Hello, I want to share my problem. I have a friend of 5 years and I am 22 he-24. Everything between us is very serious - we fight ... I've never cheated on him, I'm sure he cheated on me too! We understand everything, we have the same interests ... but ?? Something in our sex is lame, I'm ashamed to say it ... so I share it with you, he's a prince, he pleases me for everything, he buys me everything, I try too. But I don't enjoy it anymore ... I worry about it ... and it makes me like a tree, because I don't get aroused, I just don't have passion, I tried everything ... where is my problem ... I love it,, , but lately we have become more like friends ... we don't even kiss ... for days ... and so I want to have this passion that I read and watch in the movies ... My other problem is that he lives with his brother on one floor ... and he is married, has a child and a wife,
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When there is no sexual attraction, the problem is really big. It can be due to many reasons, one of the main ones is that your love is already exhausted. It's hard to admit it to yourself, but when it comes down to it, there is only one way out, because otherwise you will suffocate, and sooner or later it will separate you, with a lot of pain and insults. The other option is for one of you to have a more serious problem, but there you should already consult a doctor. Personally, I don't think that's the reason. Whatever it is, you need to talk about your problems, and only then can you solve them. For the home, do not compromise with yourself, you need to make a decision that satisfies not only one party, but both in total, otherwise it again leads to quarrels and problems. I wish you success, and I sincerely wish you things to work out with you :)
I agree with number 1, but do not rush to break up with him, meaning - that there is no passion and you are not aroused by it MAY be temporary. There are constantly such periods in relationships, but then they disappear and everything is the same. Wait a few months ... if things don't go the way they did before - then you're exhausted.
And it's very important to separate ... because you live under stress, and probably he does. If he doesn't do something - then dump him ... you can't live like that.