - a nice home, food, clothes, attention, patience, understanding. The author can't convince me that she was a great educator at 13 while she was being shaken by puberty, I'm sorry. I'm also happy for her if the story is true, a little "dads"
Hahhh this story made me laugh I'm pregnant with twins and I was shocked if, and they act like you t, is born at 13 ...! Boris is 20 years old!