Hello, I am a 40-year-old man, married for 15 years with two children. I don't think about divorce, but lately I hardly have sex with my wife and I think I will get sick. So my story --- I met a woman 15 years younger than me. I see that she is attracted to me, when we are together she is constantly smiling, witty, laughing to the fullest. She allows me to hug her, kiss her, look for me if she moves away from her and comes to me. She knows I'm married, I haven't hidden anything from her. But we stop here, I don't want her to give herself completely to me, she says I'm married and she can't live a lie, she doesn't want to share me with anyone else. That if I were free, he wouldn't even think about walking with me for a second. One time he took my hands, shook me hard, looked me in the eye and whispered-- "I don't want to share you with anyone else, why did you come into my life,
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Emmy, this will happen until we women realize that by pushing our husbands away sexually, we lose them little by little, BUT SURELY as husbands ... The girl is doing the right thing. Now you will have to decide what you want, but you should not involve a third person in your rotten marriage. Leave her alone if you have no intention of divorcing
Stop deluding yourself that you can live two lives in parallel, hide from your wives with secret phones and secretly steal time for meetings that will not only end in insomnia and outbursts in the form of text messages, but will hurt yourself and the woman next to you. Things will always get out of hand, and then neither will be with you, because she found out about the infidelity, nor the other, because she already knows how indecisive and cowardly you are.
The girl's behavior is completely explainable. You want her to be your mistress - that may be good for you, but it's not for her. Yes, she came to you of her own free will, knowing you were married. But it is also right for you to divorce and then have a relationship with someone. Otherwise - a mistress behind your wife's back, it's not nice.
That's right, number 1 - until you understand this thing, so be it! I hope many women hear you. Author, it is more likely to be given to you, but it will not be repeated - it is difficult to agree to be just lovers. Unless there is a financial benefit, but it is quite expensive. Choose one of the two and that's it. Because from two chairs you know what's going on in the end - you fall to the ground ...
One of all !!!! And what kind of lovemaking are you talking about? Love is made with feelings, and you just want to fuck her - to scratch your 40-year-old ego and feel young and carefree again! Don't confuse the girl's life if you don't think about something more serious !!!!!
She wants you to divorce. Then he will sleep with you. Maybe you will be happy for 2-3 years, then you don't know. Maybe she'll dump you because she's a lot younger. And your family will experience a shock.
Author, I am your age and I will tell you as an adult - this story smells of future problems. You need a calm, non-committal relationship on the side, right? Here, from the very beginning, conditions are set and a theater is played out. If you think that these poses - "no, do not touch me, you are married!", Are a manifestation of scruples and morality, then you are a big naive. The girl will give up with absolute certainty, as soon as she accepts hugs and kisses, at the moment she is just playing unavailability. But I do not advise you to get involved in this relationship. I don't want to be a bad prophet, but this chick will get on your head, poison your life and family, and you'll see yourself in a miracle. Yes, she will continue to "does not want to share you with another", rest assured, and this "other" will ruin you with some expensive divorce. When choosing a mistress, focus on a woman,
And when one day this girl gets bored of you, as your wife is bored now? What will you do then? Are you looking for the next "smiling" one to turn her into another zombie? Are you doing something to make your wife want you? You treat her very badly, she gave birth to you and raised 2 children. It's normal for this girl to behave like that with you, it's a thrill, you don't know each other completely. Apparently you miss this with your wife, but it's still normal for 15 years. Why don't you try to show respect to the mother of your children - take her somewhere on a trip, show that you still want her.
And why does your wife behave like that, try your wife with a bark, maybe she wants more attention, buy flowers, show what you feel and if she doesn't pay attention to you, talk about why this is so. This one wants you now but in a year you will be much bigger than her and she will find some others ..
Author, you will not pass any manual and you are not mean at all - these are normal life situations. As women are not toys, do not behave like toys. With more common sense, you will cope with the situation. He left the emotions and the many amazing and questioning ones on the 5th until he reads and understands 1, so he will write the same thing in all topics.
Much depends on whether you love your wife. If you love her, you better stay with her and talk like big adults about the problem and don't lie to the girl anymore, because that's how you hurt her. If you don't love your wife at all, don't think about it at all, talk to her and separate as cultured people.
10 I am 5. I just wanted to tell you that you are far from the truth. If you give love to a woman, she will reciprocate with love. If you play with her, will she look at you in love? Life is hellishly simple, it's just that we humans complicate it. If you want someone in your life, there must be no lies. Here the author wants to lie to his wife and sleep with the other just because he has sex. He doesn't do both honestly. And as someone wrote above: not to end up in the middle of two chairs? ! ???
In case of non-fulfillment of marital obligations, you have the full right to divorce. This is hell. If your wife does not want to have sex with you, you have the full right to divorce. And number 5 wrote mega nonsense.
You need glasses, glasses !!! The man does not think of divorcing ... Read
12, I'm 10. Look at the last sentence of 13 - it applies to you. Think about why. Help from the audience - you dirty the sum of topics with your lyrical opinions.
You will not be able to escape from yourself. It is only a matter of time before you indulge in each other. You will control yourself for a while, then you will indulge in your primary instinct, you are not made of iron. I'm not going to talk about your family, it's none of my business. PS I will wait for you to write if there has been a development in your case.
Author, you are a coward. Get her aware. And fix your life. You can't have both a wife and a mistress. Choose what you want. Obviously, many things are lame in your marriage, but choose - either try to fix it or get a divorce if you can't, and then catch your mistress and ***** her to the fullest. The girl is right - what to do when you're married. To play the role of the other woman? Isn't she crazy? And when I look at you, you don't want a divorce because it's complicated and expensive, do you? You're not going to spoil your fun for one sex now. You just want to have fun at will. But everything has a price. You know. Come on, smart. It seems to me that you will soon forget it and reorient to one that is easier to play :-)
Ah, what "dirty" you men are! You both want to be comfortable with your wives and you want to be comfortable. And now that the question arises "Will he let me go?" Well, she said the condition herself. But the guarantee is nothing! He may just want to ruin the family or try to get where he can go. I don't know, a matter of time. These "soaps" and pulls make me play dirty. Nothing serious! Either stop or play those games that you like, because I think intrigue and tension attract you, if they are not here they will be elsewhere!
Did you marry a woman just for sex? What example would you give your children in this way? How will you raise them? You have to teach us values and morals from an early age, don't you? You're big, but you don't look old at all, sorry. Girl 15 years old.
In my opinion, do not divorce. Remove the 'Little One' from your life and go for paid love. I would do so. A young man of 24 Success with the choice and head up.