I have been dating a girl for 6 months. Everything is going well, she is beautiful and good and she loves me a lot. I have had problems with my parents for 2 weeks and I am not in the best mood. It's good that she's next to me and everything becomes more bearable. When he is by my side I am happy and I don't think about anything else. So to speak last week after another conversation with my parents, I was very angry. In the evening she wrote to me on Skype and started teasing me and I was rude to her. I asked her about things I would normally keep quiet about. For some time now I have noticed that she doesn't go out with me, either because of the university or because of the bad weather, and to me this doesn't seem like an excuse to me when I always take time for her even when I'm studying for an exam or I have a job. She tells me 2 or 3 times that it's cold to go out to see each other and before that she went out with a friend of hers. I don't know what to think. Lately, she also doesn't like to kiss her and such things and she rarely does. So I said all this while I was angry not at her. I know I shouldn't have made it on her, but that's what happened when she started teasing me about little things. Two days later I called her out to talk and she accepted. He didn't want to talk to me throughout the meeting and said he had nothing to say to me. I asked her if she wanted our relationship to end like this, of course after I apologized to her many times and explained myself, and she answered the same thing again - I told you I had nothing to tell you, understand it as you want. After 2 days I gave her 1 bouquet and a box of candies and she did not want to accept them and said she could not accept them. Still, he accepted them and even smiled at me a little as we talked. And the next day, as he has been at a distance of 2 meters since then, he told me that he only wanted us to be friends. Understand people, she is everything I dreamed of and I can't sit next to her without touching her hand or stroking her cheek. Since then I can't sleep, eat, live. Every second is filled with pain and a void. Some will say time will help you but I tell you that it is the only thing worth fighting for and I do not want to give up my dream.
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Well, it happens sometimes, you will meet another, what to do, obviously this is not your girl. Eva
darling we've all been through there. if what you said is true, then you have nothing to worry about, because she seems to have started to move away from you gradually anyway. I'm sure it hurts, but I'm also sure, and that it will pass.life is before you.success
obviously this is not the girl for you leave her not looking for her you will forget her but it will be very difficult for you in the end if she wanted to be with you life would be keep looking forward and success
Eva "darling" you obviously have a solution to every problem as I look there is no story on which you have not written advice or a solution to a problem, in principle people need to share and get advice even though they are the only people who know how to act, be it as a feeling, as an inner attitude, or as intuition. I mean people who can't solve their problems on their own, they think they can give advice on how to do it. Don't get me wrong, I'm not belittling you, I'm just allowing myself to give you advice ... not that I don't belong to your group, you'll say I'm contradictory ... and so on. As for the author of the topic, I think that you know what to do, there is no one here or anywhere to tell you how to act, and you yourself have hinted in your story what you intend to do, if you feel that, you have to fight for it so this is the thing you have to do. PP: Eva, if you want, leave your Skype to fix each other's problems, so that we give reason to others, our problems will not disappear :)
Look, number 4, .... if you look closely you will see that there are a lot of topics in which I do not write, simply because either I do not feel competent or someone has already said what I think. Secondly, you don't know me, for God's sake, how did you decide that I have problems that I can't solve! ?? I often dig here because it's nice and interesting, because I'm all over work, and when I don't have patients ... I have nothing to do! And third, .. I have a God, husband, friends, relatives with whom I can share if I have worries about something, so .... I will not leave my Skype to "..we fix each other's problems" :) Eva
hihihi ........... number 4 cheered me up. and I have the feeling that Eva has a solution and an answer for everything ......... or she is just one of the few using a nickname, and so she did not consider that in this way it is obvious even when confused everywhere, can easily become disliked. and I wonder people who have the answer to everything. what are they doing here ........ ammm yes they are here to help us ... hihihi ... ..to the author, whatever we tell you we will hardly change your decision if you want to fight.
There is no point in humiliating yourself - SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU and you know it !!! I recently went through exactly the same thing as pretty much on top. She is a young girl and she wants to have fun, and you burden her and whine, which in itself is not bad, but only if the person next to you is a person. Otherwise you would just go back to another country where there are no problems and everything is OK!
Hmm, well, if he loves you, he won't pick on you when you're upset by your parents, he'll calm you down. Don't rude it too much. Then she made conclusions about what kind of person she was and that's why she withdrew. Fight for her to find out if she really wants you or not. Write again because we need more information so we can really help you.
Fight for her! She's offended you, but you have a chance. Restore her confidence in you.
It's over between you, like it or not, that's it. Go ahead, these are normal things, they all happen to us.
I'll tell you something else, you don't deserve ala-bala nonsense ... Start looking around for your colleague, all the signs are there, only he is gone, but he will appear, believe me! Or maybe you've met before, just don't know yet ...
I'm a woman and judging by your friend's behavior, I honestly think that she has already written you off, something in her has broken and with flowers, candy, etc. you only make things worse - she doesn't want you to be together anymore, but she doesn't want to It hurts you, which is very difficult in your case, because you are very much in love. I'm tired of being pushed away delicately. I know it's hard, but I also know why it's so hard - not so much because you believe you won't find another like her, but because you're hurt by her rejection, but you'll realize it later. stage, not now. Well ... you will overcome the pain, but I hope you will bear it with pride and I hope you will find a woman far more worthy than the current one.
instead of giving advice to the boy you fight :)