Hello, the reason I am writing to you is that lately everything seems rotten to me. After I graduated, my friends scattered in other cities, countries or just don't have any time to go out, and I don't have that much either, because I go to work. I have some friends left, but they are not fun and do not want to go out in interesting places or they are just not fun and do not give me the life I want. And those who enjoy me have changed over the years, everyone looks at themselves and I do not have any moral support from them. :( In general, over the years everything gets worse, people have become more vicious and picky, there is nothing interesting on TV, and even interesting shows have become goddamn, I change phones every two years because the messenger is constantly updated, even Facebook became boza, you constantly climb ads, the same is the Internet in general, constantly annoying ads and stuff. There used to be no such small annoyances and life was better, while now it's all about marketing and using people. :(
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It's called growth. Everyone catches their life and builds. Sometimes harder, sometimes barely. You want it to be like in school. There's no way. Growth Nothing stands still. Which means it can be more good since then. Don't grieve for that, but enjoy your youth. You will meet other friends and it will be cheerful and inspiring for you. Just try not to ruin the present.
Tighten up a bit. Everyone goes through such periods. What seems problematic to me, however, is the way you understand friendship. What does "they don't have fun give me the life I want"? !! No one owes you. And friendship is not just about flowers and roses. Sacrifices are sometimes required, understanding and patience are required. Stop being self-centered and think about the feelings of others.
This is the world of adults. Have they not warned that childhood is the best period in life? !!