Hello, I am writing here because no one knows me and I need to tell my story and maybe I am looking for advice to find a way out of the whole thing. I am a student and I work in two places. I have a friend with whom we have been living together for 3 years now, he is my student love and I never imagined that I could fall for another boy because I am not deprived of anything. My job is to communicate with a lot of people and be with them for 10 hours a day and we are like a small family, but my friend is not like that. He is back to me, he likes to be at home, he doesn't go out very much, and when we go out with my friends he starts muttering about anything, anyway. It all started with me and I know I'm guilty. One day as I was at work I started to look at one of my colleagues with different eyes and I started to like him, a week later we went out to a restaurant the whole course and then something just happened and he looked at me with different eyes, we had fun all night he finally sent me home and nothing happened, the next day we talked and I told him I had sympathy to him and to him it became interesting and from there the story began. We started going out and talking about all sorts of things and it just happened to kiss, but nothing more. Midnight chats started, going out constantly and we became very attached to each other. He started asking me if things were going well with us if I would like to live with him, he wanted to introduce me to his parents and admitted that he was in love. I also fell in love and decided that it would be very mean of me to lie to my friend and do nonsense behind his back and I decided 2 weeks after my first date with my colleague to just admit everything and I did it. And from there things went wrong.
My colleague began to feel guilty about everything that was happening to me and I asked him if he was afraid and he said he was not afraid because he knew what he wanted with me and a day later it was over. Whatever question I asked him, the answer was, "If I tell you, I'll lie to you, I'm confused and I don't know what I want and I don't want to hurt you" or "I'm sorry," and when I ask why he doesn't say anything. I don't know where to go from now on, I don't stop thinking about him, but I can't. We've been together for 10 hours and I don't know what to do. My colleague started to feel guilty about everything that was happening to me and I asked him if he was afraid and he said he was not afraid because he knew what he wanted with me and a day later it was over. Whatever question I asked him, the answer was, "If I tell you, I'll lie to you, I'm confused and I don't know what I want and I don't want to hurt you," or "I'm sorry," and when I ask why he doesn't say anything. I don't know where to go from now on, I don't stop thinking about him, but I can't. We've been together for 10 hours and I don't know what to do. My colleague began to feel guilty about everything that was happening to me and I asked him if he was afraid and he said he was not afraid because he knew what he wanted with me and a day later it was over. Whatever question I asked him, the answer was, "If I tell you, I'll lie to you, I'm confused and I don't know what I want and I don't want to hurt you," or "I'm sorry," and when I ask why he doesn't say anything. I don't know where to go from now on, I don't stop thinking about him, but I can't. We've been together for 10 hours and I don't know what to do.
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He just wanted to fuck you, and now he's insecure because he's already fucked you for sure, and you're wondering what's going on. You betrayed your boyfriend, at least he will find a decent girl. And you will roar after a while, when you realize what you missed.
Fucking idiot. He's lying to you.
Ha, good morning! Didn't warm up what happened to you? Well, the colleague kicked you, that's what he wanted, that's what you gave him. And lost interest in you. Your friend, if he is a man, will not look at you again. You ask what to do? Well the same, only with the next one. When he dumps you too, with the next one while you're screaming wherever you see a man. And in the end, some unfortunate person can be found to marry you. Come on, good luck!
You are not in love, why are you mistaken? You have an attraction to him, he interest, but nothing more. He has scabies, and is wondering how to get out of the situation unscathed.
In the beginning it is always so, but if we fall in love with every spark and liking and getting tired of our partner, what is left, we will become like a train full of wagons shift, shift, shift. HOW LONG?
You shocked him a little, you know. There are people who admire and talking is always easy. You meet someone, you go out, you like them and you start believing to the point that you even make plans for the future, make promises and aim high. This is what your colleague did. He believed in himself, but he realized that things would probably not work out. He dreamed. Later you left your friend and took real steps. He was startled, he seemed to want it, but this desire was an idea, it could not happen at the moment and he did not expect it. In one moment you write, talk and kiss, and in the next moment you break the heart of your longtime friend and focus on starting a more serious relationship with a colleague. It is very clear that he did not expect it and did not think that this between you has the potential to go that far. He had no real intentions for you, he just talked, and you believed and started acting. As much as your friend, your story ended the second you started lying to him. Okay, you looked at someone with different eyes, but instead of saying it was nonsense, you started confessing to the other one a few days later. You jumped over your head. It's one thing to look at a colleague and say he's cool, it's quite another to admit your feelings to him and start reinforcing them with meetings, writing, talking, kissing and more. you started confessing to the second one a few days later. You jumped over your head. It's one thing to look at a colleague and say he's cool, it's quite another to admit your feelings to him and start reinforcing them with meetings, writing, talking, kissing and more. you started confessing to the second one a few days later. You jumped over your head. It's one thing to look at a colleague and say he's cool, it's quite another to admit your feelings to him and start reinforcing them with meetings, writing, talking, kissing and more.
There is the thing that we have not reached anything more than going out to restaurants :)
Your question suggests that there is a difference between the two ... Women really hate biology textbooks, hey ... Finally open one and read what is written there under hormones, menstrual cycle, etc. The paradox of the human being is that has a body that doesn't understand itself ... And to say about this ... colleague that he's a super dumb piece. But obviously his IQ is under 60. Clearly, he was in trouble, but to go to colleagues, and such a supposedly with a serious friend ... Men, you have become better than women ... What do you do if one of them takes to realize what a fool she is, and give it back to you trampled? He just has to stare that you have sexually assaulted and snorted, at least in better companies ... There was a thought at the time, where even the dumbest piece is supposed to understand it - "you don't shit where you eat" ...