I'm a 17-year-old boy and I successfully take off the plane when I'm masturbating, but when I stop having sex with my girlfriend, I can't fix it ... Some time ago I had an unsuccessful attempt and I guess because of that maybe something happened on a psychological basis ... Please give some advice something - how they are overcome and whether it is only on a psychological basis or there is another problem: X
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One can overdo it with porn, I even wrote a comment in an older topic about the fact that I shine 7-8 times a day and I'm 18 before I had a girlfriend, but we stopped going out and since then which is somewhere maybe at least a year - a year and a half I have something like an addiction to porn and I can't somehow refuse it I don't know man, you may be afraid that you won't do well while fucking her and I've heard that as a reason I hope you get better
I'm not an expert, but if you ask me, the reason is that your imagination is poorer than the porn you watch. There was no porn at one time and I got aroused easily. Now that I watch porn and it doesn't impress me, I'm even tired of watching them and I often stop or quickly scroll through it. Stop porn and you will regain your sensitivity. You may have a health problem, but due to your age it is not very likely.
Erection is a vascular process. Imagine your penis as a balloon with two valves. In the relaxed state, the inlet valve is closed, the outlet is open. When aroused, the inlet opens, the outlet closes (not completely), under the influence of your own blood pressure, the blood fills the cavernous bodies and hardens the penis. Then the outlet opens again, the inlet closes, the blood drains and the penis falls. Both valves are smooth muscles that are commanded by hormones. Accordingly, there is the hormone "open (harden)" and the hormone "close (release)". This is the construction, now let's see the application of this knowledge. Viagra, levitra, etc. suppress the production of the hormone "close". That is, the hormone open you have to produce it yourself, the drugs keep the drain valve closed. As long as you are young - you do not have a problem with the exhaust valve, your problem most likely consists in frequent masturbation, which simply consumes your reserves of the hormone responsible for the inlet valve. However, it is not produced in infinite quantities, nor can it be produced "on demand" in any quantity and at any time. There must be some stock, some accumulation that the body can use when it needs to. Even if you do not end up masturbating, the hormone for "hardening" is consumed and then the lack manifests itself when it is not needed. In short - do not touch your dick for 4 days and then try with the girl - you will be satisfied :) However, it is not produced in infinite quantities, nor can it be produced "on demand" in any quantity and at any time. There must be some stock, some accumulation that the body can use when it needs to. Even if you do not end up masturbating, the hormone for "hardening" is consumed and then the lack manifests itself when it is not needed. In short - do not touch your dick for 4 days and then try with the girl - you will be satisfied :) However, it is not produced in infinite quantities, nor can it be produced "on demand" in any quantity and at any time. There must be some stock, some accumulation that the body can use when it needs to. Even if you do not end up masturbating, the hormone for "hardening" is consumed and then the lack manifests itself when it is not needed. In short - do not touch your dick for 4 days and then try with the girl - you will be satisfied :)
Certainly the first thing you need to do is stop porn and masturbation. Apparently we are very much where we have experienced the shame of a softened dick because we like to polish the cane. I had the same problem and even went to the doctors. But I was ashamed to say that I watch porn and shine every day and I was treated wrong. Finally, quite by accident, after a 10-day business trip, during which I did not have time for a chick, I started getting a morning erection, and after another 2-3 days I found a chick to have sex with. I was rock hard all the time and the pleasure was much greater than before. Since then, I haven't watched porn or polished my cane, and my problems are gone.
It is mentally based. Everyone has this problem sometimes. Just concentrate on the girl. Don't think about whether it will happen, whether you will satisfy her, whether you will finish quickly. just relax. And I had this problem, now I'm a rifle, I've been beating for an hour and a half and everything is OK. Good luck