Hello. I want to ask you the following question. Is there eternal love? Because when a man and a woman already have a child, their love disappears or when they are already for a longer period of time, they are together for one reason or another. They say nothing will go on anymore and one of those things is love. Everything was short-lived and up to date. Why doesn't love continue to be the same as before? Does it make sense then to fall in love as this good feeling will pass? Thanks in advance!
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Meaning ... It makes sense for the economy ;-) See now. Everything is individual. Many people get together simply because they don't want to be alone, not because they really, really and really like each other as much as people / characters / personalities. Most of them don't even realize it, because they don't have the attitude (or can't, aren't arranged that way) to go so deep, some even at all, into various deep thoughts. Yes, there is eternal love, but only in some couples - those who are very lucky to have found each other. Or with people who have known themselves very well as individuals and thanks to this have managed to attract a person who will be right for (like) them. For which you still need a little luck. ж31
Eternal love is only in fairy tales. Nowadays, all living things cheat or think of cheating. Nowadays, there is a lack of communication between people. For example, they separate and walk with others, thinking of returning to the previous partner because they have fucked up whether sexually or emotionally. They upload photos and statuses on social networks about how much they are in love, but this or that person can flirt a lot, but otherwise they are committed and faithful to the world. Eternal love exists in an ideal world where people are not hurt, they do not cheat. Just an illusion.
It doesn't exactly disappear, but it does change. As long as they are both sufficiently aware. If they are not, it just disappears. But most are not. And that's why many of the comments will be "there is no eternal love". Yes, no, but because people do it that way.
There is nothing forever. If there was, over time it turns into a strong attachment. Years of love and cohabitation collapse to the point that you care for this person or develop intolerance.
It has everything a person believes in. It usually "dies" when there are differences in people's perceptions, which is very common. But let's say you believe in eternal love, it's part of your personal ideology - you will always strive for it. Now ... if you have a relationship with a person who has, come on, not the same, but similar ideals with yours - hop, here is the eternal love of two people who can not live without each other. There she is, I've seen couples who adore each other after 20 years together. People, in general, are simply stupid, unconscious, and spiritually poor so that they can enjoy it without having to pump up their relentless egos. I wish it to everyone, no matter how difficult it is. Brian.
"Does it make sense then to fall in love and this good feeling will pass?" - Does it make sense to eat when you are hungry again? Does it make sense to sleep when you fall asleep again? Putting this aside, there can be "eternal" love that intensifies over time, but to have it requires qualitatively different people from the typical ones. Self-absorbed muffins that wait for the man and are dissatisfied cannot have "eternal" love.
There is no single answer. Everyone answers such questions for themselves. For me there is no eternal love, just as there is no eternal sunny day, eternal blooming flower or eternal youth.
Yes, it's just changing. Falling in love is only the initial stage of love. And thank God it doesn't last forever. This is a big stress for the body, I'm serious. Over the years, pink glasses fall off. You are discovering more and more about man. You discover both the bad and the unpleasant in him. You know its shortcomings. In almost all couples after children, although there are those without children who have passed it, there is a stage in which you have almost no time for each other. Or other activities seem more interesting to you, for some these activities are other people, for others hobbies or work. The person next to you is no longer your whole day, your whole life. You become almost roommates. But it's just a stage. And it's good to have it. Conversely, if it lasts a long time, it would destroy both you and your relationship. Some live a lifetime at this stage, others end at this stage and a small part move on to the next. The stage in which you have both yourself and the other. When there is not much left to find for the other, but you still want to find it. Stage without fuss, fuss, exaggeration. It is similar to the first, but has much less stress and is much more controlled. It is similar to the second, because you have your time. Your thoughts are not only with the person next to you. At the last stage, this person has already become your best friend. You've come so far together. You are no longer in love, you are no longer living together, passing by as a road sign. You've been through these things. You become real partners. I personally think that this part of love is the most beautiful. And let the one who wants to keep looking for falling in love. It is similar to the first, but has much less stress and is much more controlled. It is similar to the second, because you have your time. Your thoughts are not only with the person next to you. At the last stage, this person has already become your best friend. You've come so far together. You are no longer in love, you are no longer living together, passing by as a road sign. You've been through these things. You become real partners. I personally think that this part of love is the most beautiful. And let the one who wants to keep looking for falling in love. It is similar to the first, but has much less stress and is much more controlled. It is similar to the second, because you have your time. Your thoughts are not only with the person next to you. At the last stage, this person has already become your best friend. You've come so far together. You are no longer in love, you are no longer living together, passing by as a road sign. You've been through these things. You become real partners. I personally think that this part of love is the most beautiful. And let the one who wants to keep looking for falling in love. which are passed as a road sign. You've been through these things. You become real partners. I personally think that this part of love is the most beautiful. And let the one who wants to keep looking for falling in love. which are passed as a road sign. You've been through these things. You become real partners. I personally think that this part of love is the most beautiful. And let the one who wants to keep looking for falling in love.