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Falling In Love With Your Best Friend

By wonderlandlucid October 07, 2020 6 answers Last updated October 07, 2020

Love is a fabrication for many people ... for me it was also until I felt the pain from it. My story isn't what one thinks, but it turned my life upside down. And here she is: I had just started work and still didn't know anyone. In principle, I am quite talkative and sociable, but for the first time in my life I was afraid that I would be accepted by my new colleagues. In fact, I only knew one person from there ... a boy we didn't get along with, let alone hate. Every day, I poured insults on him, as he did on me. We hated each other, we took offense, and I don't even remember how we ended up sitting next to each other. As much as we couldn't stand each other, we suddenly started talking. Over time, we became best friends. So far I was satisfied, even though I knew that I had not only friendly feelings for him. There were rumors at work that I liked him and I was afraid that he would not understand him. I took extreme measures ... I introduced him to my best friend. My goal was just to convince him that I had nothing to do with him ... and now I think that in fact this is how I tried to lie to myself. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried. There were rumors at work that I liked him and scared me not to understand him. I took extreme measures ... I introduced him to my best friend. My goal was just to convince him that I had nothing to do with him ... and now I think that in fact this is how I tried to lie to myself. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried. There were rumors at work that I liked him and scared me not to understand him. I took extreme measures ... I introduced him to my best friend. My goal was just to convince him that I had nothing to do with him ... and now I think that in fact this is how I tried to lie to myself. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried. I introduced him to my best friend. My goal was just to convince him that I had nothing to do with him ... and now I think that in fact this is how I tried to lie to myself. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried. I introduced him to my best friend. My goal was just to convince him that I had nothing to do with him ... and now I think that in fact this is how I tried to lie to myself. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried. I wanted to deceive him by introducing him to her and what did I do ... they assumed that they were experiencing a long great love. I was his best friend as I am now, but I never had what I really wanted. For fear of admitting my feelings I will always suffer and I know it, so I would advise everyone not to hide what is in his heart because it hurts a lot and is not worth it ... after all we live a life and even if we are repulsed at least will we are proud to have tried.

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RogueXd answered · October 07, 2020

   At first 4 years ago I liked him as a friend. But gradually day after day I loved him and fell in love. It's been a long time since many of my friends betrayed me except him. But a month ago I found out that my best friend was in love with him. I can't go through it because he's more than my brother. Now I wonder what to do. I want advice.

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martin249 answered · October 07, 2020

   Number 1. If you ask me, the best thing is to fall in love with your best friend - he already knows all your bad qualities and obviously likes you with them. :) Then everything is all right! My wife and I got married that way, and I don't think we were wrong.

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victormaes69 answered · October 07, 2020

   The same case passed before my eyes: D And everyone does it so unconsciously. There is no solution, find other companions, don't choose 'friends' of the opposite sex ... It's not like in the movies, but the intrigue can be complete: D

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_adellexxx answered · October 07, 2020

   IN MY OPINION, IT'S GOOD FOR A GIRL TO HAVE A BEST FRIEND A BOY, BUT IF HE FALLS IN LOVE WITH HIM, AND THEN THEY SEPARATE, THEN HE WILL NO LONGER BE BETTER. TREAD YOU JUST YOU CAN'T LOVE HIM THE SAME WAY, YOU WILL ALWAYS HATE HIM A LITTLE BECAUSE HE HAS INJURED YOU IN SOME WAY. AT LEAST I THINK SO. Well, I AM ONLY AT 13, BUT IN 6TH GRADE I EXPERIENCED SOMETHING LIKE THAT BELOW - I KNOW WHAT'S UP AND BELIEVE ME, IT'S pretty nasty. TFA FROM ME, BB.

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ezra answered · October 07, 2020

   Hi, I'm much younger than you at 12, but something like this happened to me once, I have three best friends. Their names are Chrissy Vladi and Jorko Chrissy left for Scotland in 2006 and there were only three of us left. He is coming back in the summer but that's another matter and so we are almost inseparable. my stomach has shrunk something has happened since then I still like him but in fact one day I found out from friends that he likes me too but while I was hiding my feelings he already had a girlfriend so you better tell him instead of suffering and pretending not to you like it! BAYSI!

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slut4youruse answered · October 07, 2020

   The comments are very helpful especially for the desperate girls I approve of the 1. 2. 3. 4. comments.