Lately, I've begun to realize that my attitude toward fat girls, not everyone, and especially those who act like sexy seducers, is to experience something in between - strong dislike, nausea at the sight of them, and even something like hatred. But tell me, is this normal, can you say that people envied your gorgeous shapes and what the hell are gorgeous shapes, elephant-like legs, a big shapeless ass, hands on which the fat hangs and shakes so much with each movement, and even in cases where they have large breasts, their "bagpipes" are slightly different from the general background of their shaking bodies, torso, large cheeks, etc., horror! Let me mention that I am a boy and in my teenage years I was quite fat, but I decided to pay attention to myself, healthy living, training in the gym, food selection, instead of just complaining about my genetics. Unless it's a disease, probably no more than 5% of obese people have gotten there because of a disease. But obese for whatever reason, it gives you the right to take out the eyes of people in uncomfortably short and cropped clothes, complete with the sweet demeanor of these hippos, as if they were little cute fairies. Get out of my sight, or at least don't behave in a way that doesn't suit you, the same goes for your clothes. I would never allow myself to be so humiliated in front of others, but I have always tried to see myself in a third person, or to inquire about other people's opinion, and what judgment these girls have for themselves, or all the people around them are too delicate !? And why the hell are they to make different tattoos on parts of the body, such as the waist, say, the shoulder, the ABDOMINAL AREA! ? What exactly do you aim to show that even in your 20s you can already have a bunch of stretch marks, tons of fat, get tired of short physical exercise !? As they say in English "Big is beautiful.", No, it is not and never will be, it is not healthy for you! I never liked fat people in general, not even when I was fat (I didn't like myself either), but at least I didn't try to humiliate myself like that. What do you think, have you had a clash with such individuals who have an enviably high self-esteem? nor when I was fat (I didn't like myself either), but at least I didn't try to humiliate myself like that. What do you think, have you had a clash with such individuals who have an enviably high self-esteem? nor when I was fat (I didn't like myself either), but at least I didn't try to humiliate myself like that. What do you think, have you had a clash with such individuals who have an enviably high self-esteem?
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Depending on the thickness dude sometimes fat people are quite sexy.
Your topic speaks only about your unenviable low self-esteem and the presence of a particularly high number of complexes. What hinders your forms or the unhealthy lifestyle of others? Isn't that their job? Does anyone make you like someone? The man without complexes is not impressed by ugliness and misbehavior, he sees only beauty in people.
Well done, tell them! Debelankovtsi, take matters into your own hands ... Don't splash all the time, there are more important things than food. Nobody likes the fat ones!
God, how superficial you are. Some people like what you do in the work, who will dress and what they will look like. I am convinced that you are not perfect, no one is. I hate people like you the most. And what if one day your wife gets pregnant and gains a lot of weight, what will you drive her away because she is overweight? !! Wow, because of people like you, many people end their lives with ridicule and insults. And to clarify one last thing: You are stupid, and they are fat - they will lose weight, and what will you do?
The woman with gorgeous shapes is not fat. Gorgeous shapes are feminine curves - a nice bust, ass, body contours, not 20 or more kg on top, that's right. When I say that I like nice curves, I do not mean that I like fat women, but those who have feminine bodies. and are not equal everywhere-a matter of taste. I don't know what kind of gorgeous girls you're talking about. Some have unrealistic ideas and think that almost everyone is fat. Let's say that's not the case with you, and you really see the shaky flesh you described. Okay. There are also full girls who dress provocatively, behave seductively, and so on, and so do others. You have the right to have an opinion and to dislike them with the way they look and behave, but you have no right to say they don't. They just don't meet your aesthetic criteria, but they can be as seductive and challenging as they want, just as someone with a phenomenal body (according to your criteria) can be. MHK
It's good that it's you to tell us what to like and what not. I want to sneak into your head for at least an hour and see what's wrong there :) Surely something will be found !!!! Why don't you let people live the way they want to? !! Look in your own bowl and don't determine how other people should live. Today you are hindered by the fat, tomorrow you will be hindered by the tattooed, then by the too weak, the make-up, the super-intelligent, the dumb ... Open your eyes a little and don't be such a tree - the world is colorful and that's exactly what it's good for! If you don't like them, avoid them as much. Everyone is free to be what they want to be! I don't like limited people either, but I read the scriptures to you ...
As you do not like the fat, I hate the weak, who look like anorexics and are literally a bag of bones! Which is more unhealthy and ugly?
Oh my God! The author is talking about exalted fat girls, not a woman with gorgeous shapes, if she has a big bust and a slightly bigger ass, but she has a waist that is not thick. but to have 3 rows of tits and pretend to be very sexy will not happen. I am 15 and although everyone in my family is full and has a hormonal imbalance, I train and eat healthy. they can't fold fries in the meantime and then say "some people just can't lose weight" to turn around and keep shaking their bacon from all areas in tight-fitting wedges and high-heeled shoes.
That's a dude, you're right. Apparently some fat people are attacking you here because they are angry. Fat girls dress provocatively? In me, this only causes disgust and ridicule. A friend's wife eats a box of Borovets waffles while reading the newspaper, stuffs sandwiches and a piece of pizza and tells my classmate that you see nothing feminine in her, given that the girl has been a mother for several years but has the body of a goddess. And for those who will start with the on-duty remarks about the anorexic girls with their protruding bones - NOT AS I SAY A GODDESS I MEAN A GODDESS NOT A STRAWBERRY. She is an example of what sports and proper nutrition can do with a woman. The fat ones are angry and break. They are angry because they can't stop splashing jam and dough. They are angry because they are bored and it hurts them. I know what you mean and I support you.
Number 9, even if the author is right, he still has no right to demand people's account for THEIR BODIES. The important thing is that the author has a nice body, right? Otherwise, he's right. I'm a woman in my late 20s and yes - because of nervous eating, I gained weight. At 173 cm height weighs 66 kg. I don't feel well, even though I have a tight body - I do a lot of fitness. I'm losing weight now, but FOR MYSELF, not because of people like the author. No one has the right to interfere in people's lives. I have fat, thin and all kinds of friends. I can decide for myself what kind of body I want to have and do something to model it. The bodies of others are not important to me, as long as they are healthy. If someone has health problems I allow myself some other advice, but if you are slightly overweight, you are usually a healthy person. My mother is a little full, but the woman is 58 - what now, to harass her to lose weight? When you are older, it is more useful to be slightly full. It is good for me to lose weight and that is why I will do it, but I am not interested in the opinion of people like the author!
In my opinion, the problem is not that you hate fat girls, but that you hate your former You. You were fat, weren't you ... obviously when you see a fat girl, you think of yourself. Don't do that ... man, no matter how unpleasant their bodies are, I've seen quite beautiful girls in their faces. By the way, a lot of men like such bodies, but you're obviously not one of them, which is normal, everyone has a taste. Just ignore it. I'm also annoyed by gay boys (with pink blouses, women's glasses and watches, shaped eyebrows), but unfortunately I see them every day :(
Oops, the bitter fat women are attacking !! They don't have the willpower to limit sweets and pastries ... they're too lazy to drag their fat Kansas-sized asses to the gym ... and hop we support people have been superficial ahaha Thanks to the author for the topic. Let the cans, with a self-confidence greater than their thighs, realize, stop their impudent attitude towards others and not imagine that swirling on the chalgoteks in scanty clothes, causing earthquakes, is sexy because they are pathetic.
I have diabetes and I'm chubby ... However, did you know that calling someone a "Pig" or a sumo wrestler every day is unpleasant and destroys the self-esteem, especially of teenagers! It is a pity that the young generation is learning to make fun of! Is appearance the most important thing? Too bad if you think so!
You are terrible and you insult a lot of people.
There are very fat women in England or America and in gyms and everywhere. It is not healthy, but it is their right how to dress, how to behave, how to live their lives. Learn to accept these people as they are.
The fact that some are fatter or "more lavish" I do not see what right you have to insult them. Yes, I understand that being 100 kg and wearing tight-fitting clothes and high heels is terribly ugly, but I guess you are not the person who has the right to judge them, they have parents for that. I, for example, was overweight. I walked in loose clothes and tried not to talk to anyone. After that, I went out to run in the park, limited my diet, and improved my vision. Then I went to the gym, the result is obvious. But some overweight people do not go to the gym because they are ashamed. Have you thought about that? Even if they say "some people just can't lose weight" they want to be thin, everyone wants to look good. After all, we live in a "beautiful society" in which, if you are not weak or beautiful,
I understand. I have seen similar girls. I do not mind obese girls, but FAT girls who have high self-esteem - I do not accept. To be about 100 kilograms and to wear short jeans - please? I see it all the time, it's not beautiful. And besides not being beautiful, it is also unhealthy. These are 20-30 kilograms OVER normal. These people will later have heart problems, etc. Weight is heavier, life is harder with them. I've always been pretty weak, at the other extreme - it's hard for me to gain weight. And often that's how I read my morale, how weak I am. The difference - I can't change anything, and they can. I know a few girls (not the ones you describe; they tried to cover their bodies) and a lot of them succeeded! And I admire them. And now, in addition to feeling more beautiful, they are also healthier. Before, only when climbing a few stairs stopped, the whole red, and now it is much better. Don't listen to them tell you on TV that we don't need to hide our shortcomings, we need to show them. These are some democratic slogans that do not apply in some more drastic situations.
It is true that it is ugly when not so weak people exalt themselves and claim to like themselves, but can this be a defensive reaction? Because maybe their ego doesn't allow them to admit that they are fat and prefer the people around them to think that they don't care? At least that's what I think. Of course there are those who obviously like ... I don't know. And of course I'm not talking about fuller girls in the order of 60 and a few, 70 and a few pounds, etc., but about really fat people (with an apology, although I don't know what I'm apologizing for, they allowed this to happened.) Otherwise about that with wearing more cut-out clothes, tattoos, etc., this is their body after all, don't you think? Even if you don't like it, they like it and that's the important thing! Even if I don't like the view, I just won't watch / judge so much, what comes into my work who has what tattoo or what he wears ... let everyone feel free to do what he wants. After all, we live in a time when we are allowed to do / wear whatever we want. It will be best to look at ourselves. And you did so.
To number 19, you're right. Both extremes - too weak and too fat, someone reads you morals. One of my friends is quite weak, and she always hears shouts like - "you will break", "upholstered skeleton" and others. In general, if you want to gain weight, you can do it with fitness. There are all kinds of programs, ~ Black Rabbit
Abe, the fat woman when she starts dressing provocatively is really pretty ridiculous. I had a fat boyfriend who was not full, but really fat, who for some reason wore extremely provocative and often transparent clothes, as a result of which at times I felt ridiculous next to her. True, her face was very beautiful, but she was under 160 cm tall and weighed about 80 kg, so the sexy dress was definitely not the most suitable for her. Well, I never made any remarks about it, because it's still her job how she dresses, but it was definitely ridiculous. Now I have a neighbor in the neighborhood. She is about 165 cm tall, certainly weighs over 100 kg, but how much I do not dare to say, because she is really huge. Lucy Ilarionov's bit, but in a feminine way. She is disgusting even to watch, what is left for something else? And what is more shocking - she constantly complains of various health problems and pains, and the next moment, whenever I see her, she is always with chocolate in her hands ... But Lucy Ilarionov can finally afford to give 10 thousands of euros, and at least partially dull her health problems, and I just don't know what awaits her ... Who feels how it doesn't matter when it comes to a person's health. I believe that there are both men and women who are very fat and are okay with that, but will everything be healthy, especially in old age? and at least in part to blunt her health problems, and I just don't know what awaits her ... Who feels how it doesn't matter when it comes to a person's health. I believe that there are both men and women who are very fat and are okay with that, but will everything be healthy, especially in old age? and at least in part to blunt her health problems, and I just don't know what awaits her ... Who feels how it doesn't matter when it comes to a person's health. I believe that there are both men and women who are very fat and are okay with that, but will everything be healthy, especially in old age?
Fat women do not irritate me if, for example, they have not done anything to provoke negative emotions or if they are positive and do not offend me. To those whose nature is such, it is not their fault that they cannot look the way they want. I had a friend who always claimed that he fell in love with thin women, I even thought that if he was with me I should be his type but it turned out the opposite that he liked fat or obviously changed from one extreme to the other which I do not know how, I explain it to myself so everything is possible when he is in love. There is no point in looking so much at your appearance, whether you are fat or thin will not make you more beautiful or better, and so on.
To lose weight was a diet important interesting To like nice .... beautiful children .... secretly ...
It's really sad how hostile most people are to fat people. It can happen to anyone to gain weight. Even if you are weak now, there is no guarantee that you will always be weak. And just because you don't like someone doesn't mean you can make fun of them. For example, I don't like too skinny, but so what? Everyone has the right to an opinion, but personal opinion is not a fact.
You know what, man, you're right. And I don't understand them. Being fat and wearing wedges, for example, is just absurd. I would never do that ... I can't call myself a weak person, I rather fall into the category of "fat". For me, my height is salvation, so to speak - 1, 83 I am tall and weigh maybe 90. I have always played sports, I love to ride a bike, but my ranking of sports tops swimming! And what is typical for the whole family, is typical for me - we love sweets. :) What to do, eh, I'm still struggling with this addiction ... And after this confession I just want to say that I would never wear a super short skirt, dress or some tight clothes. I think it's absurd. You just have to have some kind of objective idea of what it looks like. And I would never start talking badly about a weak girl - I even enjoy them. When I see a chick with weak cool legs and I will stare, I admit. Your beautiful body is beautiful! Well, everyone has different talents, but in the end everyone can work towards cultivation, right. And I will not give up fighting addiction to sweets and continue to actively play sports, as I like. And so do they. :)
My math teacher at school was a fat woman, I speak drastically fat - over 150 kg. he weighed, but he was a super positive and cool person! Everyone loved her, she always wore tight-fitting dresses and pants, but she didn't care at all about the opinion of those around her! Whenever we invited her to parties and gatherings, she would come and even sing, stylishly dressed, always in a very "tight" dress, emphasizing her gorgeous shapes. I even remember telling us '' It doesn't matter if you're full or thin, it never mattered and never will, the important thing is what you have in your "pumpkin"! "