Hello, at the age of 25 I am married with a two-month-old child and I have been around all day. My husband and I worked in one place in my uncle's small shop. He started going out earlier in the morning and has NO mistress, because we are in another country and we have no known women here, so we have no friends. I think he finds an excuse to stay alone .. During the day he hardly looks for me, and when his colleague comes he always tries to close me. In the evening, when he came home, he was tired, ate and went to bed, and we generally stopped talking. We used to be together all day and we always talked a lot. I feel like I'm losing him. Isn't it because of the child, because I'm focused entirely on him? Am I tired of him? I emphasize that there is NO mistress, because it is not possible, at least for the moment. And it sounds stupid, but he is very vain and stopped brushing his hair and 100% will not sleep with another unshaven. How can I get everything back the way it was and blow the three of us happy?
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Think about whether you're annoying him. I don't know, maybe you aren't. If there is a place for the child to stay, go to dinner, to a hotel. But it seems that from what has been written, there is no one to leave the child to. One night she prepared a surprise for him. Put the little one to sleep and if he comes with you, come home early. Some surprise dress specially, cook him something interesting, put some candles soft music talk about what the problem is. Explain to him that you are moving away and you don't want to, etc. go somewhere together for example Sunday to church. Good luck.
This one has a lover just a pedal.
"Isn't it because of the child, because I'm focused entirely on him?" - This
Return to Bulgaria. He definitely doesn't like it there. A completely natural reaction of a man dissatisfied with himself.
You thought of a mistress, but did you think of a lover? This colleague of his, when he is with him, closes you so tightly. Hmmm. And since he stopped removing his hair from THE FRONT, didn't he remove it from BEHIND? Quite complex issues that I hope don't get you into existential depression.
It is difficult for men to adapt to the new situation at home with a baby. While we have long been associated with the baby and have a 9 month lead. For us, he is not an alien who showed up at home and obsessed the space and attention of his partner. Here is a little from our family chronicle: "I'm afraid to touch the baby, it's very little" "I'm afraid to be alone with the baby, he can vomit" "Let's ride bikes on Saturday! -Ah, the baby? -Oh, I forgot him ... "After 40 days, drunk" I love you more than the baby, but it's not like that with you "After 6 months:" Honestly, now during the business trip I felt for the first time that I love a baby and that I miss it "