I am 26 years old. I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time, but honestly I feel very good. I feel somehow alive. I used to have quite difficult relationships and after it all ended with the past girls, I was relieved. I'm alone, I don't have sex regularly and I don't go after whores, but somehow this thing is in the background. I feel like I've been released from prison and I'm alive and free. I had such a toxic relationship. However, I have quite a few acquaintances with whom we often come across. Well, I don't know how to answer anymore. Absolutely everyone asks me what's going on, are there women around you, tell me who you're dating and all the questions of this nature. Amy is not there at all, nothing serious, nor do I want to have a wife at any cost. Honestly, during that work I have whether I have a boyfriend or not and whether I have sex or not. But why does everyone from young to old ask the same thing? My brother's wife, also asks me every time I'm in them how is the sex and love life ?? Is it normal for his wife to ask me? Dating opinions, how to make them not ask me the same thing, I exhausted all the answers. I know that the topic is insignificant, but there must be some.
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Tell them to mind their own business! I am 36, my colleagues at the university kept asking me if I would get married, I told them that I would not, for now I would finish first, then I would look for one! Well, I'm still alone, waiting for them to call me for a job interview! Otherwise, neighbors, shopkeepers, do not raise this issue with me, fortunately! Well, you'll always have a family, won't you? I know you want to be free! You have time until 30!
Emmy, it's called PERSONAL LIFE, but a lot of people are primitive and ask, so they ask.
Answer them that you want to rest and at this stage you do not care about new relationships. Or say there's nothing serious right now. They will always stop questioning you.
It is normal to be asked, however, everything revolves around the genitals, in the end you can not convince me that you are fine alone or at least have something on the side, even a platonic relationship. I was alone for a long time and as much as I lied to myself and the others that I was fine, it wasn't like that. You are internally lonely and looking for attention, but most likely you lack experience and approach, just like me. There is no one to convince me that if he can get one of the proven greatest pleasures, he will not do it. But even if you admit and do not admit to yourself, what is written to you, if it is written to you to be alone, it will be.
They ask because: 1. They have fucked up and are looking for a kindred fucking soul to make it easier for them. 2. If they are single, then they lack sex and the topic excites them. By no means do they ask because they are really worried about you. Rather, because they have problems with themselves.