So I am another virgin who shares the story on this site! I'm 23 and so far I haven't had intimacy with a woman, and as you can guess, I want it more and more and my body wants it ... and I'm bored. But I decided to write here not to complain but to seek advice of any kind :) from people who may have been like me, or not exactly. And I understand my problem, he is naturally in me and he is that I am complexed by my physique, I am slightly overweight, but not much ... and this has always been an obstacle to the first step of my strange, maybe I am a perfectionist in many things about that too. Even some friends tell me be yourself a woman will like you and the way you are .. to understand, but I can not believe these words: @ Nowadays it is fashionable to shave everywhere to be 70 80 kg and so on .. And I admit to myself, that I look more at the beauty of women, not so to speak their inner and this is also a problem! So I shared my problem now I'm looking for advice from you and everything that would help me get out of this hole: @You are? :)
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I offer you the following solution 1st, get rid of your virginity with a professional. It will cost you something, but she will know how to introduce you to sex. At 23, man, that's the way it is. 2nd, catch and lose weight, tighten your body in a fitness club. There no one will make fun of you or look at you arrogantly, most were like you. 3rd, start paying attention to girls who are more or less as attractive as you. With the big beauties you have no chance, and at the same time there are beautiful women who cry for attention. Believe me - and they have everything a man needs.
See author, every man sighs at women from the pages of playboy, but rarely does anyone have such a woman next to them. To have such a woman you need not only a weak body and beauty, you need many other qualities, including financial. These women, in order to look like this, have made a frantic effort to get this done once every 1,000 years. Therefore, one must either try very hard, or one must be content with what one may have, and not waste one's whole life in dreams of a sleeping beauty. I will not advise you to lose weight, but if you are plump you should be satisfied with a full lady or at least a lady who likes full men * / which is harder to find /. I see that in fact your biggest problem is self-confidence, but the attitude towards women is not an innate quality, it is learned by trial / by trial and error /. "
I'm also a virgin, but I'm only 24, and I'm a little weaker than normal ...
Good day! I think you will find my opinion interesting. I am 23 years old and I am in the same situation as the author. So far I have not had intimacy with women, although at one time I was close to girls. I was watching, but I couldn't touch it, we were playing with one of the girls, we were fighting and that's it (I was 19). I realized that the girls provoke us, that they don't give anything for free, and I am convinced of that every day. Their provocative behavior makes you want them. They give freedom to fantasies, but they don't make them a reality because they are afraid of something, something that only women understand, maybe they see it as something scary, or as a kind of use, I don't know. I'll give you a funny example, but it may contain the truth - Some time ago I saw a female cat on the street, which was in the company of a male cat, Of course, the male kitten climbed on the back of the female, but each attempt to mate resulted in a cat quarrel - growling, hissing and yelling. I came to a conclusion by looking at the reactions of the female cat. I think it's the same with women, maybe they don't like someone to come and get into them. For them, sex is something much more important than for us. Society views virgins as congested, but this is considered normal on their part - debauchery, money, parties ... Under these conditions, women change, looking for something more than sex - material peace and security. We are outsiders to them (most). They don't care what we want! If we can buy them, spray money like crazy (I have a lot of examples of this among my friends), they will not refuse us sex, they will not pretend to be inaccessible. Friends told me that I have to be serious and build muscle. I did both, but I'm still alone, because I don't go to discos, cafes, noisy gatherings and I don't spend so much money, but I don't think I'll change because of them! I will not go to discos to get a boyfriend, nor will I change my ideas about life. I have not sought the services of a professional, but I am not given money for it. Sex should not be a means of profit, but a way to get pleasure (pleasure is mutual)! And don't be fooled that being overweight is one of the reasons! Is not that. The decision to go to a professional must also be yours. How will someone tell you who to sleep with? Sounds ridiculous. Observations give birth to facts, author. :-) noisy gatherings and I don't spend so much money, but I don't think I'll change because of them! I will not go to discos to get a boyfriend, nor will I change my ideas about life. I have not sought the services of a professional, but I am not given money for it. Sex should not be a means of profit, but a way to get pleasure (pleasure is mutual)! And don't be fooled that being overweight is one of the reasons! Is not that. The decision to go to a professional must also be yours. How will someone tell you who to sleep with? Sounds ridiculous. Observations give birth to facts, author. :-) noisy gatherings and I don't spend so much money, but I don't think I'll change because of them! I will not go to discos to get a boyfriend, nor will I change my ideas about life. I have not sought the services of a professional, but I am not given money for it. Sex should not be a means of profit, but a way to get pleasure (pleasure is mutual)! And don't be fooled that being overweight is one of the reasons! Is not that. The decision to go to a professional must also be yours. How will someone tell you who to sleep with? Sounds ridiculous. Observations give birth to facts, author. :-) Sex should not be a means of profit, but a way to get pleasure (pleasure is mutual)! And don't think that being overweight is one of the reasons! Is not that. The decision to go to a professional must also be yours. How will someone tell you who to sleep with? Sounds ridiculous. Observations give birth to facts, author. :-) Sex should not be a means of profit, but a way to get pleasure (pleasure is mutual)! And don't be fooled that being overweight is one of the reasons! Is not that. The decision to go to a professional must also be yours. How will someone tell you who to sleep with? Sounds ridiculous. Observations give birth to facts, author. :-)
I apologize in advance if my comment sounds a little harsher, but I do not put bad feelings in what is written! First: the fact that you define yourself as a complex bothers you. Think about it - what girl would like to have such a man next to her? If you were a girl, would you pay attention to such a person? To get rid of the complexes you have to eliminate the factors, that is, you say that you do not like your body ... well ... Fitness! This is the simplest solution. It doesn't sound complicated at all ... It won't take you thousands of years to get in shape, so get your hands on it. Second: Have a little more faith in yourself. Don't be pessimistic. There are enough good, beautiful and smart girls who are not interested in the fact whether you have or do not have money - there are people who will appreciate you as a person!
Every woman is designed to subconsciously choose the father of her children / a man to have sex with /, unconsciously she judges the male individual by physical data / a handsome-looking man is healthy / and by abilities / smart, hardworking /, so that continued the gene of the one who has the greatest chance of emigration. In ancient times, the best hunter enjoyed the interest of women, he in his time seemed healthy, smart and most able to feed a generation. Nowadays, men expect women to take half the food of a generation, as if in ancient times you wanted to bring as much game as you brought as a hunter. In the 21st century, the measure of whether a man is capable (mentally and hardworking) is money and women should not be angry about it, it is innate to them. Imagine if women only had sex with dumb, ugly lazy and poor people, what would the generation be? And what would the world be like? The generation would be hungry because it would not grow up healthy and look like its parents, both physically and mentally and behaviorally. And the world would only be with dumb, ugly lazy and poor people.
Thank you for the tips 1, 2,4 and 5 I liked as an opinion I will try to apply some of the tips and tell you the results :) and this for the gym I went for a while, but I stopped because I started working and I do not have time. I will pay attention to 2, 4 and 5 :) and comment 6 I don't know how to comment on it: D
Hello, the author writes again because I don't want to open a new topic, I just want to ask the girls. What do you think about guys like me, what should we do to open up to you? I want to hear a woman's opinion, I have enough male opinions.
I will give you a woman's opinion: according to my observations, the problem with most men like you is that they do not want to take the first step. They are waiting for the woman to look for them. And they stay with the wait. Why don't you look for the girl you like instead? It's not that complicated, try a direct approach, come up with a standard cue to use in these cases. Don't limit yourself to the girls you know, talk to unknown girls. I assure you that it will not look funny from the side and you will not expose yourself. And, have more confidence!
Wow, I can't believe you've only driven by hand for so many years